Offcourse women who are not virgins get married everyday. Thats not the point. The question is when someone is getting married to someone, do they have the right to know about ones past or do they have the right to know only what the other person decided to share. It doesnt have to be sex, it can be someone having criminal past, previous drug use etc etc. If you knew a guy who lived certain way 2-3 years ago and he is getting married to your close friend and he presented himself completely different. Wouldnt you tell what you know about him?Do your community date a girl one and done for life, like she gets one guy who dates her in that entire community and her dating life is kaput? You’ll never see an acquaintance who dated the same person you did? You think women who aren’t virgins aren’t getting married everyday?
The super saiyan level of naïveté you have to operate under for the fairytales you construct is legit childish and impossible