Why do some Somalis have low standards?

[Ugaaso]

I don't mind an admiration kind of stare

 

[Mercury]

Are you still claiming to be a Somali man? You are a woman. Go speak to Nigerian men if you wish.

I’m more of a man than you

 

[Dalmoor]

I noticed this with Arab guys as well the low standards they set for themselves and justify it with their gender

“That's just the way guys are" "Guys are visual creatures"
"Boys will be boys"



Let me explain what I mean with low standards

What I mean by low standards is not having better expectations for your behavior and character

For instance problematic behavior like being a pervert is seen as okay

Because "guys simply can't help themselves" such as staring at women too long that it ends up making her uncomfortable, saying degrading things about women, seeing women as sexual objects, etc

*too much trash to be disposed*

 

[Abdurahman_somali]

I could be worse I could be defending a criminal,rapist or murderer just cause we share the same qabiil but I don’t I only defend Somali women

Although i disagree with you in many points mercury ,i respect you, you don't seem to be a bad guy but i advise you to be more neutral and stop blaming men for everything and potraying woman as angels this doesn't solve all our problems. Somali s all over the globus are destroying our reputation and not single word from you ...
doqonimada reer hargeysa logu sheego ileen wa wax jira

 

[Dalmoor]

In Islam you are supposed to glance, the second glance is haram. So no. You are at fault here for even looking back. Know your wrongs, man.

@The alchemist I bet this is @halwa from the way she types nonsense.

 

[HalimaJ]

What the f*ck does that have to do with us diasporans?



Yeah Somalispot isn't real life and 95% of the shit talking on here is not unprovoked.

Unemployment, lack of education etc. are problems that disproportionately affect the guys and are objectively valid observations. But when guys call girls out, do you believe they're fabricating stuff? Honestly, that just shows how sheltered some of you are.

I'm going to get a lil controversial here and say the biggest lie Somali girls are told is that all they need to be 'successful' is stay out of prison and go to school.

Niggas can't even go to their local Mosque without some fat old f*ck who did nothing, but have children in his life try to give niggas advice. That same pathetic faarax has no idea what his own sons and especially daughters are up to. And quite frankly I agree. People here use daddy issues as an insult when it really isn't. The previous generation completely fucked up the next and expect us to deal with it.

The girls are not perfect either. I agree with everything you have said.

I think its about time the new generation of men and women uplift each other and learn from the mistakes of older generation. Recently i've been seeing some pretty successful Somali guys. So good on them.

Insulting young Somali guys for the wrongdoings of older Somali men who have also let down their sons is not the answer.

 

[halwa]

@The alchemist I bet this is @halwa from the way she types nonsense.

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I dont look.

You’re acting dumb right now.

 

[halwa]

Although i disagree with you in many points mercury ,i respect you, you don't seem to be a bad guy but i advise you to be more neutral and stop blaming men for everything and potraying woman as angels this doesn't solve all our problems. Somali s all over the globus are destroying our reputation and not single word from you ...
doqonimada reer hargeysa logu sheego ileen wa wax jira

 

[HalimaJ]

@Mercury don't listen to them. You are a true man in every sense of the word.
You advocate for the way a Muslim man should be. Respect, good fearing, protective of their family and compassionate.

 

[Mercury]

Although i disagree with you in many points mercury ,i respect you, you don't seem to be a bad guy but i advise you to be more neutral and stop blaming men for everything and potraying woman as angels this doesn't solve all our problems. Somali s all over the globus are destroying our reputation and not single word from you ...
doqonimada reer hargeysa logu sheego ileen wa wax jira

Why should I talk about Somali s?

When they didn’t destroy our reputation our own leaders do

 

[Gambar]

What the f*ck does that have to do with us diasporans?



Yeah Somalispot isn't real life and 95% of the shit talking on here is not unprovoked.

Unemployment, lack of education etc. are problems that disproportionately affect the guys and are objectively valid observations. But when guys call girls out, do you believe they're fabricating stuff? Honestly, that just shows how sheltered some of you are.

I'm going to get a lil controversial here and say the biggest lie Somali girls are told is that all they need to be 'successful' is stay out of prison and go to school.

Niggas can't even go to their local Mosque without some fat old f*ck who did nothing, but have children in his life try to give niggas advice. That same pathetic faarax has no idea what his own sons and especially daughters are up to. And quite frankly I agree. People here use daddy issues as an insult when it really isn't. The previous generation completely fucked up the next and expect us to deal with it.

You are the next generation of saaqid.

 

[Gambar]

Although i disagree with you in many points mercury ,i respect you, you don't seem to be a bad guy but i advise you to be more neutral and stop blaming men for everything and potraying woman as angels this doesn't solve all our problems. Somali s all over the globus are destroying our reputation and not single word from you ...
doqonimada reer hargeysa logu sheego ileen wa wax jira

All y’all ever talk about is Somali s or complain about Somali women marrying ajnabi.

 

[Kodeen]

You are the next generation of saaqid.

Because I am somehow culpable for the chaos Somalia is in? Mental.

 

[Tukraq]

I noticed this with Arab guys as well the low standards they set for themselves and justify it with their gender

“That's just the way guys are" "Guys are visual creatures"
"Boys will be boys"



Let me explain what I mean with low standards

What I mean by low standards is not having better expectations for your behavior and character

For instance problematic behavior like being a pervert is seen as okay

Because "guys simply can't help themselves" such as staring at women too long that it ends up making her uncomfortable, saying degrading things about women, seeing women as sexual objects, etc

How is any of that problematic
It’s called having a dick, it gots a mind of its own sometimes it’s only natural to expect this from high testosterone men

 

[roble]

rather why some people have low standards.

 

[Tukraq]

Girls like you staring and treating them like a sexual object or dirty talk just depends if your attractive or not @halwa why the qashin

 

[halwa]

Girls like you staring and treating them like a sexual object or dirty talk just depends if your attractive or not @halwa why the qashin

Tit for tat.

 

[Tukraq]

Tit for tat.

So you don’t disagree with my points

 

[Mercury]

How is any of that problematic
It’s called having a ****, it gots a mind of its own sometimes it’s only natural to expect this from high testosterone men

Excuses sounds best to the one making them

 

[halwa]

So you don’t disagree with my points

I didn’t even read them.