Abdisamad
VIP
Yes true, a real man takes responsibility for his family. Having a family is not only about putting bread on the table and demanding the wife to do the rest as some of the guys think.. A family is supposed to be tight-knit and the kids should feel safe and secure and grow up under the wings of both their parents.Wallahi some of these people on sspot are finished. All they want to do is take all the privileges without any accountability. They think they will not be asked about their wife and kids on the DOJ?
Have you ever heard of a CEO not being held responsible for his company and employees? I don't want to compare marriage and children to that of a company, but the reason why a man is the head of the house and needs to be listened to by everyone including the wife and he gets the last say is because he is in charge of their provision and protection. As a man you get the privilege of obedience (within limits of course) but that comes with the responsibility. A good man worth listening to knows this. The wife is also responsible for her husbands home, she's second in command, so obviously everyone has a responsibility.