What's so special about having a significant other?

[Amk]

Bruh how do you not love your own hooyo??? @Amk

I’ve never heard of someone not loving their own mother unless they were severely abused or neglected. Thats some straight sociopathic shit walahi

idk i just dont. Its like me saying why dont u prefer a certain food u dont like

 

[Angelina]

Think he's more of a schizoid to be honest, anti-social people dont have empathy

People with schizophrenia can fall in love and do love their families.

He talks about not caring though, therefore he probably doesn't have empathy but due to his strong religious beliefs, he probably conflates his sense of morality and justice with empathy.

 

[Nak-Muay-Kru]

With the right person being in love is magical, its amazing, it's a beautiful feeling. But being in love with someone who doesn't feel that same way towards you is heart breaking and just leads to disappointment and frustration.

Being in love, and I mean deeply, is akin to being on MDMA wallahi. I understand why guys turn into muggy fags who humiliate themselves. But it's a double edge-sword. Emotionally speaking, you're at your strongest whilst simultaneously being at your weakest. It's a fate worse than death if you get tangled up with the wrong person lol

 

[En_Sabah Nur]

He doesn't love or really care about anyone. How do you agree with something abnormal. He also believes that he will not be able to love his own children.

It is clear he has a personality disorder. I'm not being disrespectful btw as he can't help being this way and he seems to be a nice guy who is firm in his deen. But if you have the same sentiments then clearly you have the same issues.

Watch the video @Shimbiris posted. Its the exact same mentality.

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[Amk]

Being in love, and I mean deeply, is akin to being on MDMA wallahi. I completely understand why guys turn into muggy fags who humiliate themselves. But it's a double edge-sword. Emotionally speaking, you're at your strongest whilst simultaneously being at your weakest. It's a fate worse than death if you get tangled up with the wrong person lol

This is somewhat factual. Lust is like drugs. But this puppy love will never last long. it will always leave and normal life will kick in. which is when ppl wake up

 

[Dualke]

People with schizophrenia can fall in love and do love their families.

He talks about not caring though, therefore he probably doesn't have empathy but due to his strong religious beliefs, he probably conflates his sense of morality and justice with empathy.

Schizoid personality disorder =/= schizophrenia, it's an entirely differently thing when one feels little to no feelings and tends to be more secluded.

 

[Angelina]

idk i just dont. Its like me saying why dont u prefer a certain food u dont like

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[En_Sabah Nur]

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No. But I care for them. That’s the point

 

[empressjamila]

idk i just dont. Its like me saying why dont u prefer a certain food u dont like

That’s kind of sad..I feel like love is such an important part of our close relationships with family

How are you gonna love your kids? Kids are gonna do a lot of things that piss you off the main reason parents don’t throw away their kids to the street after they get mad is because of love and concern

 

[Angelina]

No. But I care for them. That’s the point

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[Nak-Muay-Kru]

This is somewhat factual. Lust is like drugs. But this puppy love will never last long. it will always leave and normal life will kick in. which is when ppl wake up

You obvsiouly wouldn't be in that state of pure infatuation/puppy love forever. But if you're in a healthy realtionship, you learn to appericate the other person on a much deeper level. Their little idiosyncrasies, their little quirks etc. That's all contingent on being with the right person though.

 

[anonimo]

They say a man isn't thinking clearly before sex, but a woman is. But after sex, a man thinks clearly, whilst a woman doesn't.

There is a biological explanation, Oxytocin!

We don't have much of it post-coital, women have it more than men. During the chase, we will romance you and promise you the world.

Apart from some women who are labelled nymphs etc., a lot develop feelings of attachment after a period of casual sex with a partner they met in a no strings attached arrangement. Especially if the man is sexually attentive to their needs.

If the sexes were the same in their general attitude to sex, dogging would be legalised in the West.

 

[Angelina]

You obvsiouly wouldn't be in that state of pure infatuation/puppy love forever. But if you're in a healthy realtionship, you learn to appericate the other person on a much deeper level. Their little idiosyncrasies, their little quirks etc. That's all contingent on being with the right person though.

Some people are lucky enough to develop a form of love that is stronger, although maybe not as passionate.

 

[Sheikh Google]

You obvsiouly wouldn't be in that state of pure infatuation/puppy love forever. But if you're in a healthy realtionship, you learn to appericate the other person on a much deeper level. Their little idiosyncrasies, their little quirks etc. That's all contingent on being with the right person though.

Are you single and can I take you out on a date sxb stop speaking facts, you gonna make me switch teams.

 

[En_Sabah Nur]

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Lol I doubt it. I’m perfectly normal. I think people too much emphasis on love.

 

[Amk]

That’s kind of sad..I feel like love is such an important part of our close relationships with family

How are you gonna love your kids? Kids are gonna do a lot of things that piss you off the main reason parents don’t throw away their kids to the street after they get mad is because of love and concern

I will be content with Allahs decree and be patient until he kills me. The problem with this ummah is we have to "enjoy" or "love" everything we do otherwise we dont do it.
Noone will do anything as a muslim unless they do things that they donot love and stay patient upon it.
If my child pisses me off, well i dont care, it was Allahs qadr, my children donot need to make me happy for me to treat them nicely, just knowing that Allah wants me to be patient and kind to them is enough for me.
Maybe for most people its different since they dont have that kind of relationship with Allah where they can be patient upon what they hate

 

[Angelina]

Lol I doubt it. I’m perfectly normal. I think people too much emphasis on love.

Nah I get you saying that about romantic love. But not the love between parent and children. The average person loves their child more than their own life. So you only merely caring is abnormal.

 

[TekNiKo]

Somalida say nin aad dhashay kuma dhalin. Not all mothers are saints

I agree I love my wife so dearly, much more than any other woman This is a false ideal.

 

[Amk]

You obvsiouly wouldn't be in that state of pure infatuation/puppy love forever. But if you're in a healthy realtionship, you learn to appericate the other person on a much deeper level. Their little idiosyncrasies, their little quirks etc. That's all contingent on being with the right person though.

Their little quirks start to piss u off after a while. th novelty of everything wears off. I dont rly believe in love anyway tbh. I believe real love is only in jannah.

 

[Angelina]

I agree I love my wife so dearly, much more than any other woman This is a false ideal.

Do you love your mum?