Anyone worried about not being married yet?

are you worried?

  • yes

    Votes: 8 10.0%
  • no

    Votes: 36 45.0%
  • don't think about it

    Votes: 13 16.3%
  • too young

    Votes: 23 28.8%

  • Total voters
    80
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Why you lying for? West London
is Mainly darood and Hawiyee with
A small minority of issaqs

NW is the same also, are you even
From London?

North London is Hawiyee

NW is darood majority with small
Hawiyee and even smaller Issaq
enclaves

East and south east - Issaq mainly
HY in woolwich and lewisham
Stretham - which is south east is
Hawiyee
 
Why you lying for? West London is
Mainly darood and Hawiyee

NW is the same also, are you even
From London?

North London is Hawiyee

NW is darood majority also

Easy and south east - Issaq

Have you lost it? Hounslow? Slough? Sheperds Bush? Hayes? all of that is Isaaq central. East is just HJ subclan of Isaaq not even all of Isaaq loool this is how I know you are definitely not from London... you one of those Sheffield HJs soo maha:pachah1::pachah1::pachah1:

Are you mad? Hawiyes in nw are very rare, nw is Darood central abaayo... harrow? camden? and Isaaqs are in Wembley
 
Have you lost it? Hounslow? Slough? Sheperds Bush? Hayes? all of that is Isaaq central. East is just HJ subclan of Isaaq not even all of Isaaq loool this is how I know you are definitely not from London... you one of those Sheffield HJs soo maha:pachah1::pachah1::pachah1:

East has a lot of Hawiyee and dhulos
Too, It isn't just HJ anymore reer
Europe have moved in

Nah you're not from London, how
You going to say west London is
Majority Issaq when everyone
Knows it's not. Hawiyees and
Daroods are the majority
there

You said you was reer Bristol
when U joined this site

:camby:U know nothing
about the clan dynamics in London
 
East has a lot of Hawiyee and dhulos
Too, It isn't just HJ anymore reer
Europe have moved in

Nah you're not from London, how
You going to say west London is
Majority Issaq when everyone
Knows it's not. Hawiyees and
Daroods are the majority
there

You said you was reer Bristol
when U joined this site

:camby:U know nothing
about the clan dynamics in London

Show me where I said I'm reer bristol? You must be drunk tonight kkkk

And nah HJ own east London you lot live with the pakis in tower hamlets, hawiyes live further out in Ilford and that

West london is Isaaq anyone who knows London knows landers are all in West london. Daroods live in north West and north (finsbury park, islington)

@Prince of Lasanod if you think isaaq girls in west are mad you should see the ones in south east kkkk woolwich girls- they are habar yonis
 
Show me where I said I'm reer bristol? You must be drunk tonight kkkk

And nah HJ own east London you lot live with the pakis in tower hamlets, hawiyes live further out in Ilford and that

West london is Isaaq anyone who knows London knows landers are all in West london. Daroods live in north West and north (finsbury park, islington)

@Prince of Lasanod if you think isaaq girls in west are mad you should see the ones in south east kkkk woolwich girls- they are habar yonis

Horta why are you recycling my
Cusses for? Just becaue you drink
Doesn't mean we all do sxb some
Of us fear Allah

I'm sick and tired of unoriginal
Plagiarists ripping my cusses off
on Here

What the f*ck are you on about?
Tower hamlets is one borough in
East - since the reer Europeans
Like yourself came to London
A lot of hawiyees live in east

Ilford technically is considered
east London also - tower hamlets
is Not just Issaq it is home to
dhulos And Hawiyees

Nigga I already said daroods live
In NW - Camden is their headquarters
Why are u repeating my shit

West London is mostly darood and
Hawiyee with a few Issaq

:trumpsmirk: U seem very
Angry tonight everything ok
At home sxb? I hope the war
Isn't causing trouble
 
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Horta why are you recycling my
Cusses for? Just becaue you drink
Doesn't mean we all do sxb some
Of us fear Allah

I'm sick and tired of unoriginal
Plagiarists ripping my cusses off
on Here

What the f*ck are you on about?
Tower hamlets is one borough in
East - since the reer Europeans
Like yourself came to London
A lot of hawiyees live in east

Ilford technically is considered
east London also - tower hamlets
is Not just Issaq it is home to
dhulos And Hawiyees

Nigga I already said daroods live
In NW - Camden is their headquarters
Why are u repeating my shit

West London is mostly darood and
Hawiyee with a few Issaq

:trumpsmirk: U seem very
Angry tonight everything ok
At home sxb? I hope the war
Isn't causing trouble

You have honestly lost the plot it was me who said Darood run north west you literally repeated everything I said then claimed west is not Isaaq anyone reading this thread can see you suffer from some kind of mental ailment.

Okay name what areas of west Daroods live... only place where few Mj live is Acton... I've already named you everywhere Isaaqs have in West. Stop running away from the L West is isaaqistan and the hotspot for hoes


Oh and a lot of habar awals live in nw as well in harrow and wembley sides don't tell me about my own part lol and Camden is acc just Mj stronghold not all of Darood

If your brave tell me what ends you from in our private messaging chat
 
You have honestly lost the plot it was me who said Darood run north west you literally repeated everything I said then claimed west is not Isaaq anyone reading this thread can see you suffer from some kind of mental ailment.

Okay name what areas of west Daroods live... only place where few Mj live is Acton... I've already named you everywhere Isaaqs have in West. Stop running away from the L West is isaaqistan and the hotspot for hoes


Oh and a lot of habar awals live in nw as well in harrow and wembley sides don't tell me about my own part lol and Camden is acc just Mj stronghold not all of Darood

If your brave tell me what ends you from in our private messaging chat

:pachah1:I have the proper
breakdown Anyways why you
exposing london To ppl who ain't
from the U.K.

Have some loyalty to your own
And don't use my cusses again
They are copyrighted by me

Now why would I expose my ends
To u? :comeon: I have a fan club
Of haters on here
 
:pachah1:I have the proper
breakdown Anyways why you
exposing london To ppl who ain't
from the U.K.

Have some loyalty to your own
And don't use my cusses again
They are copyrighted by me

Now why would I expose my ends
To u? :comeon: I have a fan club
Of haters on here

Cause I'm tryna see what them lips are saying after Ramadan:damedamn:

Stop extending this thread though it's long reply in private messaging fadlan
 
"Religion isn't all about praying and fasting 24-7 and not having a life." Is that all you got from my post, really?

You do realize that the "marriage is half your deen" is not to be taken literally, right. Just because you got married, it doesn't mean you magically completed half of your deen.

Marriage is encouraged in Islam is because it safeguards people from zina(and other minor sins which are related to lust) which is one of the major sins in Islam. It's a safe way to satisfy your human needs without sinning. I mean, there are other things to marriage other than the sex, but I'm just mentioning the biggest reason as for why the prophet (SAW) encouraged people to marry young. It's basically, a way to free up time to do more worshipping.

Unfortunately, that's not the case for a lot of married muslims today. Despite being married they still cheat on their spouses and there are mothers who never picked up the kitaab again since they got married. Mothers don't have the time or the energy to worship Allah due to them being busy with the kids. Obviously, not all muslims are like that, but as years go by, I see less and less of pious households.

You have to understand that there are outliers to everything, not everyone will benefit from a marriage, certainly not an Asexual being like me.:zhqjlmx:I guess, I'll have stick to "praying and fasting 24-7 and not having a life."

You said "I know this may sound extreme, but my opinion is that the main purpose why we're on this earth is to worship Allah. Everything else is should be secondary."
and I was just stating how worship isn't limited to only prayer and fasting. You can perform different types of ibadah without them being seen as being less important. Their importance may be prioritized by individuals but there are many forms of worship.


I assumed that you had normal libido and was just stating how marriage, working, or studying are all rewarded (it's not a must you do them just giving examples:whoa:) and they don't have to be seen as a distraction or waste of time from your deen. They can all be ways to enhance your deen and service to the community. Looking at it from another perspective, the mothers that had high libido before marriage and wanted companionship, may feel that marriage allowed them to better focus on the deen instead of giving focus to their distracting desires that they couldn't do Islamically until the marriage.

If you feel that marriage isn't for you then it's fine especially if you're asexual. There's more than one way you can be of service to Allah and the community. Sorry if you felt offended.
 
Cause I'm tryna see what them lips are saying after Ramadan:damedamn:

Stop extending this thread though it's long reply in private messaging fadlan

Waskah

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It sound super tough when I think about it. I don’t know how future jerome will act. I always considered getting married in my late twenties and early thirties when I was younger.i wasn’t that religious I assumed I was gonna just date someone for a few years and than marry them. I wasn’t focused on abstaining for so long I was just worried about losing my virginity to some random chick lame chick.i don’t want to regret that.i just planned on getting married when I was financially stable.

I honestly don’t know anyone that has abstained that long. I always wondered if most Muslim pre meds or law students abstained that long. Cause here you have to finish 4 years of uni first than go to med school. U can go to grad school in between if your grades aren’t the best just so you can boost them.

Do you know females that have abstained that long?
Ideally id meet my man in med school. Why not just do the same? Id want to meet him at med school then have the nikaax like 3rd or 4th year. I dont care for a wedding tbh. You can match to the same residency anyways. Just make sure shes in med school too and youll be set. Yall can study together, they wint be a distraction cause theyd want to succeed too and theyd understand the workload.

Most people by 3rd year med school are married or engaged or in a long term relationship planning to get married anyways imo.
 
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