Baliska
You and I know there’s a double standard when it comes to virginity in the Somali community. where only women are expected to be virgins before mariage.
A woman is expected to retain her virginity so only her husband can claim to have possessed her. Her sexual gratification is seen as secondary to her ability to be a baby making factory to some farax who has tried to sleep with half of his city. I don’t support such primitive thinking!
The focus then should be on shaming men who sleep around. Not trivialising virginity, which is valid requirement to have for both sexes. It says a lot about a person's character and personality.
The issue is that women do not shame men, while they SHOULD be doing it everyday. Women should see men who sleep around as s and they should dislike them. The problem is simple, the vast majority of women enjoy a man who has slept around and see it as a desirable trait. So the double standard occurs as a result.