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VALOR MORGHULIS
@Knowles If I said the same exact thing with some alterations to the context and substituted the part about males and replaced it with females I would get labelled as a hater of women even though that's not my style I'm not like the modern men that are common today men of modernity it isn't my approach to demean women but rather I'm of the opinion to instead uplift them as I also believe that this is the thinking of most sincere, genuine, sympathetic, good men that are decent especially within our community sister we know and are aware of the fact that as somali men we have been blessed alhamdulillah to have women that are empathetic, compassionate, brave, loyal, dedicated fiesty etc Mash'Allah may Allah grant them paradise Insh'Allah amin alhamdulillah for our women wallahi ❤ but sister what is your issue if its domesticated houshold chores what's the problem if the man provides and does what's required of him as a man if the wife loves her husband enough to want to make him happy and visa versa this is not for you to decide on what our married brothers and sisters do for each other for love ❤ sister please walaal for the sake of everything that is inherently noble & righteous as well as ethical put aside the misandrist propaganda and think rationally this way of thinking doesn't solve any issues than instead create many more in their wake is their issues within our community of certain men that are evasive when it comes to assuming their responsibilitys yes ofcourse but this isn't no where as prevelant as other communities where the men not only don't fulfill their responsibilitys as men/fathers to kids that they've had out of wedlock with countless women but all these guys do as it seems is pussy hop, are their multiple families that some of the men in our communities have yes ofcourse their are but this is inconsequential as its not as frquent as some people think and it happened mainly amongs the older generation & fobs sister you must understand that when you want people or an individual to improve you won't achieve the desired outcome by belittling our brothers and denigrating them do they need to improve yes those who are not "being all they can be" as the old retro american army recruitment ads use to say they need to definitely, however as a sister from this community your sole purpose in life should be to primarily uplift these brothers who are lackadaisical and not slander them the reason sometimes some of these brothers are the way they are is because its a two fold problem parents particularly mothers who coddle these boys or meddle when or if their fathers want to discipline and want to nurture them into being men basically to show them on how to be men as boys and girls learn differently boys are meant to emulate their fathers and girls are meant to learn from their mothers and the second issue is that these young men associate with undesirables of other races/ethnicities and take these people as their friends instead of taking decent people as their friends as how does the popular expression go you are the company you keep so these young men themselves have identity issues as they don't realise that their not black but instead african & somali and shouldn't therefor emulate undesirable cultures the problem we have as a community is we don't hold those at fault for wrongdoing accountable our go to response is its the men's fault however I stated before some of this if not a considerable amount of this can be attributed to some of these narcistic mothers as lets just say if the father isn't present then their is always another male relative who can reprimand these wayward young men but as I said sometimes these women are against that very thing from happening not to mention that when you look at other single mothers from other african & particularly non black communities they are more than capable of raising young successful morally upright men and women who are proud of their identity
Waryaa, qoordheer you better appreciate this, It took me a long time to write this. For some odd reason Knowles seems like a sweet xaliimo who is living out her fantasies.
