Marital rape, a hidden problem

[NotMyL]

Well that's unfortunate

It’s not really, you will understand when you get married, humping like bunnies every day isn’t realistic anyone who tells you they are doing it is either lying or doesn’t have a job. Also ain’t nobody trying to dry their hair out, washing your hair every day isn’t healthy, 3-4x a week is plenty.

 

[Mimir]

Yes!

If they did all the aforementioned, they'd notice their wife initiating intimacy more often.

Some men ignore their wives all day and then lay on top of them and hump away and then roll over to sleep. Like they went to the bathroom, that's how little intimacy they put in.

Yes!

If they did all the aforementioned, they'd notice their wife initiating intimacy more often.

Some men ignore their wives all day and then lay on top of them and hump away and then roll over to sleep. Like they went to the bathroom, that's how little intimacy they put in.

Isn’t sex without foreplay haram? Don’t quote me I’m just asking

Women need to be mentally/emotionally stimulated to enjoy physical intimacy.

Also, women need to be lubricated so if she isn't "warmed up", it will just hurt her.

Another very valid discussion that I think men on here need, they need to be educated on female anatomy and desires.

What is intimacy without foreplay?

Serious question, do men just want to penetrate, wham, bam, thank you ma'am.

Boring.

I call this pencil sharpener sex.

"When anyone of you has sex with his wife, then he should not go to her like birds; instead he should be slow and delaying.”
"Three people are cruel: …a person who has sex with his wife before foreplay.”
“When you intend to have sex with your wife, do not rush because the woman (also) has needs (which should be fulfilled).”

Most men don't understand this.

Plus,it would feel weird having sex with your wife when she isn't wet

 

[Basra]

It’s not really, you will understand when you get married, humping like bunnies every day isn’t realistic anyone who tells you they are doing it is either lying or doesn’t have a job. Also ain’t nobody trying to dry their hair out, washing your hair every day isn’t healthy, 3-4x a week is plenty.

Did u know Jiini like to reside in dirty unwashed hair?

 

[NotMyL]

Did u know Jiini like to reside in dirty unwashed hair?

Good to know Basra but I’m still not washing my hair everyday, maybe it works for women like you with no hair lol

 

[Helios]

It’s not really, you will understand when you get married, humping like bunnies every day isn’t realistic anyone who tells you they are doing it is either lying or doesn’t have a job. Also ain’t nobody trying to dry their hair out, washing your hair every day isn’t healthy, 3-4x a week is plenty.

I mean if I find a freak then I'll be lucky then lmao, I haven't done it yet so I wouldn't be able to say much about preferences tbh. Most people fantasizing about it are just horny teens on here.

Good hair advice I always rinse my hair whenever I shower I guess I'll leave it alone every few days

 

[Basra]

"When anyone of you has sex with his wife, then he should not go to her like birds; instead he should be slow and delaying.”
"Three people are cruel: …a person who has sex with his wife before foreplay.”
“When you intend to have sex with your wife, do not rush because the woman (also) has needs (which should be fulfilled).”

Most men don't understand this.

Plus,it would feel weird having sex with your wife when she isn't wet

Good to know Basra but I’m still not washing my hair everyday, maybe it works for women like you with no hair lol

 

[Mimir]

If a man genuinely believes that the angels will curse his wife if she refuses to have sex with him then it’s no surprise that he’d thinks it’s okay to rape his wife. The whole moral foundation is the problem

The moral foundation is fine the way it is. The problem arises when people don't properly interprate it and instead take it as it is. That hafith should be understood with other similar hadith concerning the same topic. It should never be isolated.

As @Mckenzie said, some women use sex as a weapon and a leverage, withholding it to get what they want and that's what the Hadith is probably warning against

 

[Basra]

The moral foundation is fine the way it is. The problem arises when people don't properly interprate it and instead take it as it is. That hafith should be understood with other similar hadith concerning the same topic. It should never be isolated.

As @Mckenzie said, some women use sex as a weapon and a leverage, withholding it to get what they want and that's what the Hadith is probably warning against

There are many hadiths where men are encouraged to withhold sex from his wife. This happens both ways.

It depends who has power in the marriage.


The perpetual horny one usually has less power.

 

[Helios]

There are many hadiths where men are encouraged to withhold sex from his wife. This happens both ways.

It depends who has power in the marriage.


The perpetual horny one usually has less power.

Which one are you?

 

[NotMyL]

I mean if I find a freak then I'll be lucky then lmao, I haven't done it yet so I wouldn't be able to say much about preferences tbh. Most people fantasizing about it are just horny teens on here.

Good hair advice I always rinse my hair whenever I shower I guess I'll leave it alone every few days

Lol men who haven’t had sex or have had it only few times fantasize or make it out to be something it’s not, there will come times where sleep is more important I know it’s hard to imagine now but trust me you will experience it.

And yeah stop washing your hair everyday, it’s not good for you, hubby has long hair and he used to wash it everyday before we met but now only wash it couple of times a week and his hair looks more healthy.

 

[Basra]

Which one are you?

 

[Basra]

Lol men who haven’t had sex or have had it only few times fantasize or make it out to be something it’s not, there will come times where sleep is more important I know it’s hard to imagine now but trust me you will experience it.

And yeah stop washing your hair everyday, it’s not good for you, hubby has long hair and he used to wash it everyday before we met but now only wash it couple of times a week and his hair looks more healthy.

I am sorry is it ok for me NOT to believe you share a bed with a husband? I am sorry i just find that improbable, maybe i am a hater, but i can;t swallow that

 

[Helios]

Lol men who haven’t had sex or have had it only few times fantasize or make it out to be something it’s not, there will come times where sleep is more important I know it’s hard to imagine now but trust me you will experience it.

And yeah stop washing your hair everyday, it’s not good for you, hubby has long hair and he used to wash it everyday before we met but now only wash it couple of times a week and his hair looks more healthy.

Sleep wtf I'm not a boomer. Jokes aside I keep my sleep schedule pretty tight I'm in bed before 9 on weekdays and 11 on weekends unless I'm watching a game

My hair isn't too long but I tend to keep it either too short to curl or just long enough to curl a little ty for the info

 

[NotMyL]

I am sorry is it ok for me NOT to believe you share a bed with a husband? I am sorry i just find that improbable, maybe i am a hater, but i can;t swallow that

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[Basra]

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[Gambar]

What is intimacy without foreplay?

Serious question, do men just want to penetrate, wham, bam, thank you ma'am.

Boring.

I call this pencil sharpener sex.

Yes and bear them 70 children.

 

[Finesse]

Yes and bear them 70 children.

And once their bodies are ruined from so many children, replace them with another one!

It's horrifying to think they ruined the holy parternship bond between man (Adam) and woman (Hawa) into this cold, factory line relationship.

Even the prophet SAW, had only 2 true loves and he was admired to his loves one at a time, first khadija then Aisha.

It just proves that genuine love is between one man and one woman and it's supposed to be gentle and a true partnership.

 

[Samaalic Era]

Imagine comparing this martial kufsi nonsense of these ciyaal suuq girls to the real traumatised victims of kufsi like the clip below?

These westernised naago have no shame at all

 

[Finesse]

@Samaalic Era


Have you never heard of men/women who are in the process of getting divorced/marital dispute where the "husband" forces himself on the woman?

Have you never heard of cases where a man beats his wife and then rapes her during/or after?

You have made many posts on this forum where you proudly and openly seem to support the notion that women are lesser beings, with no emotions/needs whose sole purpose is to be a semen dispenser and baby producer.

You really need to fear Allah and learn what a woman is.

You came out of WOMAN'S womb, so have some respect.

 

[Finesse]

The most ungrateful beings are "men" who hate women. I feel sorry for the women who carried and raised these beings only for them to turn around and try to abuse/minimise the very existence of womanhood.

Allah didn't create us to be sex toys/baby making machines.

Allah created us to worship him and to live on earth with our male partners/not abusers.