My Friend just Cancelled his Wedding ....

Basically she couldn’t get an Ajnabi, so she settled with a hardworking miskeen farax. Yeah nevermind thats messed up. No one sjould be settling.
 
If she repented I don't think she did anything wrong. When you sin and repent it is as if you did not sin and it is between you and Allah. Whoever sent him that message did a big sin by exposing his/her sisters sin. You may dislike what I say, but from an Islamic perspective you should keep your past a secret from your spouse. Do not publicize what was between you and God. Now if my potential spouse was revealed to be a harlot I think I would have a mental breakdown, but she only had 1 haram relationship for 4 years maybe he can look past it. I personally wouldn't though, I'm not that good of a man.
 

OGx3

Maa ana waalan mise cadan baa laga heesayaa?
Virgin for virgin. If he isn’t the guy is a hypocrite.

Partners sexual history is important with all the nasty STDs floating around. Even cold sores should be disclosed and can be passed on with just kissing
 
It's a pretty messed up situation to be in, especially for someone who has never had a relationship before, this was literally his first relationship.

What got to him as he told me was that she hid it from him, and he felt a sense of betrayal (didn't ask too many questions if he asked her or not before he committed).
We shouldn't make assumptions about whether she committed zina or not, that's not for us to decide.

Looks like he's going for a trip overseas to take it all in, but yeah it's best to ask these questions at the start of a relationship.
 

Basra

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It's a pretty messed up situation to be in, especially for someone who has never had a relationship before, this was literally his first relationship.

What got to him as he told me was that she hid it from him, and he felt a sense of betrayal (didn't ask too many questions if he asked her or not before he committed).
We shouldn't make assumptions about whether she committed zina or not, that's not for us to decide.

Looks like he's going for a trip overseas to take it all in, but yeah it's best to ask these questions at the start of a relationship.


I wonder W.H.O was the anonymous person who called to inform him? Talooow his best friend slash secret crush?
 
So, my friend, a Somali guy was introduced to this girl at a wedding at the end of 2021. At the time he was looking to get married and he and the girl took a liking to each other and started talking.

After a few months of talking, he decide to seek her hand and the family accepted it. The wedding was going to be scheduled at the end of the year and everything was getting organized. The girl is your typical Somali hijabi raised in the west, pretty and educated, very much his type.

Anyways 3 weeks ago, he got an anonymous Facebook msg telling him that his girl used to go out with a guy (ajnabi guy) from her University for nearly 4 years and she used to be discrete about it. He confronted her about it, and he told me all she could say was "who told you" and started crying profusely.

So last week he decided he didn't want to go ahead with the wedding, he informed her family but didn't give the reason as to why. He thinks the FB msg was from one of her friends, but he can't be sure.

I just have a feeling the situation is going to get muddier in the next few weeks. Let's make dua we don't have to deal with these kinds of situations. :2tjlv3e:

who ever messaged him did a solid
who wants 2nd hand leftover xalimos
this should be a message to any somali chick trying to get with a somali king after she has been around the block, your dirty laundry and CV will be brought up and your lies will come out in public
best to own your past if your trying to trick a man it will come out in the end
If my wife told me she was seen a guy before even if we was married 20 years I would divorce her and kick her out into the streets in a sec
 
I wonder W.H.O was the anonymous person who called to inform him? Talooow his best friend slash secret crush?


Great question, he doesn't know. I asked him, but most likely it was a girl who was friends with the girl. The girl, from what I heard was very discrete so only her close friends would have known.
 
Unless you have an ciyaal suuq network and have been part of that life there’s no real way to know.
there is a way
6 degrees of separation read it up
you might have a sister/auntie/cousin that knows the girl ask about
if she is from another countryor city just ask the locals, hey guys do you know this girl called so and so, show them a picture?
ask what she is like/history etc
if you do digging you will eventually find out her skeletons and then its up to you if you marry or dump
 

Basra

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Great question, he doesn't know. I asked him, but most likely it was a girl who was friends with the girl. The girl, from what I heard was very discrete so only her close friends would have known.


I see. So it was a jealous girl who snitched. Hhhhmmm Whatever. It was never meant to be anyway. You never know, maybe she is destined for another man who will make her happy. Karma is a bi1ach. The snitch who have caused fitnah will pay
 
It's a pretty messed up situation to be in, especially for someone who has never had a relationship before, this was literally his first relationship.

What got to him as he told me was that she hid it from him, and he felt a sense of betrayal (didn't ask too many questions if he asked her or not before he committed).
We shouldn't make assumptions about whether she committed zina or not, that's not for us to decide.

Looks like he's going for a trip overseas to take it all in, but yeah it's best to ask these questions at the start of a relationship.
lool you don't know these diaspora somali chicks 4 years relationship and no zina with her ajnabi boyfriend? she probably offered him every single hole she could, dump her and I would advise bro to go to a clinic and check for STD's incase he kissed her
 

Basra

LOVE is a product of Doqoniimo mixed with lust
Let Them Eat Cake
VIP
lool you don't know these diaspora somali chicks 4 years relationship and no zina with her ajnabi boyfriend? she probably offered him every single hole she could, dump her and I would advise bro to go to a clinic and check for STD's incase he kissed her



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Why this type of threads generate such traction? For all we know its a made up story that got you all worked up.

It is most likely made up, but what makes it worse is that it's so predictable. Every Xalimo along side contrarian faaraxs hiding behind white face, and undercover xalimos (@Hmohamed54 ) on one side and all the Faaraxs and @Basra on the other.

Shit is too predictable
 
It is most likely made up, but what makes it worse is that it's so predictable. Every Xalimo along side contrarian faaraxs hiding behind white face, and undercover xalimos (@Hmohamed54 ) on one side and all the Faaraxs and @Basra on the other.

Shit is too predictable

You are an fn tool, who seeks attention. Keep moving >>>>>>
 
So, my friend, a Somali guy was introduced to this girl at a wedding at the end of 2021. At the time he was looking to get married and he and the girl took a liking to each other and started talking.

After a few months of talking, he decide to seek her hand and the family accepted it. The wedding was going to be scheduled at the end of the year and everything was getting organized. The girl is your typical Somali hijabi raised in the west, pretty and educated, very much his type.

Anyways 3 weeks ago, he got an anonymous Facebook msg telling him that his girl used to go out with a guy (ajnabi guy) from her University for nearly 4 years and she used to be discrete about it. He confronted her about it, and he told me all she could say was "who told you" and started crying profusely.

So last week he decided he didn't want to go ahead with the wedding, he informed her family but didn't give the reason as to why. He thinks the FB msg was from one of her friends, but he can't be sure.

I just have a feeling the situation is going to get muddier in the next few weeks. Let's make dua we don't have to deal with these kinds of situations. :2tjlv3e:
Good men deserve good women. She’s for street and should go back where she came. Allah loves him, he saved him before it was too late :ohdamn:
 
You are an fn tool, who seeks attention. Keep moving >>>>>>

If you're being real, you got no love for your nigga.

Important gang or ajnabi way. Why let your friend stumble around in the dark, fruitless hellscape that is the Somali dating pool? When your brother is walking on his head, waa lop caqliyeela
 

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