You are so absolutely right. If I saw you on the street I would hug you. You are the most smartest xalimo on sspot I have across so far.Most Women have a list of expectations, desires and demands for the men when they cant even provide anything in the marriage except what's between their legs. Women cant expect the world from a man and then sit on their butt's waiting for him to cater to her at the snap of a finger. Dont make marriage difficult for these brothers out here. Many of them are old and unmarried because they can't afford to pay for the womans outrageous dowry amount.