1. Manafesto

    How to handle & earn a beautiful Somali lady as a husband(Informative article with tips lol)
  2. NinWero

    My Friend just Cancelled his Wedding ....

    So, my friend, a Somali guy was introduced to this girl at a wedding at the end of 2021. At the time he was looking to get married and he and the girl took a liking to each other and started talking. After a few months of talking, he decide to seek her hand and the family accepted it. The...
  3. Rorschach

    Some little known facts and tidbits

    My fellow dwellers. I thought it'd be a good idea to share a few tidbits on gender, marriage, family, etc. that's not oft discussed. Feel free to add to the tread. Let's start with this: According to the Prophet (SAW): The child is to be attributed to one on whose bed he is born, and for an...
  4. Hmohamed54

    My mother wants me to marry back home (somaliland)

    My mother and older sister (who got married in America) both suggested that I marry back home. I'm 22 years old and I'm currently a mid-level software engineer making $250K in Columbus, Ohio. She told me she will find me a beautiful pious girl and that there’s more to choose in somaliland. I...
  5. R

    How many mixed somalis do u think there in the UK, USA,Canada,Scandinavia or even world wide?

    As someone who was born in the early 2000s in the UK, I grew up not seeing any mixed somalis at all. Then with the rise of social media, I started seeing more and more mixed somalis including celebs like maya jama, mastermind etc. Now on Tiktok, ive realised theres actually a decent number of...
  6. mr.overeasy

    What is the best way to approach Somali girls I don't know

    I am talking diaspora here in the us, but any knowledge on mainlanders can be useful on my next trip. Anyway please drop the knowledge on a young brother. This is the biggest blindspot for me when it comes to interaction, I can get along with anyone except girls I want to talk to for marriage...
  7. Manafesto

    NEWS Speaker of Somaliland lower parliament suggests death sentence to same sex married couples and expelling of Christian missionaries in SL

    The SL parliamentarian voice his opinion and what the other parliamentarian believe to deal with the increasing same sex marriages in the triangle state, he also argues expelling the Christian missionaries in the northwestern desert state of Somalia, kudos for reer Somaliland for waking...
  8. Odkac WRLD

    Sahih Bukhari Hadiths on Marriage.

    Kkkkk as we all know marriage is a very big topic here, on Twitter, and in the Somali community as a whole. :lolbron: With that in mind, I thought it would be interesting for some of you to read some hadith regarding marriage from Sahih Bukhari, from the Book of An-Nikah. :nvjpqts: I will add...
  9. Abdisamad

    Ladies, suppose you have the three following options

    Suppose you met a guy, after you get to know him you find out he is the man of your dreams, you fall in love. He proposes to you throws you an expensive lavish wedding that would make every xalimo envy you, finally your dream has come true, you are happy madly in love up in the clouds.. After...
  10. Maverick 2.0

    Marriage is a Scam

    Since I've seen so many posts related to marriage and young fellas on here talking about love, I just want to say to you all that marriage is not all that great as its made out to be. What's wrong with staying single? A lot of people are unhappy with their marriages and are ONLY in the...
  11. Maverick 2.0

    Marriage is Pointless

    You don't have to get married if you already have a lover you can just live with your significant other. It's literally the same thing. :westbrookwtf: Studies have shows that divorces are on the rise in the United States, while marriage rates are declining. Not to mention that if your a man and...
  12. soomaa

    I spent my whole life despising Somali girls who marry ajnabis. Now my own sister is marrying one

    Before you ask for my gender, thats irrelevant. The rise of ajanbi marriages in the Somali diaspora community is an epidemic that I never imagined would bring its wrath on my own family. Now I have to live with the real threat of having an ajnabi fathered child as my nephew
  13. strawberrii


    Everyone here is obsessed with marriage and sex. Marry this, marry that. K***i this, k***i that. Waa ramadan, illahi ka baq
  14. Helios

    SSPOT Marry/Kill/Adopt

    Simple, who are you going to marry? who will you kill? and who will you adopt??? I'd obviously marry @Saredo @Samaalic Era is going to get sprayed before he can get his hands on a poor cousin And I will adopt @Basra as my child
  15. S


    If you don’t want to marry the person from your ethnicity or date them is it self-hating?
  16. Odkac WRLD

    My Treatise on Polygamy in the Somali Community

    I’ve noticed the majority of Somali men are ok with polygamy, yet the overwhelming majority of woman are vehemently against it.... the men getting multiple wives these days are mostly wastemen. If you can barely afford one family why get a second, other than for sex? I believe polygamy should...
  17. Odkac WRLD

    Farax nation so gala

    What race of women are you most attracted to. What nationally would you want to get with or even marry?
  18. Nostalgia

    Moving in with the in-laws after getting married...

    I know in some cultures it's seen as caadi, for the lady to move in with her in-laws to either live permanently or for a few months until the couple are economically stable. My question is would you be willing to move in with your in-laws?
  19. Abdisamad

    Quick question for the ladies

    Imagine you are a career woman, with a high degree and have been working your ass off. Without noticing the years have been passing by and you now find yourself in this situation or shall I say at an age where your eggs are about to expire, the curve is declining by the month and the clock is...
  20. Medulla

    Would you use a Somali Dating App?

    Similar to Tinder and Muzmatch a app catered towards Somali's in the diaspora. For those of you too tribalist to marry out , there will be a premium user option for 4.99 a month where you can see the person's qabiil before matching. More features to come let me know what you think