I don't consider a person who doesn't believe in his creator as intelligent, nor do I consider someone who is irreligious and content with this pathetic hedonistic, nihilistic worldly life.
I understand your sentiment and had I been in the same shoe as the above type (May Allah protect us from it) I would agree with you, but I am not.
You wouldn't like this type of lifestyle for your own daughters, sisters or mother, regardless of how corrupt these female's have become today.
You don't counter filth and degeneracy with more filth and degeneracy of a different variety, you always have the option to leave this society and pro-create elsewhere that is more conducive to family.
How do you know I live a life of hedonism? How do you know I'm a nihilist? You say you dismiss me because I don't believe in a creator (never even said that), but you know nothing about my beliefs or values.
Perhaps it should be me who dismisses you, because there's no logical reason to acknowledge someone who lives in ignorance and stupidity.
Lifestyles for my daughters, sisters or mother, eh? LOL, you really are an idiot. How many supposedly religious women and men live the very lifestyle you say they should reject? I'm sure you'd say something along the lines of, "I don't consider them either, they're not living right. They are in the wrong path. Follow a book from 1400 years ago to know everything you need to know. Don't think, just follow."
Now for your final idiotic point: leaving society and making a family there. I assume you mean back home in Somalia. Or another Muslim nation.
Most aren't developed. That's the first obvious fact, so if you are thinking about a safe haven for your kids to grow up in, you already removed that, by making this emotionally motivated decision. And yet, you claim that this would be conducive to your family. How? Because divorces are more socially ridiculed there? So you'd rather have a woman who does whatever you say so you never have to live in a world where you'd be divorced in the first place.
If that's the case, that proves that when you say "conducive", you don't mean for your "family", in the sense of your wive(s?), and kids, but to your ideal family unit, regardless of their opinions on the matter.
They may not even be religious. My own uncle married a woman from back home. Came to Canada. Lived it up. Looked happy. Had a kid. She divorced him out of the blue (he did nothing wrong), took the kid, and she and her side of the family don't speak to him. How's that for conducive?
So do you still believe in your self deluded claim that it's greener in the other side, even though you haven't lived in said side? If so, then why should anyone even consider you intelligent enough for any semi serious conversation?