Anyone worried about not being married yet?

[MariaMaria]

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[Abdalla]

I've dated the hottest xalimos in town but I didn't feel connection. You need someone you like being with. A lot of my friends are married but all of them are unhappily married and cheat constantly. Get it out of your system before you get married

 

[Jake from State Farm]

Ideally id meet my man in med school. Why not just do the same? Id want to meet him at med school then have the nikaax like 3rd or 4th year. I dont care for a wedding tbh. You can match to the same residency anyways. Just make sure shes in med school too and youll be set. Yall can study together, they wint be a distraction cause theyd want to succeed too and theyd understand the workload.

Most people by 3rd year med school are married or engaged or in a long term relationship planning to get married anyways imo.

Yea I was thinking of just dating a cadaan or anjabi while I’m in school. Or hit up the MSA offered on campus later on when I’m close to finishing school.

 

[zeinap83]

Yea I was thinking of just dating a cadaan or anjabi while I’m in school. Or hit up the MSA offered on campus later on when I’m close to finishing school.

nigga you missed my point completely.

Whilst your pre med focus on yourself when you reach med school just link with a couple of somali girls who are also in med school (life would be easier if theyre in med school not obligatory but preffered) then just get married to them? Why are you gonna waste an ajnabi girls time waraya? #theygotfeelingstoo

 

[MariaMaria]

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[Jake from State Farm]

nigga you missed my point completely.

Whilst your pre med focus on yourself when you reach med school just link with a couple of somali girls who are also in med school (life would be easier if theyre in med school not obligatory but preffered) then just get married to them? Why are you gonna waste an ajnabi girls time waraya? #theygotfeelingstoo

Is it guaranteed imma see a somali female at a med school or grad school?

Out of all of my college courses I have ever taken I have had one other Somali female in my class. I rarely see them on campus. I’m leaving my community college and attending a uni this fall as well. So I don’t know how many Somali chicks imma see there.

Does your area have xalimos graduating med school every year?

 

[MariaMaria]

@Kudhufo Kadhaqaq

what's your dislike for marriage? share your story

 

[Jake from State Farm]

@zeinap83 i have always considered non Somali women. I’m not a ass hole.

I don’t plan on wasting anyone’s time.

 

[zeinap83]

Is it guaranteed imma see a somali female at a med school or grad school?

Out of all of my college courses I have ever taken I have had one other Somali female in my class. I rarely see them on campus. I’m leaving my community college and attending a uni this fall as well. So I don’t know how many Somali chicks imma see there.

Does your area have xalimos graduating med school every year?

Not a garuntee but there are a handful here and there. She doesnt necessarily have to be in med school but if she was your life would be easier. All im saying is you can get married in med school its not difficult you dont need to be waiting to be 35 when youre financially stable. Just dont plan on having kids at any point till after residency. ik this couple their both physicians and got married in med school they got 3 grown ass kids now. Its possible.

 

[zeinap83]

@zeinap83 i have always considered non Somali women. I’m not a ass hole.

I don’t plan on wasting anyone’s time.

lmaoo it sounded like you were keeping them as fillers.

 

[Jake from State Farm]

Not a garuntee but there are a handful here and there. She doesnt necessarily have to be in med school but if she was your life would be easier. All im saying is you can get married in med school its not difficult you dont need to be waiting to be 35 when youre financially stable. Just dont plan on having kids at any point till after residency. ik this couple their both physicians and got married in med school they got 3 grown ass kids now. Its possible.

That would be cool

 

[RedStar]

Nope and thanks to Somali culture ain't nobody gonna say anything about it


Been enjoying life ever since I left uni, been to 4 other continents, taken on new hobbies, currently learning a new language and made connections around the world. I would've not been able to do all of that if I was married.

I'll get married when I find a girl that's the right fit for me and when I'm ready.

 

[buuqiyobalayo]

I think I’ll be married soon probably not even by choice

 

[Jake from State Farm]

I think I’ll be married soon probably not even by choice

You being forced into marriage?

 

[buuqiyobalayo]

You being forced into marriage?

Idk some dudes family asked about me and my mother has been trying to convince me lmao its hard to say no to my mom

 

[Cumar]

Idk some dudes family asked about me and my mother has been trying to convince me lmao its hard to say no to my mom

Don't ever feel you have to say yes to please anyone, even your Mom. It's your life at the end of the day. You have a right to refuse to get married to him in Islam for whatever reason you want or even no reason at all.

 

[Jake from State Farm]

Idk some dudes family asked about me and my mother has been trying to convince me lmao its hard to say no to my mom

You know anything about him? You don’t want to be married to some random

 

[MariaMaria]

Idk some dudes family asked about me and my mother has been trying to convince me lmao its hard to say no to my mom

Don't let your parents influence you into marriage, it has to be your choice alone. You are so young and I highly recommend you live life before you make such a commitment or either meet someone yourself.

 

[Kudhufo Kadhaqaq]

@Kudhufo Kadhaqaq

what's your dislike for marriage? share your story

I don't trust women enough for me to get married. The stories u will hear from alot of these divorced guys is just depressing imo.

 

[MariaMaria]

I don't trust women enough for me to get married. The stories u will hear from alot of these divorced guys is just depressing imo.

Not gonna like Somali married couples put me off marriage soo much. but happiness in marriage is out there trust in love