My friend is getting married to a girl i've seen before, what should i do?????

[Mercury]

Yeah a lot of xalimos are dating ajnabis nowadays

Probably because when a farax gets dumped he Will expose her

 

[VixR]

So what you're saying here is that u view majority of Somali men as your cousins because u didn't grow up around Somalis all that much?

Sounds legit

I guess Somali men is not on the top of your list of men u could potentially share the rest of your life with.

All my life, I literally thought of Somali guys as my cousins or brothers. I think all people who grew up as a very small minority experience this, guys too. But it was like some of them had no qualms overcoming it and they tried asking me out as we grew up, but I could never think of them as romantic options. I even felt vaguely related to ones I didn’t grow up with.

It wasn’t until I met a guy from outside the community that I really connected with and was attracted to, and that I didn’t feel alienated or related to, that I started to overcome it.

 

[Kudhufo Kadhaqaq]

All my life, I literally thought of Somali guys as my cousins or brothers. I think all people who grew up as a very small minority experience this, guys too. But it was like some of them had no qualms overcoming it and they tried asking me out as we grew up, but I could never think of them as romantic options. I even felt vaguely related to ones I didn’t grow up with.

It wasn’t until I met a guy from outside the community that I really connected with and was attracted to, and that I didn’t feel alienated or related to, that I started to overcome it.

I hope u can find a Somali guy like that again and sweep off your feet

 

[World]

His friend could be the type to choose the girl over him. It's been known to happen before.

How would his friend find out he knew anyways as long as he doesn't say anything?

i am really thinking about telling him that not only me, but other Guys have been with her ajnabis as well.

 

[VixR]

I hope u can find a Somali guy like that again and sweep off your feet

After him, I’ve felt disinclined to date another Somali, but anything’s possible. He felt like pretty much a unicorn. Like no one’s that lucky twice.

 

[Kudhufo Kadhaqaq]

After him, I’ve felt disinclined to date another Somali, but anything’s possible. He felt like pretty much a unicorn. Like no one’s that lucky twice.

If u say so...

You're very honest person for a Somali girl tbh.

 

[Gooney112]

After him, I’ve felt disinclined to date another Somali, but anything’s possible. He felt like pretty much a unicorn. Like no one’s that lucky twice.

When you look to find faults in others, you will find them. I think deep down you feel somali guys are not on your level intellectually. So when you see a somali guy. You already enter the conversation with negative approach instead of open mindness. That means you scrutinize everything he says more. A person will sound dumber than they are when you do that. Just call me Dr Phil

 

[VixR]

When you look to find faults in others, you will find them. I think deep down you feel somali guys are not on your level intellectually. So when you see a somali guy. You already enter the conversation with negative approach instead of open mindness. That means you scrutinize everything he says more. A person will sound dumber than they are when you do that. Just call me Dr Phil

That’s not true. There was a point I felt like they were all my cousins, right. Well, that changed with him, but it turned out to be tragic bc he passed (accident), so now it’s like even if I find someone like that, it feels tainted.

 

[Gooney112]

That’s not true. There was a point I felt like they were all my cousins, right. Well, that changed with him, but it turned out to be tragic bc he passed (accident), so now it’s like even if I find someone like that, it feels tainted.

Sorry to hear that sis. Thats sad wallahi. I hope you find the right person

 

[VixR]

Sorry to hear that sis. Thats sad wallahi. I hope you find the right person

I’ve had time. I’ve come to terms with it. But I’m self aware

 

[FendiFanatic]

Yup #Condomssavelives

I think that does the opposite my wife

 

[FendiFanatic]

That’s not true. There was a point I felt like they were all my cousins, right. Well, that changed with him, but it turned out to be tragic bc he passed (accident), so now it’s like even if I find someone like that, it feels tainted.

I swear I can treat you amazing babes

 

[GoldmanSachs]

If she's the hoe you paint out then he already knows. The wasteman is inlove. If you tell him he will deny it and call you jealous. Your friendship will be over.

This. Took the words right out of my mouth. If she has the background OP says she does, then the man has likely heard the rumors and, for whatever reason, ignores them.

She has him wrapped around her finger.

 

[WarsameXamse]

Basically the title lol, at first i was internally laughing my ass off when he told me he was going to get married with a somali girl i've seen, and other Guys i know as well have been with. But mind you it was a long time ago i saw her, 2 and 1/2 years ago, and i havent spoken to her ever since. I thought he was joking when he said it, but now that i see he is serious, i am really thinking about telling him that not only me, but other Guys have been with her ajnabis as well.
After i tell him he can afterwards decide if he wants to stay with her, but i feel like its duty for me to at least inform him, but on the other hand, i have no business in exposing other peoples sins, so its kind of a dilemma???. This is in Scandinavia, and im not gonna say more, because i have a feeling some of them is in here, or at least lurking.

@guntiino101 @Basic @Luna @YourBroMoe @Crow @Factz @Cumar @Kudhufo Kadhaqaq @Fang4 @Geeljire lotus @Geeljire sanbuur @AarHawd_7 @AarLibaax @Cognitivedissonance @Knowles @esmailxxx @nine @Sheikh @AussieHustler @Mercury @Yaquub @xalimathe6 @Xalimo from da block @Emily

IF IT WAS VERY CLOSE FRIEND I REALLY CARE SO MUCH AND DEEPLY ABOUT LIKE A BROTHER, I WOULD TELL HIM

if he's just a average friend i would just mind my biz I WOULD FEEL FOR HIM

you said even ajnabis cumed in that??? that is defo expired goods right there my guy


THIS JUST REMINDED OF THIS FINE XALIMO I WAS CHATTING AND HELLA HOPEFUL ABOUT LAST WEEK UNTIL I FOUND OUT A Madow CUMED IN IT

i'm still linking up with her though just to get MINE (head and blow that bubble back of hers) but i'm not cuffing it like i was initially thinking

 

[WarsameXamse]

literally the only thing holding me back

if you care for tell him
if you don't, don't tell him

SIMPLE AS THAT

 

[Geeljire lotus]

After him, I’ve felt disinclined to date another Somali, but anything’s possible. He felt like pretty much a unicorn. Like no one’s that lucky twice.

What was so special about him ?

 

[AussieHustler]

Basically the title lol, at first i was internally laughing my ass off when he told me he was going to get married with a somali girl i've seen, and other Guys i know as well have been with. But mind you it was a long time ago i saw her, 2 and 1/2 years ago, and i havent spoken to her ever since. I thought he was joking when he said it, but now that i see he is serious, i am really thinking about telling him that not only me, but other Guys have been with her ajnabis as well.
After i tell him he can afterwards decide if he wants to stay with her, but i feel like its duty for me to at least inform him, but on the other hand, i have no business in exposing other peoples sins, so its kind of a dilemma???. This is in Scandinavia, and im not gonna say more, because i have a feeling some of them is in here, or at least lurking.

@guntiino101 @Basic @Luna @YourBroMoe @Crow @Factz @Cumar @Kudhufo Kadhaqaq @Fang4 @Geeljire lotus @Geeljire sanbuur @AarHawd_7 @AarLibaax @Cognitivedissonance @Knowles @esmailxxx @nine @Sheikh @AussieHustler @Mercury @Yaquub @xalimathe6 @Xalimo from da block @Emily

Come

Sxb, sidii habraha I don’t gossip, my friend should do his own homework before he wants to settle with a virgin girl, I’m not his Mama Malyuun or eeddo Cambaro. Whatever happens between me and a female stays between us and I don’t view virgin girls enjoyable in bed, my preference is quality and not messy haaheey. Ask these kind of questions the incels, they are the self-nominated Cambar inspectors and queens of gossip.

 

[Crow]

I know a girl who used to do that bit she wasn't serious and just used to get money and food from them and cut it.
She made quite a bit from it and used to treat us since we helped a bit find the guys for her.

I didn't take you for a pimp.
:siilaanyolaugh:

 

[esmailxxx]

I know a girl who used to do that bit she wasn't serious and just used to get money and food from them and cut it.
She made quite a bit from it and used to treat us since we helped a bit find the guys for her.

 

[Blade1]

I didn't take you for a pimp.
:siilaanyolaugh:

She did all the work I just helped a little when I realised she was making serious money