If your ex and your first love got divorced and runs back to you?

[Jaydaan]

He pays bills and rent. I pay groceries. He's making good money and doesn't ask or accept my money.

He is better man than me sis. I make good money and would still tell you to pay into the bills. Once a man gets married the days to impress is iver....no more paying for everything lol

 

[VixR]

True...you shoukd insist on having your name there. Just make sure you pay your bit. If we split you have your bit. But no sane person is gonna agree you pay everything and put my name there. You cant say he is bad person for refusing that. He's just not retarded which is a good thing

Let me tell you: Plenty of sane, intelligent people would, and I’ll limit myself to them.

 

[Inquisitive_]

why would you pack your bags if I don't put you on a lease of a house I'm fully paying for?

She will own half of it anyway, this new generation want a civil marriage to go with the nikah as a package.

So when they decide upon divorce as they initiate 70% of it (national statistics but in our community closer to 90%) she can screw you far deeper.

This is all done by design in the west to destroy the family unit by placing you at her mercy which is repulsive to both of you on a biological level.

It's a game of Russian roulette with your future and that of your children.

Why any male would take on such exposure while paying ridiculous sums for it is beyond me when far superior options are available without any of these risks

 

[wawenka]

Say what you will. It’s a pretty good indicator. If your name is not in the household you share in this day and age, chances are you eventually won’t physically be in that house either.

In our tradions as in ISLAM when a man marries a women all the financial obligations to provide for her and their maintenance is on him ! If you are measuring your marriage based on other principals then that's all you.

 

[Jaydaan]

Let me tell you: Plenty of sane, intelligent people would, and I’ll limit myself to them.

Big up if you find someone who agrees to that. I cant even hate on that. I would respect your game and salute you lol

 

[VixR]

In our tradions as in ISLAM when a man marries a women all the financial obligations to provide for her and their maintenance is on him ! If you are measuring your marriage based on other principals then that's all you.

In that case, why wouldn’t her name be on the house?

If only your name is on the house, you’re only providing for yourself, not your family.

Big up if you find someone who agrees to that. I cant even hate on that. I would respect your game and salute you lol

I already have a few times over, and I have now. It depends on if it’ll work out in other areas.

The trick is in finding a decent guy who you can tell loves you. If they try to short change you every which-where in your relationship, it was strained to begin with.

 

[Tukraq]

She will own half of it anyway, this new generation want a civil marriage to go with the nikah as a package.

So when they decide upon divorce as they initiate 70% of it (national statistics but in our community closer to 90%) she can screw you far deeper.

This is all done by design in the west to destroy the family unit by placing you at her mercy which is repulsive to both of you on a biological level.

It's a game of Russian roulette with your future and that of your children.

Why any male would take on such exposure while paying ridiculous sums for it is beyond me when far superior options are available without any of these risks

nah sxb civil marriage with 4 women is illegal, I'm only doing the nikkah and wedding

 

[Tukraq]

In that case, why wouldn’t her name be on the house?

If only your name is on the house, you’re only providing for yourself, not your family.

what does the name on the house have to do with providing?

 

[VixR]

what does the name on the house have to do with providing?

He’s providing for himself. What he’s saying essentially, is that you don’t belong there. It’s one of the more telling signs to pick up on.

 

[Tukraq]

He’s providing for himself. What he’s saying essentially, is that you don’t belong there. It’s one of the more telling signs to pick up on.

why would you not belong there if your his wife? you just don't have ownership if you didn't pay for it, but you obviously live there, telling sign of what? he's still providing, you have a roof over your head and food on the table

 

[Samaalic Era]

No sane guy would marry a girl who chose some guy over you.

Have some pride and forget this . She only wants to destroy your marriage and then ditch you

 

[wawenka]

In that case, why wouldn’t her name be on the house?

If only your name is on the house, you’re only providing for yourself, not your family.

What are you on about? if I buy house which is not likely goin to happen here in the west because of the intrest.then My wife is clearly not goin to pay anything. And if we break up she is entitled to her dowry and it's up to her to request how much she wants at the start of the ceremony??

 

[Jaydaan]

In that case, why wouldn’t her name be on the house?

If only your name is on the house, you’re only providing for yourself, not your family.

I already have a few times over, and I have now. It depends on if it’ll work out in other areas.

The trick is in finding a decent guy who you can tell loves you. If they try to short change you every which-where, it was strained to begin with.

Oh you mean promises.....lol if you only knew some if the promises i have made in the past. Newsflash....men lies.

 

[Jaydaan]

No sane guy would marry a girl who chose some guy over you.

Have some pride and forget this . She only wants to destroy your marriage and then ditch you

Or get revenge. But to make her a real wife is weak as hell

 

[VixR]

Oh you mean promises.....lol if you only knew some if the promises i have made in the past. Newsflash....men lies.

I don’t operate on promises or words, but actions.

why would you not belong there if your his wife? you just don't have ownership if you didn't pay for it, but you obviously live there, telling sign of what? he's still providing, you have a roof over your head and food on the table

Why are you his wife if the very house you live in and supposedly share with him you don’t actually share at all?

I hope to god she isn’t cleaning it’s floors, or lifting a finger.

 

[Samaalic Era]

Or get revenge. But to make her a real wife is weak as hell

You could do that as well but from a deen perspective, I would just completely cut ties

 

[Tukraq]

I don’t operate on promises or words, but actions.

Why are you his wife if the very house you live in and supposedly share with him you don’t actually share?

you share it living wise but not ownership wise, you need to actually buy one to own it, if my wife owned a house I wouldn't have any problems, just more houses we can add to the family collection infact she could rent that one out and make a decent profit while living in my house, in the end your not entitled to ownership of a house you made no payments on

 

[VixR]

you share it living wise but not ownership wise, you need to actually buy one to own it, if my wife owned a house I wouldn't have any problems, just more houses we can add to the family collection intact she could rent that one out and make a decent profit, in the end your not entitled to ownership of a house you made no payments on

A house you own is is not a home, it’s a property. Either party can hold properties they own independently.

The family home you live in is your home. If you don’t any share in that, you’re kaput.

 

[Tukraq]

A house you own is is not a home, it’s a property. Either party can hold properties they own independently.

The family home is your home. If you don’t any share in that, you’re kaput.

I see them all as properties

 

[Jaydaan]

I don’t operate on promises or words, but actions.

Why are you his wife if the very house you live in and supposedly share with him you don’t actually share at all?

I hope to god she isn’t cleaning it’s floors, or lifting a finger.

Lool girl stop flexing. I seen to many girls flex about how their man gonna take care of everything and how they dont take no sh1t only to end up taking care of a man. My 50/50 wont be bad then if future vix is paying 100% and working while ole man is chilling lol.