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Mercury

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Warya nacasyahow. Ayat so wada qabo.
It says marry 2 3 4 if you fear you cant be just then stick 1. And that gabdha aqoonta are to be more respected and revered.

Beenta daa. Quranka and sunnah recommend polygamy.

If didn’t have a bird brain you would realize that text encourages you to marry one it’s however not encouraged to marry many wives

It’s ironic you remember polygamy is sunnah you know what else is sunnah?

Cooking and cleaning for your wife
 
If didn’t have a bird brain you would realize that text encourages you to marry one it’s however not encouraged to marry many wives

It’s ironic you remember polygamy is sunnah you know what else is sunnah?

Cooking and cleaning for your wife
Yet l never said anything about that. Your arguement is weak. You have an issue with polygamy. Dont beat around the bush. Go learn tafsiir . The hikma is in multiple.
 
if you married a beautiful qalanjo why would you marry one more?

One could take it you’re not happy with the 1st one or bored of her
If you have one house....why buy another? If you have one car....why buy another? If you have one child why buy another? Because the more the merrier
 

Mercury

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Yet l never said anything about that. Your arguement is weak. You have an issue with polygamy. Dont beat around the bush. Go learn tafsiir . The hikma is in multiple.

And yet allah didn’t make it obligatory To have many wives
 
People cherry pick which ayahs of the Quran /Sunnah they like and ignore the rest.

You can marry more than one wife

HOWEVER!

You must meet ALL their needs. You MUST provide for them and be FAIR to ALL your wives and ALL your children.

Unless you are wealthy and are very vigilant in managing your time/energy, don't risk your after-life.

Which woman would even care if a wealthy, fair man wanted several households. It's a win-win for all.

The problem is that poor, uneducated, undisciplined 'men' have ruined the name of polygamy.

They just want sex and to brag about having lots of kids and a few wives, let's be brutally honest.
 
People cherry pick which ayahs of the Quran /Sunnah they like and ignore the rest.

You can marry more than one wife

HOWEVER!

You must meet ALL their needs. You MUST provide for them and be FAIR to ALL your wives and ALL your children.

Unless you are wealthy and are very vigilant in managing your time/energy, don't risk your after-life.

Which woman would even care if a wealthy, fair man wanted several households. It's a win-win for all.

The problem is that poor, uneducated, undisciplined 'men' have ruined the name of polygamy.

They just want sex and to brag about having lots of kids and a few wives, let's be brutally honest.
What does education have to do with it.
Second all the people i know are very successful in this life.
 

Caraweelo

President of the Secular Republic of Somalia
I will choose civil marriage and I will put a condition that if he cheat or marry another woman, I will divorce him and the take the house and everything else he have.
 
They are just defending their desire to have more than one wife, good luck to them.
I know guys with multiple wives. They take care of their family and ren't degenerates but @Mercury only wants to hear one side :francis:
Polygamy is Halal I don't see why Mercury is berating men for doing it and generalizing them as degenerates :drakewtf:
 

Mercury

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I know guys with multiple wives. They take care of their family and ren't degenerates but @Mercury only wants to hear one side :francis:
Polygamy is Halal I don't see why Mercury is berating men for doing it and generalizing them as degenerates :drakewtf:

I never said it’s haram I’m just finding the hypocrisy funny

If a person is happily married than they wouldn’t go look for more wives cause when you look to get more wives that means you’re not happy or content with your 1st wife therefore you looking for another one
 
:siilaanyolaugh: Let's be frank, the wealthy men stand the most to gain from polygamy while the everyday guy gets shafted.

An egalitarian distribution of women results in less male competition hence monogamy increases long term planning, economic productivity and parental investment in children.
:siilaanyosmile:
Just because a practice is permissible doesn't mean it is optimal or ideal for everyone.

An option is totally different from an obligation.


Oh my. I will camp on this thread just for the visuals. Mashallah Abaayo, Qurux.
 
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