My friend is getting married to a girl i've seen before, what should i do?????

[Cumar]

Basically the title lol, at first i was internally laughing my ass off when he told me he was going to get married with a somali girl i've seen, and other Guys i know as well have been with. But mind you it was a long time ago i saw her, 2 and 1/2 years ago, and i havent spoken to her ever since. I thought he was joking when he said it, but now that i see he is serious, i am really thinking about telling him that not only me, but other Guys have been with her ajnabis as well.
After i tell him he can afterwards decide if he wants to stay with her, but i feel like its duty for me to at least inform him, but on the other hand, i have no business in exposing other peoples sins, so its kind of a dilemma???. This is in Scandinavia, and im not gonna say more, because i have a feeling some of them is in here, or at least lurking.

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Ngl I had a different answer that I started typing out but now I feel like you shouldn't say anything. She may genuinely have repented and your boy clearly likes what he sees in her so I wouldn't try to f*ck it up for him.

You don't want the sins of breaking them up. If he finds out later on his own accord and leaves, that's on him. But don't be the cause of a breakup. Stay far away from that shit is my advice.

 

[Kodeen]

Im curious majority say you should expose the girl cause of her past

What if it was a Guy who had a history of sleeping around but has made tawba since than and now found a girl hes gonna marry and all of a sudden his past gets exposed cause some people digged it up

You cant go by gender a girl or boy with a Past gets the same sins in islam

You're right, islamically there is no difference. Most girls however just don't care about those things. That doesn't mean guys shouldn't care either.

OP I'd tell you to stay the f*ck out of it if it was a stranger. But how can you call him a friend and not tell him? It be ya own fucking negros

 

[Subeer]

The prize of dhi.loniimo

I always see you being quick tocall other women s, whats up with that, and whats up with your pictures

 

[Basra]

I always see you being quick tocall other women s, whats up with that, and whats up with your pictures

Well...if I am not sleeping around, I expect others not to sleep around too

 

[Grigori Rasputin]

@Comewithrealness

How far are they ? If they caught feelings then leave them alone.

As you said it’s been close to 3 years. She probably has changed. She probably has a good heart but so what if she was a Drive-Thru? The question is can she be loyal to him. Could she be a proper wife and a mother? We all got a past. He also fucked around too.

That said, I couldn’t do it! I practically dropped a gorgeous one that wanted me to marry her for this same situation. My closest niggaz use to go to her town and she came to visit me in my town only for these guys to see us together and say “hollyyyy bro that’s Salma weedhead...she use to smoke week around us whenever we’d show up in her town”. To make it even worse the family wanted me to get married to her cause she was a relative. I dropped her very quickly while she was crying. She’s never forgiven me I think but what could’ve done! My boys probably knew the shape of her siil

 

[Basra]

@Comewithrealness

How far are they ? If they caught feelings then leave them alone.

As you said it’s been close to 3 years. She probably has changed. She probably has a good heart but so what if she was a Dri-Thru? The question is can she be loyal to him. Could she be a proper wife and a mother? We all got a past. He also fucked around too.

That said, I couldn’t do it! I practically dropped a gorgeous one that wanted me to marry her for this same situation. My closest niggaz use to go to her town and she came to visit me in my town only for these guys to see us together and say “hollyyyy bro that’s Salma weedhead...she use to smoke week around us whenever we’d show up in her town”. To make it even worse the family wanted me to get married to her cause she was a relative. I dropped her very quickly while she crying. She’s never forgiven me I think but what could’ve done! My boys probably knew the shape of her siil

 

[Basra]

Rkelly

u r sooooo cute...its too bad u r...….LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL

 

[nine]

@Comewithrealness

How far are they ? If they caught feelings then leave them alone.

As you said it’s been close to 3 years. She probably has changed. She probably has a good heart but so what if she was a Dri-Thru? The question is can she be loyal to him. Could she be a proper wife and a mother? We all got a past. He also fucked around too.

That said, I couldn’t do it! I practically dropped a gorgeous one that wanted me to marry her for this same situation. My closest niggaz use to go to her town and she came to visit me in my town only for these guys to see us together and say “hollyyyy bro that’s Salma weedhead...she use to smoke week around us whenever we’d show up in her town”. To make it even worse the family wanted me to get married to her cause she was a relative. I dropped her very quickly while she crying. She’s never forgiven me I think but what could’ve done! My boys probably knew the shape of her siil

You are a man and are in no way entitled to be offended if a wants to marry you.

 

[Grigori Rasputin]

You are a man and are in no way entitled to be offended if a wants to marry you.

Am I the one lagu aasayo I’m a well digger. A xaliimo who goes around will have to settle for less it’s like UK’s pound once it totally exits the EU, shit will depreciate

 

[Basra]

Am I the one lagu aasayo I’m a well digger. A xaliimo who goes around will have to settle for less it’s like UK’s pound once it totally exits the EU, shit will depreciate

Actually Rkelly I beg to differ. UK pound will never depreciate if it exits EU. In fact, EU will depreciate. UK pound is stronger the US dollar. They are not playing.

 

[Basra]

Am I the one lagu aasayo I’m a well digger. A xaliimo who goes around will have to settle for less it’s like UK’s pound once it totally exits the EU, shit will depreciate

Also when u do Aassoo Aassoo…..Rkelly do make noise in the act?

 

[Subeer]

Also when u do Aassoo Aassoo…..Rkelly do make noise in the act?

Do you?

 

[Basra]

Do you?

I cant remember the last time I did? need to re-boot my brain

 

[Ferrari]

Tell him. He will suspect you later when he finds out. He will kill you then.

 

[Subeer]

I cant remember the last time I did? need to re-boot my brain

I think you are actually the here basra

 

[Blade1]

She might have repented so don't tell, if he finds out and wants to leave her then thats up to him............but she was with ajnabis

 

[yaanyuur]

Bro tell him otherwise she will lie to him about being a virgin and also things will be awkward when you see them both

 

[Blade1]

Let's be honest the real question is if the boy has been clean the whole time or not
If he hasn't they deserve each other

 

[Subeer]

Let's be honest the real question is if the boy has been clean the whole time or not
If he hasn't they deserve each other

As far as i know he doesn't do stuff like that

 

[Subeer]

She might have repented so don't tell, if he finds out and wants to leave her then thats up to him............but she was with ajnabis

Yeah a lot of xalimos are dating ajnabis nowadays