Pakistani girls are becoming like halimos

[Codeine]

I wouldnt tar everyone with that same brush. You do have somalis with self respect. Unfortunately too many cases of single moms in the community.

When i was in abu dhabi i once visited the house of my pashtu friend. Guy is from peshawar. Never saw his mother, or his sisters or any female members of his family. Years down the line i realise why pathans do not have single mother issues in their culture even if they are in the west.

I'm definitely not saying it's the norm but we're not as conservative some people seem to think we are. Somalis have among the highest divorce rates, what do think happens to all those single mothers? They get remarried and continue life

 

[Dino]

Very important points there Dino. They need help with that. The smart ones get important people involved in the process. But for many, they go it alone and end up either lucky or unlucky with their choices.


Plus they can not bring a man to the US if they opted to go back and marry a man there. Work and income are requirements for a VISA. The process is too long and uncertain. Things are stacked against them. That is why they are easy prey for guys who are not serious in getting married to them but want to have fun with them.


The system also fuels the ease with which couples dissolve their marriage. Both feel there is no need for parents to stay together when disagreements come about. The guy thinks kids will be helped by the government, and the woman banks on that too. There is no pressure to stick around and fix marital issues. And the woman pay the heaviest price for such ill-thought decisions. My only hope they seal their wombs and do whatever they want with their life so they don't bring into this world kids that have no moral and good financial support. That is the moral thing to do for someone who already has kids from prior marriage.

The issue stems from one thing. Starting everything from haram. How many somali sisters do you know off who if approached by a guy say if you want to get to know me, speak to my wali. None. Too often the girl becomes her own wali and disaster ensures. And in some cases the wali is useless somali idiot of a father who long disappeared or does not care. Another disaster.

I mean when you apply for a job the employer will vet you and your references somaha. But subhannallah people are going to spend their lives with someone who has the powet to ruin their entire life and they do not even care what he does for a living or care about his emotional maturity.

So you start with haram and is it any wonder nothing good comes from it. There is a famous hadith by the prophet which says no nikkah without a wali. So the girl and guy might look married to us but in the eyes of allah they are girlfriend boyfriend living in zina. All because she disobeyed her parents and married herself off

 

[Burhan]

I think the British Accent is hot wallah

Thick American Accents give be brain haemorrhage

I understand. Same goes for the whole world, American Accent is beast. You get more respect speaking with American accented English than you would otherwise(ignoring the Orange fool we got now for a president, he took our cred a notch down).

It is only Americans who think British accent is refinement and the product of good education when reality is far from that. Waa la is maan dhaafsan yahay, each group thinking the other is best.

 

[Coulombs law]

I understand. Same goes for the whole world, American Accent is beast. You get more respect speaking with American accented English than you would otherwise.

It is only Americans who think British accent is refinement and the product of good education. When reality is far from that. Waa la is maan dhaafsan yahay, each group thinking the other is best.

Bro when i was at london, everyone wanted me to speak for like 30 minutes, i instantly became popular with the Somalis there , dont listen to @anonymous34, British people love our accents

 

[Abdalla]

I just went to the lovehabibi website and saw the profiles on the first page. Somalis are disproportionately overrepresentated. 6 were Somalis, the other 20 or so came from around the world

 

[Burhan]

Bro when i was at london, everyone wanted me to speak for like 30 minutes, i instantly became popular with the Somalis there , dont listen to @anonymous34, British people love our accents

Not only Somalis but Cadaans too across Europe. They love it. I was on a train from Nijmegen and headed to Utrecht during my visit to Netherlands. The men and women around me could not stop asking me useless questions. At first, they thought I was from the local population and they spoke to me in Dutch trying to get me involved in their conversation. That is when the fun started cause I told them "Sorry, I don't speak Dutch". As soon as they noticed I chewed on the RRRRR, that was it. They even asked me to lunch and to a movie.

 

[Burhan]

The issue stems from one thing. Starting everything from haram. How many somali sisters do you know off who if approached by a guy say if you want to get to know me, speak to my wali. None. Too often the girl becomes her own wali and disaster ensures. And in some cases the wali is useless somali idiot of a father who long disappeared or does not care. Another disaster.

I mean when you apply for a job the employer will vet you and your references somaha. But subhannallah people are going to spend their lives with someone who has the powet to ruin their entire life and they do not even care what he does for a living or care about his emotional maturity.

So you start with haram and is it any wonder nothing good comes from it. There is a famous hadith by the prophet which says no nikkah without a wali. So the girl and guy might look married to us but in the eyes of allah they are girlfriend boyfriend living in zina. All because she disobeyed her parents and married herself off

Things add up against you for sure in a failed society. It is one good reason to pray for Somalia's success and recovery. For those of us Somalis who made to the west, we gained economic prosperity and education but lost something valuable along the way.

The key will be to see Somalia succeed and Somalis to respect their Land as part of their heritage. Without a country, problems abound.

 

[Bonjour]

They have the biological need and the desire for company. Only suggestion I have for them is to think about the pros/cons of having more kids with the second husband. Limited number of kids adds some flexibility and pleasure in Life.

Not only that, a single mother will need someone else to share the financial burden of raising a child with. Within our culture, single mother have really limited options, they could either become second wives of those that already have kids or marry into another Race, the latter is the most common choice.

 

[Burhan]

Single virgin husbands? That is a oxymoron. You can't be a husband and a virgin.

This is funny.





I think he meant "Virgin Men". I sometimes hit "Post" reply too quickly when someone walks up to me with questions at work. Then later I see I made no sense and try to edit or leave it at that.

 

[Burhan]

Not only that, a single mother will need someone else to share the financial burden of raising a child with. Within our culture, single mother have really limited options, they could either become second wives of those that already have kids or marry into another Race, the latter is the most common choice.

It is not easy to be a single parent in America. Besides, if the non-somali she marries meets her standards, such as Islam etc, that is better for her than meeting someone(Somali/other) who would only sleep with her in Haram. Most of them don't want to be a second wife and hold onto the hope of finding a man who is single. It is human nature, female human nature not to want to share a man with another woman. I have seen few religious women advocating for polygamy. And those can change their tune when reality hits the fan and she realizes she is sharing her husband with another and the bed is empty. I don't fault women to be selfish about their men.

Whatever works for them. I wish them best of luck.

 

[oday1kenobi]

Take my number Abu Tyrone!View attachment 15197

It literally took one minute for Abu Tyrone to get her number! ONE minute. ONE question.

Next time name your character Abu Tyrone

 

[GodKnowsBest]

The issue stems from one thing. Starting everything from haram. How many somali sisters do you know off who if approached by a guy say if you want to get to know me, speak to my wali. None. Too often the girl becomes her own wali and disaster ensures. And in some cases the wali is useless somali idiot of a father who long disappeared or does not care. Another disaster.

I mean when you apply for a job the employer will vet you and your references somaha. But subhannallah people are going to spend their lives with someone who has the powet to ruin their entire life and they do not even care what he does for a living or care about his emotional maturity.

So you start with haram and is it any wonder nothing good comes from it. There is a famous hadith by the prophet which says no nikkah without a wali. So the girl and guy might look married to us but in the eyes of allah they are girlfriend boyfriend living in zina. All because she disobeyed her parents and married herself off

My mom didn't tell my dad to talk to her mom first. Her mom did say okay for the marriage but you don't need permission for dating only marriage. Just keep the dating halal and all is good.

 

[Prince of Lasanod]

Paki girls

North African/Levant Arab girls

 

[Bahal]

Take my number Abu Tyrone!View attachment 15197

It literally took one minute for Abu Tyrone to get her number! ONE minute. ONE question.

Man, I'd like to see you keep this up with daily updates if possible

 

[Bakeyle]

Man, I'd like to see you keep this up with daily updates if possible

I will my friend

 

[Mohamud]

>north african girls

>them other arab girls

 

[Bakeyle]

 

[Bahal]

Now this is the type of humor we've been missing here for a while

 

[Ferrari]

Take my number Abu Tyrone!View attachment 15197

It literally took one minute for Abu Tyrone to get her number! ONE minute. ONE question.

How are you guys doing this?

 

[Jeesto]

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Halal catfish