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halwa

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Umm Aisha was desperate right?
Diinta ha ku geefin.

We marry because we can. We marry cause we can afford. We marry to make muslims and somalis more. We marry due to naxariis
Waryaa

Why are you bringing Aisha RA. The prophet SCW had more than 4 wives and he treated them with respect and dignity. He was Jannah. Something that you men are not and will never be. You mistreat your wives and don’t treat them in an equal manner. It is a shame you guys play on the one gift Allah has blessed you peoples with. The 4 wife situation now and during the saxaaba times were completely different. So do not bring the saxaaba into this conversation, nacasyahow gafuurka weyn. Bilaa akhlaaq

I don’t care why you marry. Don’t tell me because I didn’t ask you to explain it to me. Useless piece of human life.
 
I understand sis, but I’m looking at it from an emotional point of view and things I have seen and noticed in the Somali community and my family. There is just so much jealousy.

I can’t even hear a guy who has 2,3 or 4 wives.

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True abayo some of the men abuse it and dont follow the rules. My dad and grandfather married multiple wives they were fair never mistreated their wives. My mom was happy so was my dad. It is not always about sex for women maybe they just happened to love the same guy and if it works for them who cares.
 
He prefers to have one wife only and supports his sisters in Islam who accept this motion but are too jealous and wound up in their feelings. Normal women don’t like to share a man. It is only the desperate and needy who are happy with polygamy.


Leave him alone.
Not every woman is as jealous as you. I am dealing with a xalimo born and bred in london and I already asked....if I married another woman in the future how would you feel. She said she would accept because allah gave me that right. As long as I did her right. Mercury is not gonna stop us from what allah allowed us nor is he gonna pretend he cares for well being of women. This is another attack on somali men.
 

halwa

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Not every woman is as jealous as you. I am dealing with a xalimo born and bred in london and I already asked....if I married another woman in the future how would you feel. She said she would accept because allah gave me that right. As long as I did her right. Mercury is not gonna stop us from what allah allowed us nor is he gonna pretend he cares for well being of women. This is another attack on somali men.


No one is stopping you.

And i will be jealous because I can be jealous. Are you the one I am going to marry? No.

So pass along, man. Fly by.
 
Waryaa

Why are you bringing Aisha RA. The prophet SCW had more than 4 wives and he treated them with respect and dignity. He was Jannah. Something that you men are not and will never be. You mistreat your wives and don’t treat them in an equal manner. It is a shame you guys play on the one gift Allah has blessed you peoples with. The 4 wife situation now and during the saxaaba times were completely different. So do not bring the saxaaba into this conversation, nacasyahow gafuurka weyn. Bilaa akhlaaq

I don’t care why you marry. Don’t tell me because I didn’t ask you to explain it to me. Useless piece of human life.
So lets change the quran because times have changed? Stupidity wanting to generalize all men. Do you know less than 3percent of men marry multiple women.
The religion is black and white. We are allowed and there is nothing you can do. Caadi iiska dhig. Most men who marry multiple are the best of men. As for the prophet said marry mulitple so we can make the ummah bigger and better. Those sahaba are our examples.
Feminism and gaalaraac will destroy you.

As for generalization all women are s miyaan daaha??????
 

halwa

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True abayo some of the men abuse it and dont follow the rules. My dad and grandfather married multiple wives they were fair never mistreated their wives. My mom was happy so was my dad. It is not always about sex for women maybe they just happened to love the same guy and if it works for them who cares.


Yes. For some it will work and for some it will not work. It is just that I’ve seen the way Somali men mistreat polygyamy. Some of them, not all. It is really horrible so I’m just wary of it. There is no cadaalad.
 
No one is stopping you.

And i will be jealous because I can be jealous. Are you the one I am going to marry? No.

So pass along, man. Fly by.
Abayo dont give yourself high blood pressure be prepared to either accept it or walk away. Most nin do not only marry 1. Just warning you lol
 
True abayo some of the men abuse it and dont follow the rules. My dad and grandfather married multiple wives they were fair never mistreated their wives. My mom was happy so was my dad. It is not always about sex for women maybe they just happened to love the same guy and if it works for them who cares.
Everyone who has family who had polygamous marriages will tell you they were al happy.
 

halwa

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So lets change the quran because times have changed? Stupidity wanting to generalize all men. Do you know less than 3percent of men marry multiple women.
The religion is black and white. We are allowed and there is nothing you can do. Caadi iiska dhig. Most men who marry multiple are the best of men. As for the prophet said marry mulitple so we can make the ummah bigger and better. Those sahaba are our examples.
Feminism and gaalaraac will destroy you.

As for generalization all women are s miyaan daaha??????

Warya, I’m not against it. And anyone who wants 4 wives can have it. I am just giving my two cents and it is not something that will work for me.

Don’t talk about my character and the way I am because you do not know me.

Don’t.talk.about.me.
 

halwa

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Abayo dont give yourself high blood pressure be prepared to either accept it or walk away. Most nin do not only marry 1. Just warning you lol

I know, honey. It is just that these chauvinistic men tare forcing their views on me and I’m not having it.

Khasaaro
 
Warya, I’m not against it. And anyone who wants 4 wives can have it. I am just giving my two cents and it is not something that will work for me.

Don’t talk about my character and the way I am because you do not know me.

Don’t.talk.about.me.
You just berated men as unfair and bad men. You generalised. Your words reek of jealousy. You are informed of the benefits.
Haa iiska hadlin.
 

Mercury

Ha igu daalinee dantaada raac
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Most somali men who marry more than 1 woman are better and stronger than you. Only haters assume they do them wrong. My friend has 3 wives. 1 in Sweden, 1 in somalia and 1 in dubai and they are all happy. Stop assuming the worst. I say it again you probably work behind married men turning their wives against each other. A man like that would not last 1 month in somalia

They’re stronger and better than me cause they have many wives lol what kinda dumb logic is that

I’m content with one wife cause I know what I want In life if you marry multiple women chances are you probably don’t even know what youre looking for

Besides the Quran encourages you to only marry one wife rather than many
 
No one is stopping you.

And i will be jealous because I can be jealous. Are you the one I am going to marry? No.

So pass along, man. Fly by.
Jealousy is turn off and sign of weak chadacter. You just lost your chance with me and suldanka.....todays been a bad day for you svenne lool
 
They’re stronger and better than me cause they have many wives lol what kinda dumb logic is that

I’m content with one wife cause I know what I want In life if you marry multiple women chances are you probably don’t even know what youre looking for

Besides the Quran encourages you to only marry one wife rather than many
Where in the quran?????
 

halwa

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Jealousy is turn off and sign of weak chadacter. You just lost your chance with me and suldanka.....todays been a bad day for you svenne lool


I would never marry you :cool:

And as for Suldaanka, I would rather kill myself than to marry that little child.
 
They’re stronger and better than me cause they have many wives lol what kinda dumb logic is that

I’m content with one wife cause I know what I want In life if you marry multiple women chances are you probably don’t even know what youre looking for

Besides the Quran encourages you to only marry one wife rather than many
I also know what you want in life....to destroy somali men and womens relationship. You are like shaydaan when he swore to god he will misguide as many of his people as he can. Ilaahow ninkaan sharkiisa naga qabo.....
 
I also know what you want in life....to destroy somali men and womens relationship. You are like shaydaan when he swore to god he will misguide as many of his people as he can. Ilaahow ninkaan sharkiisa naga qabo.....
Supposedly if you marry more than one you dont know what you want in life??:westbrookwtf:


Wallahi kan waa dumar
 
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