My Cousin divorced his wife 4 days into their wedding and he is PISSED OFF!

[Kaleel]

He purchased the wrong product. She falsely advertised herself as a virgin thereby upping her value and she's a liar. He is right to divorce her on principle.

 

[Transparent]

Exactly. It's 100% haram for both of us but only one will have dire consequences which is reflected on how they're punished.

Therefore the woman has to be extra cautious as it will most likely affect her dunya as well as her Akirah when a man can just dip and face the consequences on judgement day

 

[TheMadMullah]

No to that bastard your cousin. She was wrong in lying but he was a himself??????

Lol they were both hoes but one was honest the other one was not

 

[VixR]

On the real, I've heard a few stories of Somali guys in the area duping some naive girls and then dipping. The resultant irony is that the ones who mess around can't mess around with each other; they mess with others, so no one really knows who's what.

 

[Von]

I'm a virgin and if my wife has the balls to lie to me after i have given her an ultimatum prior to the marriage i will not hesitate to end it right there.It is my right to have a virgin and i want my right.

if you do have a wedding ill be there

UPDATE guys!

I'm on the phone with his younger bro and he is telling me that the dude left is gf of 3 years for her.

The girlfriend was cadaan and she is a surgeon but he was getting enormous pressure from the family to find a Somali gf especially from my Aunt ( his hooyo).. he seemed really to have liked her so much and now this.

I'm guessing he loves his cadaan ex-girlfriend and should be honest about it. That's straight hypocritical to think he would get angry about someone for having sex when he was hundred percent smashing the surgeon. He should not blame his wife but himself, tell him to leave the money so this ends the problem quickly so that it does not blow up into a huge issue. Honestly, he hurt not just his wife but his ex, if he drags this out he will lose both.

 

[Yahya Liban-Lewis]

That's what I used to think......but not really true to be honest. I got stories for days. I agree promiscuity is less common in AU, but at the end of the day hoeing is a world wide phenomena. People gon get their freak on where ever they are.

Thank you! Niggas think that hoeing only happens in certain areas, when it happens everywhere

 

[TheMadMullah]

if you do have a wedding ill be there


I'm guessing he loves his cadaan ex-girlfriend and should be honest about it. That's straight hypocritical to think he would get angry about someone for having sex when he was hundred percent smashing the surgeon. He should not blame his wife but himself, tell him to leave the money so this ends the problem quickly so that it does not blow up into a huge issue. Honestly, he hurt not just his wife but his ex, if he drags this out he will lose both.

I honestly believe in recent years he was so much attached to the Somali girl and I talked to her twice and she seemed a very decent person who maybe slipped once in her teenage years. But after all she should have been honest or could it be that if she told him she wasn't Virgin she thought he will drop her?

 

[Transparent]

if you do have a wedding ill be there

NO FREE MIXING GANG,EAT DAT BARIIS AND DIP GAANG

 

[Transparent]

Thank you! Niggas think that hoeing only happens in certain areas, when it happens everywhere

war niyahow yaxye,reer canada wax ka xun majidho,your females have sex more than they eat maccas

 

[Yahya Liban-Lewis]

But you can also say maybe he just wanted honesty I'm sure his ex cadaan gf was not virgin and he didn't mind it... he feels she betrayed him when he was honest all along... am gonna give him a call and hear from him personally lol

He shouldn't feel betrayed because he's not a virgin himself. I would understand betrayal if he was a virgin and his wife was not. But this dude was slanging around his "sabaayad wrap" and giving it out like how a Jehovah Witness gives out pamphlets. He shouldn't be mad at her not being a virgin.

He should just move on, chill, and they need to both have fun in the sariirta.

 

[TheMadMullah]

He purchased the wrong product. She falsely advertised herself as a virgin thereby upping her value and she's a liar. He is right to divorce her on principle.

Speaking of principles I think that is true and since he is fucking white washed he really values principle as I have Noticed

But true I would have been pissed as welll

 

[Yahya Liban-Lewis]

war niyahow yaxye,reer canada wax ka xun majidho,your females have sex more than they eat maccas

To be honest, it's only a small few that are promiscuous and alcoholics. A majority of Somalis here are conservative and instill their culture.

 

[EternalLightX]

Therefore the woman has to be extra cautious as it will most likely affect her dunya as well as her Akirah when a man can just dip and face the consequences on judgement day

Why don't we just have sex free love

 

[Kaleel]

Speaking of principles I think that is true and since he is fucking white washed he really values principle as I have Noticed

But true I would have been pissed as welll

Just to be clear when I say "value" I mean meher money, I don't think she's less cause she's not a virgin.

 

[Shamis]

Is virginity that important to some guys?

 

[Transparent]

Why don't we just have sex free love

stds,hiv, unwanted pregnancies ect, and i don't want to use a condom,i want to go in that shit raw like a xabashi, wearing a condom is like putting a plastic bag over your tongue when you're about to eat your favourite dessert .

 

[TheMadMullah]

Is virginity that important to some guys?

I guess for some it is and for others it's more important if you honest about when you not:siilaanyolaugh:

 

[Transparent]

I guess for some it is and for others it's more important if you honest about when you not and:siilaanyolaugh:

the shit is critical, i dont want the mother of my children to be a hoe ffs,these xalimos have lost the plot

 

[Shamis]

I guess for some it is and for others it's more important if you honest about when you not:siilaanyolaugh:

Islamically you're not meant to publish your sins.

 

[Odeg]

Yes, that's why he's pissed. Hypocrisy eh. A non-virgin man wants a virgin wife

These Somali guys never seem to amaze me with their thinking.

In this case it is hypocrisy but it is what it is.

She shouldnt have lied about her past.