Playing devils advocate here. But say your husband never does anything nice for you. In the sense of trips or gifts. Would you be okay with that? Like most men like women who would be kind and supportive towards him. If he never got that he’ll feel some type of way.Never desperate. Woman like u are so worried about how much you'll get and then once your living together for some time your complaining how much hes working but u forgot how expensive you made everything for him just to wife u up.
I’m not trying provoke or be rude just curious.