marriage

You don't have to get married if you already have a lover you can just live with your significant other. It's literally the same thing. :westbrookwtf: Studies have shows that divorces are on the rise in the United States, while marriage rates are declining. Not to mention that if your a man and...

Before you ask for my gender, thats irrelevant. The rise of ajanbi marriages in the Somali diaspora community is an epidemic that I never imagined would bring its wrath on my own family. Now I have to live with the real threat of having an ajnabi fathered child as my nephew

Everyone here is obsessed with marriage and sex. Marry this, marry that. K***i this, k***i that. Waa ramadan, illahi ka baq

Simple, who are you going to marry? who will you kill? and who will you adopt??? I'd obviously marry @Saredo @Samaalic Era is going to get sprayed before he can get his hands on a poor cousin And I will adopt @Basra as my child

If you don’t want to marry the person from your ethnicity or date them is it self-hating?

I’ve noticed the majority of Somali men are ok with polygamy, yet the overwhelming majority of woman are vehemently against it.... the men getting multiple wives these days are mostly wastemen. If you can barely afford one family why get a second, other than for sex? I believe polygamy should...

What race of women are you most attracted to. What nationally would you want to get with or even marry?

I know in some cultures it's seen as caadi, for the lady to move in with her in-laws to either live permanently or for a few months until the couple are economically stable. My question is would you be willing to move in with your in-laws?

Imagine you are a career woman, with a high degree and have been working your ass off. Without noticing the years have been passing by and you now find yourself in this situation or shall I say at an age where your eggs are about to expire, the curve is declining by the month and the clock is...

Similar to Tinder and Muzmatch a app catered towards Somali's in the diaspora. For those of you too tribalist to marry out , there will be a premium user option for 4.99 a month where you can see the person's qabiil before matching. More features to come let me know what you think

Like many Somali young folks, I’ve been to a shit ton of weddings. majority of them are in huge Venues, costing groom tens of thousands. Singers, food, and hosting so many is a strain financially to start the marriage. I was at a wedding last week. Very small and personal, with groom and bride...

People are actually promoting the idea that a woman over 25 is spoiled milk :damn: WTF I understand 30s but 25 is two to three years out of uni :drakelaugh: tf is going on? Personally I’d be willing to consider a woman anywhere from 2 years younger to 8 years older got a nice 10 year window...

This is the weird girl who wanted faracs die, and while she is A certified retard (who likely had her nudes leaked by some geeljire :damn:) One of her tweets perked my interest. I don’t know if you noticed, but the trend of younger Somali kids getting married in the west has skyrocketed. Which...

I've been wondering, do we have any statistics among the Somali Diasporas as to how many Somali men and women marry out? I do see quite a lot of interracial Somali couples, online and IRL. Obviously, the majority of Somalis will intermarry, and I do expect more Somali women to marry out than...

So my cuzzo, my old role model, the big bro is preparing to ask for this girls hand by meeting her dad. Real traditional. He works for a pretty well know tech company and makes serious $$$. We in Cali and the girl is UK so he gonna grab some of us his abtis in the area and talk to the dad...

I am not very informed on my culture to my shame, but I was wondering if you guys could break down what happens during a Somali wedding, what you need, and the costs.

We talk about women’s age in marriage often, but when should a man start his family? personally I think as soon as it is financially feasible as I personally would not want to be 40 with an infant I wanna always be involved in family life. I am interested in hearing SSpot’s thoughts on this...

I'm in a tough predicament. My parents have always been fairly lenient on me and I've never given them a reason to doubt me. I am a full-time uni student and work full-time as well. But my mom refuses for me to go overseas, even countries where I have IMMEDIATE family. They tried to use the...

I know relationship topics are boring as f*ck, but I feel this can help Somalis who are delving into the world of romance. I operate on a three tier system, and I hope you all too. Looks:Attractiveness, do I wanna smash you? :lolbron: Personality: Do we resonate with each other? Do our values...

Was bored at work so chatted with 2 Pakistani brothers at work. Was really curious suddenly about marriage so asked them how much they paid for meher. Them niggas telling me ,one signed 30k meher and other 50k meher, but they tell me they didn't pay everything up front and will pay gradually as...