Word of Advice

[psyche]

Weribee, Hoppers Crossing, Tarneit? The smart cabbies who bought homes.

You are starting to scare me with how accurate you can be @AussieHustler. You really are knowledgeable about the Somalis in Australia. I'll say around that area, give or take

 

[Mercury]

:siilaanyolaugh: Let's be frank, the wealthy men stand the most to gain from polygamy while the everyday guy gets shafted.

An egalitarian distribution of women results in less male competition hence monogamy increases long term planning, economic productivity and parental investment in children.
:siilaanyosmile:
Just because a practice is permissible doesn't mean it is optimal or ideal for everyone.

An option is totally different from an obligation.

I dont think any Guy no matter how wealthy can have time to take care of 2,3,4 women, Separate kids and multiple households

I've noticed the educated Somali men don't marry two wives It's always the ignorant ones

 

[Mercury]

Mercury how many divorced have you caused? I remember growing up my dad and his friends hated the macalin for women in tje mosque. They uded to say he used to turn women ahainst their men.....my dad blamed the divorce on him. So before he left the county he robbed him.of 20k amd bounced. My dad is my hero. Warya mercury dont turn women against their men

He stole 20k from the macalin and left the country

 

[Sophisticate]

I dont think any Guy no matter how wealthy can have time to take care of 2,3,4 women, Separate kids and multiple households

I've noticed the educated Somali men don't marry two wives It's always the ignorant ones

I agree. I haven't heard of many cases of a highly educated Somali men engaging in polygamy.

Also nearly all cases happen back home. I wonder if these women mind being a vacation wife, or is it all about lacaag?

Just curious.

 

[Mercury]

I agree. I haven't heard of many cases of a highly educated Somali men engaging in polygamy.

Also nearly all cases happen back home. I wonder if these women mind being a vacation wife, or is it all about lacaag?

Just curious.

It happens back home cause it’s cheaper and the girls are more accepting to be co wives You can support a family back home 250-500$ month cost of living isn’t expensive back home

 

[Sophisticate]

It happens back home cause it’s cheaper and the girls are more accepting to be co wives You can support a family back home 250-500$ month cost of living isn’t expensive back home

:siilaanyolaugh: Its cost-effective. On second thought it appears the little man downstairs doesn't know how to run the figures. If he pays 6 grand a year + flights, it will add up. He could have invested in the education of his ciyaal in the west. Or at least save up to start a business.

 

[Mercury]

:siilaanyolaugh: Its cost-effective. On second thought it appears the little man downstairs doesn't know how to run the figures. If he pays 6 grand a year + flights, it will add up. He could have invested in the education of his ciyaal in the west. Or at least save up to start a business.

I read somewhere cost of raising a kid up to the age of 18 in the us is 200k I think it’s cheaper back home

 

[Halimo-2018]

How are they idiots marrying many and having many children is actually ingenious and after just three generations you can take over whole states like the Mormons before the government targeted them by banning polygamy, why would you want to be langab on purpose

They have no self control most of the time when they see beautiful woma. I am not talking about kids.

 

[Sophisticate]

I read somewhere cost of raising a kid up to the age of 18 in the us is 200k I think it’s cheaper back home

Then why marry in the west? Why don't they just make a beeline for back home?

 

[Suldaanka]

That's bold of you young man but he told me he was hooking me up with a Makadoor or Habar Afan doctor or lawyer with a spiffy English accent. :siilaanyolaugh: Why weren't you mentioned?

Dib uugu nooqo. Waxad wareysata @Cauli .
Im an honorary Reer Awdal.
Its gonna be alright

 

[Halimo-2018]

I dont think any Guy no matter how wealthy can have time to take care of 2,3,4 women, Separate kids and multiple households

I've noticed the educated Somali men don't marry two wives It's always the ignorant ones

They do you just dont hear about it.

 

[Sophisticate]

Dib uugu nooqo. Waxad wareysata @Cauli .
Im an honorary Reer Awdal.
Its gonna be alright

Its a hardsell, bro. My father doesn't agree with polygamy. I'm the only daughter and too precious to give up. :siilaanyolaugh:

 

[Libaaxseendheer]

If she isnt up for co-wifes
Gabaryahey galab wanaagsan

Yarta xabeebta leh

 

[Suldaanka]

Its a hardsell, bro. My father doesn't agree with polygamy. I'm the only daughter and too precious to give up. :siilaanyolaugh:

Naa iis adkey. Aabaha aniga aya qancinya. Don't worrryyy.

 

[East side]

It happens back home cause it’s cheaper and the girls are more accepting to be co wives You can support a family back home 250-500$ month cost of living isn’t expensive back home

Most somali men who marry more than 1 woman are better and stronger than you. Only haters assume they do them wrong. My friend has 3 wives. 1 in Sweden, 1 in somalia and 1 in dubai and they are all happy. Stop assuming the worst. I say it again you probably work behind married men turning their wives against each other. A man like that would not last 1 month in somalia

 

[halwa]

Most somali men who marry more than 1 woman are better and stronger than you. Only haters assume they do them wrong. My friend has 3 wives. 1 in Sweden, 1 in somalia and 1 in dubai and they are all happy. Stop assuming the worst. I say it again you probably work behind married men turning their wives against each other. A man like that would not last 1 month in somalia

He prefers to have one wife only and supports his sisters in Islam who accept this motion but are too jealous and wound up in their feelings. Normal women don’t like to share a man. It is only the desperate and needy who are happy with polygamy.


Leave him alone.

 

[Halimo-2018]

Most somali men who marry more than 1 woman are better and stronger than you. Only haters assume they do them wrong. My friend has 3 wives. 1 in Sweden, 1 in somalia and 1 in dubai and they are all happy. Stop assuming the worst. I say it again you probably work behind married men turning their wives against each other. A man like that would not last 1 month in somalia

Asia,Europe and Africa lol

 

[Halimo-2018]

He prefers to have one wife only and supports his sisters in Islam who accept this motion but are too jealous and wound up in their feelings. Normal women don’t like to share a man. It is only the desperate and needy who are happy with polygamy.


Leave him alone.

Not always. Sometimes she loves him another woman won't stop her. Not everything is black and white. That's not how the world works.after all it is halal not like she's cheating.

 

[halwa]

Not always. Sometimes she loves him another woman won't stop her. Not everything is black and white. That's not how the world works.after all it is halal not like she's cheating.

I understand sis, but I’m looking at it from an emotional point of view and things I have seen and noticed in the Somali community and my family. There is just so much jealousy.

I can’t even hear a guy who has 2,3 or 4 wives.

 

[Suldaanka]

He prefers to have one wife only and supports his sisters in Islam who accept this motion but are too jealous and wound up in their feelings. Normal women don’t like to share a man. It is only the desperate and needy who are happy with polygamy.


Leave him alone.

Umm Aisha was desperate right?
Diinta ha ku geefin.

We marry because we can. We marry cause we can afford. We marry to make muslims and somalis more. We marry due to naxariis