Marry behind your wives back

Why would a smart but manipulative man who wants to get with a girl answer her personality questions truthfully?

People lie. No one lies better than someone that wants to get with the opposite gender.
If you have a bad personality it's not easy to hide it.. Just observe how this particular person behaviors and treats other people and you'll have a clear idea of the person.
 

GemState

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You don't even need to marry behind your wife's back. There are women out there comfortable with their husbands having multiple wives, go for those women instead of having a secret wife.
 
So After reading the thread made by @so_wavey about how youre Islamically don't have to tell your wife you getting another wife id like to point some things out

Its true it doesnt say in the deen you need to tell her but its common sense to tell your wife about your plans not hide them like a coward

Also since you're bringing in religion and sunnah to backup your reasoning
you forgot that Allah swt discourages the practice at the same time also: "But if you feel you may not be able to deal justly between them, then marry only one."

2ndly In the case of polygamy many forget that the first wife has rights aswell If the first wife doesn't like the idea of sharing her husband with multiple women or be part of such relationship, then she has the option to demand divorce for example

The fact that you wanna get a 2nd wife, all while not telling the 1st wife is not only morally wrong but pathetic as well because you have infringed on the 1st wife's rights - what if she doesn't wish to be in a polygamous relationship?
subahnallah dont lie on the deen allah never discouraged more wives its actually sunnah so allah discourages sunnah?

The justice is not the love you can love one wife more then the other everyone knew the prophet loved aisha the most even his wives knew that.


The justice is do your best financially
 

Mercury

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subahnallah dont lie on the deen allah never discouraged more wives its actually sunnah so allah discourages sunnah?

The justice is not the love you can love one wife more then the other everyone knew the prophet loved aisha the most even his wives knew that.


The justice is do your best financially
Its also a sunnah not to marry more than 1 wife
 

Joliemademoiselle

A pious muslima.
the guy never love your husband or wife more than Allah and his messenger.
Always marry reasonably, tell each other before marriage how you see every aspect of your life and what is a marriage breaker for you.
have compassion towards your spouse but not unreasonable love.
 

Joliemademoiselle

A pious muslima.
I have nothing against marrying a second wife, if the husband and the first wife agree on to it or at least if she knows about it even if she didnโ€™t agree because maybe they didnโ€™t talk about it before marriage.

but doing behind her back is a cowardly act, he doesnโ€™t respect his first wife nor his new wife to hide her like he is doing adultery with her.
As a Muslims we should make our life such that we succeeded in the test of this life, but some of the people like to complicate their life may Allah guide us all.
 
exactly my point so he did marry a virgin.......

My point is marrying a second wife who happens to be virgin is also sunnah

The best of men are the men that treat their wives with kindness.

You did a whole thread about 'cheating' and lying to your wife.

It seems to me you only care about the sunnahs that benefit you. Not the ones in which you have to treat others with decency.

You were even arguing with @Mercury about helping your wife even though that is a known sunnah.
 

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