I’m from the Somali yibir tribe. I don’t look Somali. Me and my dad we look middle eastern. But my mum is a bit dark. Like Indian dark. I met a Russian muslim guy me and him have been good. He even wanted to marry me very soon. Today He seen my mum for the first time now he is saying that he hates black people. I feel like throwing up I’m feeling so sad. He used to say that he loves me and now he is talking like that to me. My heart is broken I feel so humiliated those kind of things never happened to me. I was into him. My mum is a beautiful woman just because she is dark doesn’t mean anything. Now I’m starting to worry. I can not marry a Somali guy because I’m from a bad tribe. And I also can’t marry an Ajnabi guy because my mum is dark.
It's quite rare to see Yibir not looking Somali at all ! From the ones I've encountered they were indistinguishable from the Somalis themselves!
Okay it may seem a little judgemental from my stand point view and I cannot wrap my head around that Yibir may resemble Middle Eastern , due to interacting many of them since I have close friends who hail from the Yibir clan.
It depended from individual to individual , they were light skinned/ Maariin and somewhere between those two.
But not a single person resembling an Arab!
Hence I'm having a hard time wether this is feasible or not .
perhaps it's those circle I've encompassed all these years with that I might have a comprehensive understanding , or my world is too small since Somalia is a very big country and people regardless of tribal backgrounds are pastrolists moving from places to different landscapes and intermingling with others.
But I do know for a fact that they were marginalised , ostracized for centuries and it saddens me that they are still treated unfairly , thus marriages with different clans are basically non existent, some told me that marriages with Tumaal and madhibaan is happening but not frequently since each marginalised clans don't want to have another stigma attached to them by the majority xenophobic Somalis, hence it's rare for that to occur also.
Many of my friends married Ajnabi women and have a happy ending.
Back to your story,
Since he's Russian , does he happen to be a Chechen or Dagestani or somewhere from the Caucasus region?
Your potential husband seems to be ridiculous , self centered bigot and it's common from that particular area to hate foreigners especially dark people.
Don't get me wrong , if he's capable of disrespecting your mother that should be a red flag . Why even bother with this cyka bylat
I know this is tough for you , walaal, being born to a noble clan like the Yibir but were stigmatized by the unruly mouth breathers ,
It's depressing to watch Somalis oppress their fellow brethrens and I'm angered by it , it saddens me and I question why God hasn't cast a Tsunami upon the tribalist bastards
Today these so called noble Somalis are at the bottom of the ladder wherever they live, they're met with hostilities look at what labelling themselves done to our country
I wouldn't mind marrying Tumaal ,Madhibaan and Yibir women at all , I see no difference in them than what some clowns are instigating, and there are many open minded Somalis forget about the mouth breathing xoolos
u duceeya 
