There is nothing consistant about wanting a certain type of girl and marrying the complete opposite.Sis they were in and off for 5 years. I know this story and seen it before. People who just live and before you know they reach certain age and feel pressured to marry. Both settled due to pressure. But what is clear is she didnt know herself fully. She said she was wearing hijab around him and took off when at her mums house. She said herself she was battling herself and didnt know what she wanted. The more she talks the more I blame her.
This guy obviously wanted certain type of girl she never was and she tried to be for him. Only one of them is consistent
You are excusing him of the same thing you are blaming her for. He knew what he was getting himself into when he was talking to a non hijabi youtuber with fake nails, yet he still married her.
Doesn't excuse her though.
Nor does it excuse him as well, even though she too knew that she was marrying a broke man.