They know that Halimos hate these threadsYep lool. So what is the point of this thread. If she knows he eventually will, then I fail to see what the dilemma is. @Oday-yar you just wanted a platinum thread.
how to go about second wife without burning bridges with the first one
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You don’t tell her, you just do it. Women are caruur cago weyn, you don’t tell them everything. Do you tell a goat, you are having her for dinner
Ignore the naysayers sxb. As long as you're being upfront, I support your efforts to expand your lineage
Truth tea?? The men are jealous of you because they know they don't have the means to follow through with your scenario (whilst still fulfilling all their husbandly duties). And us women? Sadly, a lot of us are so selfish and bitter that we can't bear to fathom even the IDEA of a man just living his best life. Honestly, I don't know why we have this crazy need to center ourselves in situations that aren't directly affecting us. We need to do better. Be your man's peace ladies.
Truth tea?? The men are jealous of you because they know they don't have the means to follow through with your scenario (whilst still fulfilling all their husbandly duties). And us women? Sadly, a lot of us are so selfish and bitter that we can't bear to fathom even the IDEA of a man just living his best life. Honestly, I don't know why we have this crazy need to center ourselves in situations that aren't directly affecting us. We need to do better. Be your man's peace ladies.
I don't think this is one of those "it's easier to ask for forgiveness" scenarios, niyahow.
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So that is your logic? You will create a bunch of fatherless adults that never had a healthy childhood lets have mire traumatized somalis.
It’s more of what she’s doesn’t know, won’t hurt her. I don’t think most women care if you marry another woman as long you don’t tell her. Naturally they understand as they get older and have children, they become less desirable, but they don’t want it in their face. Just marry another one discreetly.I don't think this is one of those "it's easier to ask for forgiveness" scenarios, niyahow.
Lmaoo less desirable?!? Your pathetic. I will always be desirable and valued. It’s funny how Somali men think they don’t age! You will age aswell. Your not a vampire.
Your a weirdo.
Ignore the naysayers sxb. As long as you're being upfront, I support your efforts to expand your lineage
Truth tea?? The men are jealous of you because they know they don't have the means to follow through with your scenario (whilst still fulfilling all their husbandly duties). And us women? Sadly, a lot of us are so selfish and bitter that we can't bear to fathom even the IDEA of a man just living his best life. Honestly, I don't know why we have this crazy need to center ourselves in situations that aren't directly affecting us. We need to do better. Be your man's peace ladies.
Well stated!! Thank you.
why am I getting attacked like this? kkk I didn't do any of you any harm.
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Thank you sister. I got dragged hard in this thread, it's good to see an encouraging post, and from a woman too, for a change.Ignore the naysayers sxb. As long as you're being upfront, I support your efforts to expand your lineage
Truth tea?? The men are jealous of you because they know they don't have the means to follow through with your scenario (whilst still fulfilling all their husbandly duties). And us women? Sadly, a lot of us are so selfish and bitter that we can't bear to fathom even the IDEA of a man just living his best life. Honestly, I don't know why we have this crazy need to center ourselves in situations that aren't directly affecting us. We need to do better. Be your man's peace ladies.
"The further a society drifts from the truth, the more it will hate those that speak it",
Don't let it get to you, their hate only further confirms you're on the correct path.
You're very combative, sis. Take it easy. A man is gonna what he wants to do. It is not like he is doing haram thing or he is asking to marry you. Let him do his thing.
OHH c’mon did he pick you YET? Do you want to be his second wife or….. we all know most of the polygamous marriage aren’t done properly. But anyways, we have a unicorn @Oday-yar here and apparently he has « LONG money » and will do it « right way » without burning bridges.
Good luck! If you mess up just know your wife and kids will resent you.
Baax warya! The fact that your calling me aggressive and thinking what he said was okay is disturbing. His whole ethos about getting a second wife is not even honourable or right!
«Naturally they understand as they get older and have children, they become less desirable, but they don’t want it in their face. Just marry another one discreetly. » what is this BS?!? Both of y’all are trash lugo basto dusties that hide behind the deen to manipulate and harm women…. You guys view women as sex toys and when your done you move on to the next… Polygamy has conditions just remember…
He even said to do it discreetly! What a weakling!
Ignore the naysayers sxb. As long as you're being upfront, I support your efforts to expand your lineage
Truth tea?? The men are jealous of you because they know they don't have the means to follow through with your scenario (whilst still fulfilling all their husbandly duties). And us women? Sadly, a lot of us are so selfish and bitter that we can't bear to fathom even the IDEA of a man just living his best life. Honestly, I don't know why we have this crazy need to center ourselves in situations that aren't directly affecting us. We need to do better. Be your man's peace ladies.
This person is either a farax or a pick me.
Deffo a pick me LOOLThis person is either a farax or a pick me.
This person is either a farax or a pick me.
Nope, she is a realist. She understands the faith and those who plan to marry several wives have the right to do so. Therefore, she doesn't understand the fist that some of you're throwing up.
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Again, take it easy. How others choose to live has no bearing on you. Just worry about your life and make sure you do it right. It is not like men who want to marry several wives are gonna stop for people in cyberspace who are calling them names. They aint. So not sure why you would get upset abt it.
Additionally, there are people who are promiscuous in their single lives. I've seen people making threads about them, and I don't see people taking issues with them. Those activities are even far worse. Taking a second wife is a halal, so not sure why would it be an issue on your end when you see other behaviors which are far worse - which you don't take an issue with. Think about that!
why do you keep attacking me sister? nobody likes aggressive women. please get in touch with your feminine side again so you can become more attractive to your prospective husband.
