In the old days not a single one of these men that had 4 wife's would ever consider these entitled spoiled contemporary women of the diaspora, even if these men were allowed to marry 10, it's the same story for me, I would rather take a bullet then end up with one of them.
Those women back then and even today (back home) are inculcated with deen, the first question that comes out of their mouth is "what's the guy's deen and akhlaaq like"!
Especially more so now since many idiotic mothers forced their mentally/spiritually handicapped low life son's to marry from back home ruining a few of these women who previously had good opinions of the men abroad until that reputation was ruined by these mothers, those same mothers who helped destroy the institution of marriage in the diaspora.
The contemporary highly entitled, diaspora raised, extremely fickle, petty, conceited brain dead doqomad is incapable of registering these questions in her obtuse brain much less ask them.
I have met many quasi outwardly religious females who never ask these questions either, it's all about your immediate material possessions they care about, the first question that often comes up is "do you have car"
I kid you not, that was the first question many of them asked me, followed by were do you "work", you know a person by the type of questions they ask, the more debased they are, the more disgusting those questions become.