My mother and older sister (who got married in America) both suggested that I marry back home. I'm 22 years old and I'm currently a mid-level software engineer making $250K in Columbus, Ohio. She told me she will find me a beautiful pious girl and that there’s more to choose in somaliland. I think I’m confident enough that I can find a wife here but I haven’t been there so I don’t know if I should turn down that offer. I'm confused why my mother who has 5 daughters that grew up in America would want her son to marry back home. Who will marry the girls in America?