Benadiris/barawanis were not enslaved by ethnic Somalis so why would they call you that?
Yes Somali Bantus face social exclusion, but so do Benadiris/Barawanis. Not as much as Bantus but still do.
Benadiris actually occupied a special place in Somali society as religious experts and traders. It is only during and after the war that they started getting mistreated, especially by some Hawiye clansmen. They are nowhere near treated the same way as Bantu, who are basically outcasts - politically , economically and socially. You can’t compare the two groups.