Ladies, suppose you have the three following options

[Abdisamad]

Suppose you met a guy, after you get to know him you find out he is the man of your dreams, you fall in love. He proposes to you throws you an expensive lavish wedding that would make every xalimo envy you, finally your dream has come true, you are happy madly in love up in the clouds.. After you get married still madly in love with your man and 5 months pregnant and expecting your first baby, you find out he has another wife and 3 kids which he left in another country in a different continent.Mind you he has no intention of bringing her or the kids over. He is not divorced and you are his second wife and tells you he will visit his other family once a year .. Suppose you have the three following options.

A. Demand your divorce papers
B. Demand him to divorce his first wife
C. Since childrens are involved which will be the siblings of your kid, you restrain yourself and remain a second wife.

So ladies what option would you choose?

 

[Gambar]

How do you marry someone and not know they have a wife and family? Somalis talk a lot, there’s no way you wouldn’t know. If she is satisfied being the second wife and not having to see her then kudos.

 

[Abdisamad]

How do you marry someone and not know they have a wife and family? Somalis talk a lot, there’s no way you wouldn’t know. If she is satisfied being the second wife and not having to see her then kudos.

You can't know if he comes from a different continent and has a new identity.. Call him stealthy farax

 

[abdullah233]

This is the farax version of 90 day fiancé kkkk

 

[Abdisamad]

Sisters don't get triggered, this a hypothetical scenario. Just stay calm and answer my questions rationally

 

[Octavian]

Suppose you met a guy, after you get to know him you find out he is the man of your dreams, you fall in love. He proposes to you throws you an expensive lavish wedding that would make every xalimo envy you, finally your dream has come true, you are happy madly in love up in the clouds.. After you get married still madly in love with your man and 5 months pregnant and expecting your first baby, you find out he has another wife and 3 kids which he left in another country in a different continent.Mind you he has no intention of bringing her or the kids over. He is not divorced and you are his second wife and tells you he will visit his other family once a year .. Suppose you have the three following options.

A. Demand your divorce papers
B. Demand him to divorce his first wife
D. Since childrens are involved which will be the siblings of your kid, you restrain yourself and remain a second wife.

So ladies what option would you choose?

this is tv material wallahi u should become a righter

 

[abdullah233]

this is tv material wallahi u should become a righter

It’s a common situation for Faraxs to have secret families on the side

 

[Abdisamad]

This thread is inspired by my dear @Desert Flower many relationship topics.. Cheers my heart

 

[Saredo]

Suppose you met a guy, after you get to know him you find out he is the man of your dreams, you fall in love. He proposes to you throws you an expensive lavish wedding that would make every xalimo envy you, finally your dream has come true, you are happy madly in love up in the clouds.. After you get married still madly in love with your man and 5 months pregnant and expecting your first baby, you find out he has another wife and 3 kids which he left in another country in a different continent.Mind you he has no intention of bringing her or the kids over. He is not divorced and you are his second wife and tells you he will visit his other family once a year .. Suppose you have the three following options.

A. Demand your divorce papers
B. Demand him to divorce his first wife
D. Since childrens are involved which will be the siblings of your kid, you restrain yourself and remain a second wife.

So ladies what option would you choose?

You forgot option C.

karbash him. And show him who’s the alpha now.
everyone( his wife and kids) is working for me.

 

[Abdisamad]

You forgot option C.

karbash him. And show him who’s the alpha now.
everyone( his wife and kids) is working for me.

Corrected lool.. Ever since the update on sspot it has been a struggle writing from my Huawei phone

 

[Sophisticate]

This would never happen.

I screen all prospects and I'm aware of the reality that 'some men' obfuscate the truth and strategically omit key pieces of information just to 'get the girl'. We're Somali, you can't tell me that you didn't know about his dirty little deeds. Brother, please.

 

[Octavian]

It’s a common situation for Faraxs to have secret families on the side

true a friend of my dad has like 10+ kids here and is currently marrying a chick from back home

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[Abdisamad]

This would never happen.

I screen all prospects and I'm aware of the reality that 'some men' obfuscate the truth and strategically omit key pieces of information just to 'get the girl'. We're Somali, you can't tell me that you didn't know about his dirty little deeds. Brother, please.

It's a hypothetical scenario.. You got triggered

 

[Abdisamad]

true a friend of my dad has like 10+ kids here and is currently marrying a chick from back home

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Adeero is making his own tribe.. Don't hate warya

 

[Octavian]

Adeero is making his own tribe.. Don't hate warya

bruuh nothing is more tragic than to beg ur own kids for money in order to have more kids with another woman while leaving theirs

 

[AishaBarri]

A is too simple, too easy and drama free. There has to be a way to make him pay. Involve the government somehow Jail time maybe??

 

[Gambar]

You can't know if he comes from a different continent and has a new identity.. Call him stealthy farax

All you have to do is give his family’s name, his qabiil and where he’s from you’ll find out everything. There’s no way to hide.

 

[Desert Flower]

This thread is inspired by my dear @Desert Flower many relationship topics.. Cheers my heart

Glad I could be a trailblazer. The formula works.

Congratulations in advance on your platinum thread.

 

[Desert Flower]

But seriously, I’ll bite. I’d leave because he wasn’t honest (lying by omission). But it’s my fault because I didn’t do due diligence and do a thorough background check on him.

 

[Ghandi23]

Why is this even an issue? Either they're sister wives and cool about it or it's none of her business. In fact, I recommend stealthily having multiple wives and then letting them know, before having kids, just to see who you can stick with long-term.