Blame me when I’m at the home. Not when I’m out in the community, working and maybe sometimes socializing.
why did I pay that meher for. Did she pay meher for me ? What’s your problem.
Mehr in Islam is simply a gift man gives to his new bride to show his seriousness. So I fail to see why you're bringing up the Mehr convo.
A man is the head of the household. You're responsible for the well-being of not only your child, but also your wife. Therefore, any sane person will ask where the father is as he is just as responsible.