I need to get me revert

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  1. Farhiya 687

    Farhiya 687

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    Playing devils advocate here. But say your husband never does anything nice for you. In the sense of trips or gifts. Would you be okay with that? Like most men like women who would be kind and supportive towards him. If he never got that he’ll feel some type of way.

    I’m not trying provoke or be rude just curious.
     
  2. Farhiya 687

    Farhiya 687

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    Exactly don’t listen to what men say their actions are substantive. Lol ever see them allowing their daughter to get with men of no means. Barely...
     
  3. HalimaJ

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    Men encourage other men to have high standards, whilst simultaneously expecting women (who are not family members) to lower their standards.
     
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  4. Zahra

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    My husband goes above and beyond for me. I have no complaints. But I also do a lot for him too. You women ask ask, ask, but you never stop to think of the burden your probably putting on him just to make you happy . You put him in debt just for your own satisfaction. Life is not all about Vacationing and gifts, these YouTube videos got you effed up.
     
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  5. Zahra

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    Showing your true gold digging ways. That's why you'll be pushing mid 30's and not married still.
     
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  6. Farhiya 687

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    I ask so as not to be rude and assume. Lol but funny how you assumed nonetheless. I see far too much women that gives 170% to ungrateful men. So you see my frustrations. Especially when men get trigger lol and some of them will be the most demanding. We gotta be fair now.

    Definitely would treat a man right that did the same for me. No doubt.
     
  7. Emily

    Emily Da queen VIP

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    I am 24, cheap ass loser.
    Also there is more to life than marriage
     
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  8. Zahra

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    Most Women have a list of expectations, desires and demands for the men when they cant even provide anything in the marriage except what's between their legs. Women cant expect the world from a man and then sit on their butt's waiting for him to cater to her at the snap of a finger. Dont make marriage difficult for these brothers out here. Many of them are old and unmarried because they can't afford to pay for the womans outrageous dowry amount.
     
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  9. Gibiin-Udug

    Gibiin-Udug I ❤️ Puntland Staff Member Moderator

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    Quran is not part of Dowry. Go learn the religion!
     
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  10. Zahra

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    You definitely didn't get my response.
     
  11. Zahra

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    Go learn the basics. stop following what suits you, meanwhile ignoring all else
     
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    Gibiin-Udug I ❤️ Puntland Staff Member Moderator

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    Well coming from an idiot like you, nobody would get the response. I don’t speak idiot language.


    Secondly it’s women like you who give losers an audacity to lower women’s standards. Miss ‘pick me’. Please go learn about our beautiful religion before spewing your ignorance around!
     
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  13. Zahra

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    You need to learn more about it instead of just focusing on the road to marriage aspect
     
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  14. Somalinimo

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    I agree. But it's still the same materialism that Muslim women obsess their youth over. The dreamy lavish demands are the problem I have with the mehr culture. Especially when we're told so much about equality. Unless your family is in desperate need of money, I don't see the point splashing money.

    Invest for your future and your kid's futures. Don't splash it on 5 star hotels.
     
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  15. NAAFO

    NAAFO VALOR MORGHULIS

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    Depends on the woman but I'm willing to pay 10k and spend on her for things like a home through a halal morgage with furniture, clothes, car whatever she wants.
     
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  16. HalimaJ

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    Loool i am now convinced you are not a woman. Statistics and anecdotes show that after marriage women are the ones that carry most of the weight in terms of giving birth, caregiving and looking after the home. Households are built around the mother/wife and here we have a supposed 'woman' claiming that women are sitting on their butts only giving men what is in between their legs.

    Men are the pursuers and there are men with money who are willing to give women what they want because these women have enough confidence to ask for what they want.
     
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  17. Gibiin-Udug

    Gibiin-Udug I ❤️ Puntland Staff Member Moderator

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    Loooooooool

    How’s a revert who was told not to ask anything for her dowry going to tell me to learn more about the religion.


    Dowry is a woman's Right in Islam. I’m guessing whoever taught you about Islam, forgot about that part.
     
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  18. Dino

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    My wife asked for 5k. Hmm heh
     
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  19. Zahra

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    These women are just thinking in the RIGHT NOW. Then when reality settles in and they don't even have 3 meals to eat a day they'll regret trying to put on a show and live like the rich and famous
     
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  20. Zahra

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    You'll see 1 day
     
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