If your ex and your first love got divorced and runs back to you?

[VixR]

I see them all as properties

Then how about we stay in our respective properties? That actually sounds good to me ngl.

 

[nine]

The usual users spouting poison

 

[IstarZ]

I don’t operate on promises or words, but actions.

Precisely. This is where some women drop the ball.

 

[VixR]

Lool girl stop flexing. I seen to many girls flex about how their man gonna take care of everything and how they dont take no sh1t only to end up taking care of a man. My 50/50 wont be bad then if future vix is paying 100% and working while ole man is chilling lol.

Can’t be me. You’d never catch me going 50/50.

50/50 is code for the woman really doing 75-99%, but misnomered as 50%.

 

[VixR]

Precisely. This is where some women drop the ball.

What do you think of all this, sis?

 

[HalimaJ]

He is better man than me sis. I make good money and would still tell you to pay into the bills. Once a man gets married the days to impress is iver....no more paying for everything lol

Women pay. They pay through giving birth to your children (a physical and emotional trauma, and to add risking their lives) and by raising the children primarily and they are generally are expected to look after the household.

50/50 unless there is no choice, is a scam.

The very least a man can do is provide.

 

[Desert Flower]

Women pay. They pay through giving birth to your children (a physical and emotional trauma) and by raising the children primarily and they are generally are expected to look after the household.

50/50 unless their is no choice, due to high expensive living lost is a scam.

50/50 does not exist. Its just a way for men to not have to contribute much financially. All the work still lies with the woman. So basically, men get help with bills and woman are doing everything else. You wouldn't accept that in a business deal, so why would you accept that arrangement within a marriage? Which imo I believe should be approached using logic and facts, sorta like a business.

 

[Desert Flower]

Off topic, but I could never get with a stingy, broke man. Woman need to start ASKING for what they WANT, NEED AND DESERVE. Early on in the courtship process before you start investing in a man emotionally. How can you love a man, have kids with a man, cook and clean for a man who refuses to carry the financial responsibilities of the household? Who tells you that your portion of the rent is due and that you need to e-transfer him your half of the light bill? Uff caleyk.

A real man prides himself on providing for the lady in his life and for his household.

 

[HalimaJ]

Oh you mean promises.....lol if you only knew some if the promises i have made in the past. Newsflash....men lies.

Yep, they lie and their feelings for you can change. Even more reason to make sure you have your name on the lease and record the amount he owes you if you lend him alot.

 

[IstarZ]

What do you think of all this, sis?

The 50/50 arrangement?

I think a wife has to be aware of and have access to the money her husband makes. She also has to ensure that her name is on things like properties, car etc. If that does not happen the woman is no more than a glorified maid and a baby making machine.

 

[HalimaJ]

50/50 does not exist. Its just a way for men to not have to contribute much financially. All the work still lies with the woman. So basically, men get help with bills and woman are doing everything else. You wouldn't accept that in a business deal, so why would you accept that arrangement within a marriage? Which imo I believe should be approached using logic and facts, sorta like a business.

I know its ridiculous. Women are risking their lives and health having babies for these selfish men and some men don't even have the decency to provide and carry out their simple role.

 

[Desert Flower]

I know its ridiculous. Women are risking their lives and health having babies for these selfish men and some men don't even have the decency to provide and carry out their simple role.

Wallahi, there is nothing more that I hate than a stingy, selfish man. They should be eradicated. A man stingy with his pockets is stingy with his love, support, advice, compassion, generosity etc.

 

[Desert Flower]

The 50/50 arrangement?

I think a wife has to be aware of and have access to the money her husband makes. She also has to ensure that her name is on things like properties, car etc. If that does not happen the woman is no more than a glorified maid and a baby making machine.

Imagine cleaning and putting uunsi in a home that you are not even listed on? Biggest L ever. The thought of that pisses me off.

 

[nine]

@TekNiKo Sxb waxaas iska dhaaf. Don't be someone else's back up.

 

[Crow]

@TekNiKo Forget about her. Don't even mention her to your current wife. This woman has had at least two major breakups - you and the second man. Expect more trouble from her in the future. Don't jeopardize what you currently have for the possibility of what might be. Be responsible and think of your family.

 

[Tukraq]

50/50 does not exist. Its just a way for men to not have to contribute much financially. All the work still lies with the woman. So basically, men get help with bills and woman are doing everything else. You wouldn't accept that in a business deal, so why would you accept that arrangement within a marriage? Which imo I believe should be approached using logic and facts, sorta like a business.

If I’m doing all the providing and hiring a maid/cook/nanny, I’m okay with that just don’t be surprised if your one of four and no you will not be on the lease of my properties lol since you didn’t invest in it and “it’s sort of like a business”

The 50/50 arrangement?

I think a wife has to be aware of and have access to the money her husband makes. She also has to ensure that her name is on things like properties, car etc. If that does not happen the woman is no more than a glorified maid and a baby making machine.

Aware and have access it’s going to a tax safe haven like the caymans or Switzerland chill out, kids will have a bright future though

 

[Desert Flower]

If I’m doing all the providing and hiring a maid/cook/nanny, I’m okay with that just don’t be surprised if your one of four and no you will not be on the lease of my properties lol since you didn’t invest in it and “it’s sort of like a business”

Aware and have access it’s going to a tax safe haven like the caymans or Switzerland chill out, kids will have a bright future though

You're actually nuts. May God help you. Not to mention, your business acumen sucks!

 

[Tukraq]

You're actually nuts. May God help you. Not to mention, your business acumen sucks!

How does it suck? You need to invest capital in a business to get a stakehold well same concept here

 

[diaby]

@Ferrari he didn't last more than a few days

 

[TekNiKo]

@TekNiKo Forget about her. Don't even mention her to your current wife. This woman has had at least two major breakups - you and the second man. Expect more trouble from her in the future. Don't jeopardize what you currently have for the possibility of what might be. Be responsible and think of your family.

I have made decision not to pursue this marriage, my Sspot brothers all warning me means trouble is down ahead.

Thanks guys, I will stick to only one wife.