Why Somali men like Inquisitive are mad at somali girls

NAAFO

VALOR MORGHULIS
Imagine growing up in a patriarchal home. Watching your dad put his feet up whilst the women in your family cook and clean after you.

During ramadan the women put in a 6 hour shift in th boiling hot kitchen, cooking baris, basto, samosas, malawax, desserts. Then after you eat all the cutlery and left overs are taken away. You drag your ass upstairs and get back to your game consoles.

You smile as you think this will one day be your family. You will be the head of the house and have all your needs catered to by the women around you. Except it’s not! Things have changed. The Women are now more educated you, they are no longer under your control and supervision. The ramadan banquet will be replaced with a cold slice of pizza from dominos because you never learnt to cook yourself. The house will be rat infested since you can’t clean up after yourself. And no woman is forced to have sex with your ugly useless self. Your low IQ weak inferior Abdi genes will die out wth you. If Somali women weren’t carrying you on their back for centuries your genes would have died out centuries ago

Damn Abdi, I’d be mad too.

@Knowles If I said the same exact thing with some alterations to the context and substituted the part about males and replaced it with females I would get labelled as a hater of women even though that's not my style I'm not like the modern men that are common today men of modernity it isn't my approach to demean women but rather I'm of the opinion to instead uplift them as I also believe that this is the thinking of most sincere, genuine, sympathetic, good men that are decent especially within our community sister we know and are aware of the fact that as somali men we have been blessed alhamdulillah to have women that are empathetic, compassionate, brave, loyal, dedicated fiesty etc Mash'Allah may Allah grant them paradise Insh'Allah amin alhamdulillah for our women wallahi ❤ but sister what is your issue if its domesticated houshold chores what's the problem if the man provides and does what's required of him as a man if the wife loves her husband enough to want to make him happy and visa versa this is not for you to decide on what our married brothers and sisters do for each other for love ❤ sister please walaal for the sake of everything that is inherently noble & righteous as well as ethical put aside the misandrist propaganda and think rationally this way of thinking doesn't solve any issues than instead create many more in their wake is their issues within our community of certain men that are evasive when it comes to assuming their responsibilitys yes ofcourse but this isn't no where as prevelant as other communities where the men not only don't fulfill their responsibilitys as men/fathers to kids that they've had out of wedlock with countless women but all these guys do as it seems is pussy hop, are their multiple families that some of the men in our communities have yes ofcourse their are but this is inconsequential as its not as frquent as some people think and it happened mainly amongs the older generation & fobs sister you must understand that when you want people or an individual to improve you won't achieve the desired outcome by belittling our brothers and denigrating them do they need to improve yes those who are not "being all they can be" as the old retro american army recruitment ads use to say they need to definitely, however as a sister from this community your sole purpose in life should be to primarily uplift these brothers who are lackadaisical and not slander them the reason sometimes some of these brothers are the way they are is because its a two fold problem parents particularly mothers who coddle these boys or meddle when or if their fathers want to discipline and want to nurture them into being men basically to show them on how to be men as boys and girls learn differently boys are meant to emulate their fathers and girls are meant to learn from their mothers and the second issue is that these young men associate with undesirables of other races/ethnicities and take these people as their friends instead of taking decent people as their friends as how does the popular expression go you are the company you keep so these young men themselves have identity issues as they don't realise that their not black but instead african & somali and shouldn't therefor emulate undesirable cultures the problem we have as a community is we don't hold those at fault for wrongdoing accountable our go to response is its the men's fault however I stated before some of this if not a considerable amount of this can be attributed to some of these narcistic mothers as lets just say if the father isn't present then their is always another male relative who can reprimand these wayward young men but as I said sometimes these women are against that very thing from happening not to mention that when you look at other single mothers from other african & particularly non black communities they are more than capable of raising young successful morally upright men and women who are proud of their identity
 
@Knowles If I said the same exact thing with some alterations to the context and substituted the part about males and replaced it with females I would get labelled as a hater of women even though that's not my style I'm not like the modern men that are common today men of modernity it isn't my approach to demean women but rather I'm of the opinion to instead uplift them as I also believe that this is the thinking of most sincere, genuine, sympathetic, good men that are decent especially within our community sister we know and are aware of the fact that as somali men we have been blessed alhamdulillah to have women that are empathetic, compassionate, brave, loyal, dedicated fiesty etc Mash'Allah may Allah grant them paradise Insh'Allah amin alhamdulillah for our women wallahi ❤ but sister what is your issue if its domesticated houshold chores what's the problem if the man provides and does what's required of him as a man if the wife loves her husband enough to want to make him happy and visa versa this is not for you to decide on what our married brothers and sisters do for each other for love ❤ sister please walaal for the sake of everything that is inherently noble & righteous as well as ethical put aside the misandrist propaganda and think rationally this way of thinking doesn't solve any issues than instead create many more in their wake is their issues within our community of certain men that are evasive when it comes to assuming their responsibilitys yes ofcourse but this isn't no where as prevelant as other communities where the men not only don't fulfill their responsibilitys as men/fathers to kids that they've had out of wedlock with countless women but all these guys do as it seems is pussy hop, are their multiple families that some of the men in our communities have yes ofcourse their are but this is inconsequential as its not as frquent as some people think and it happened mainly amongs the older generation & fobs sister you must understand that when you want people or an individual to improve you won't achieve the desired outcome by belittling our brothers and denigrating them do they need to improve yes those who are not "being all they can be" as the old retro american army recruitment ads use to say they need to definitely, however as a sister from this community your sole purpose in life should be to primarily uplift these brothers who are lackadaisical and not slander them the reason sometimes some of these brothers are the way they are is because its a two fold problem parents particularly mothers who coddle these boys or meddle when or if their fathers want to discipline and want to nurture them into being men basically to show them on how to be men as boys and girls learn differently boys are meant to emulate their fathers and girls are meant to learn from their mothers and the second issue is that these young men associate with undesirables of other races/ethnicities and take these people as their friends instead of taking decent people as their friends as how does the popular expression go you are the company you keep so these young men themselves have identity issues as they don't realise that their not black but instead african & somali and shouldn't therefor emulate undesirable cultures the problem we have as a community is we don't hold those at fault for wrongdoing accountable our go to response is its the men's fault however I stated before some of this if not a considerable amount of this can be attributed to some of these narcistic mothers as lets just say if the father isn't present then their is always another male relative who can reprimand these wayward young men but as I said sometimes these women are against that very thing from happening not to mention that when you look at other single mothers from other african & particularly non black communities they are more than capable of raising young successful morally upright men and women who are proud of their identity

Did you use your phone to type this?

:cosbyhmm:
 

Abdalla

Medical specialist in diagnosing Majeerteentitis
Prof.Dr.Eng.
VIP
@Knowles why delete the comment on getting your mojo back? I know you crave my approval.

You were gone for a while, so I don't engage in full strength with you that's why I leave you spar with low tier spotters. I hope to see the Knowles of 2018 again :mjhaps:
 

Muji

VIP
@Knowles why delete the comment on getting your mojo back? I know you crave my approval.

You were gone for a while, so I don't engage in full strength with you that's why I leave you spar with low tier spotters. I hope to see the Knowles of 2018 again :mjhaps:

Lol so you read comments and answer them an hour later? Strange
 
@QueenSamaale do u agree with this?

@Qoordeer you're putting me in a tough spot. Queen knowles will karbaash me. very well, I QueenSamaale shall Bless you with my wisdom.

Tbh, Lets not act blind and bash knowles, cuz her Posts have Some truth in them. I don't necessarily agree with her faarax bashing posts. She mentioned Somali men oppressing women and making them house slaves. Wallah I've observed many families and I've heard of many were the men of the house cannot be considered men both Islamically and culturally. They dont spend time with their children, are ungrateful, some even beat their wives. Absolute dayoothiin.

Wallah, I'm also wondering if some Somali women are into masochism. Qaar waa musiiboyiin, they intentionally annoy their husbands and some are not even willing to do their share in marriage. It's as if they want to be beaten. When the husband actually hits her, they divorce for a short period. After a day or two you'll see them happily married. What kind of woman tolerates abuse? We can all agree no man should beat his wife, and the one who does is a dayooth. Nayaada, if your husband is working 8 hours and you are at home, do your share cooking and cleaning is becomes your responsibility. If the are kids then I think the husband should help out.

Then their is the prefrence of Male children alhamdulillah, my parents have never been like this. Some times you'll hear of Somali girls doing all the house work alongside uni/high school. School itself is stressful imagine having to take care of the whole house.
At the Same time I see a lot of Somali girls bash their hooyos saying that girls do all the hool. This type of behaviour makes my blood boil. Were is the fact that perhaps her son is disobidient and causing trouble for her. We all know that boys are harder to manage when they are past a certain age. Some will start doing drugs some will probably enter gangs. So only way to keep her son out of greater danger, she becomes his "servant". Shell cook, clean and wash his clothes because she wants to keep her son the house for even a second longer. Besides, who said you have to be the same as your caasi brother, why can't you be the baari one? As the great careys ciise once said "Hooyada was Lama huraan." You may not agree with hooyos, but at least respect the love they and dedication they have. I blame all of this on the lack of religious knowledge and the fathers lack of presence.

One thing Somali men of sspot need to do, is to empathize with women. Women go through so much struggle( not saying men dont) In life, labour, menstruation and constant mood swings. My message to men is your posts may be for jokes but us women never forget, so please stop indulging in bullying women. Another thing is a lot of Somali men complain and are way too emotional, saying heblaayo said this about let's generalize this to all Somali men. Know that, the you found on the dustiest corner of social media, isn't me or any other SOMALI woman. NO Woman can call herself true Somali without loving her other half- Somali man. Rag iska dhiga, sida dumarka yaa loo murmin. Occasional banter between the sexes is ok.


You men have been placed with great responsibility. look(men and women) at this verse and reflect.
(4:34) Men are the protec-tors and maintainers of women56 because Allah has made one of them excel over the other,57 and because they spend out of their possessions (to support them). Thus righteous women are obedient and guard the rights of men in their absence under Allah's protection.58 As for women of whom you fear rebellion, admonish them, and remain apart from them in beds, and beat them.59 Then if they obey you, do not seek ways to harm them. Allah is Exalted, Great.

I ain't no xaliimo or Faarax basher, I karbaash them both. :cool:Waryaa, qoordheer you better appreciate this, It took me a long time to write this. For some odd reason Knowles seems like a sweet xaliimo who is living out her fantasies.
 
@Qoordeer you're putting me in a tough spot. Queen knowles will karbaash me. very well, I QueenSamaale shall Bless you with my wisdom.

Tbh, Lets not act blind and bash knowles, cuz her Posts have Some truth in them. I don't necessarily agree with her faarax bashing posts. She mentioned Somali men oppressing women and making them house slaves. Wallah I've observed many families and I've heard of many were the men of the house cannot be considered men both Islamically and culturally. They dont spend time with their children, are ungrateful, some even beat their wives. Absolute dayoothiin.

Wallah, I'm also wondering if some Somali women are into masochism. Qaar waa musiiboyiin, they intentionally annoy their husbands and some are not even willing to do their share in marriage. It's as if they want to be beaten. When the husband actually hits her, they divorce for a short period. After a day or two you'll see them happily married. What kind of woman tolerates abuse? We can all agree no man should beat his wife, and the one who does is a dayooth. Nayaada, if your husband is working 8 hours and you are at home, do your share cooking and cleaning is becomes your responsibility. If the are kids then I think the husband should help out.

Then their is the prefrence of Male children alhamdulillah, my parents have never been like this. Some times you'll hear of Somali girls doing all the house work alongside uni/high school. School itself is stressful imagine having to take care of the whole house.
At the Same time I see a lot of Somali girls bash their hooyos saying that girls do all the hool. This type of behaviour makes my blood boil. Were is the fact that perhaps her son is disobidient and causing trouble for her. We all know that boys are harder to manage when they are past a certain age. Some will start doing drugs some will probably enter gangs. So only way to keep her son out of greater danger, she becomes his "servant". Shell cook, clean and wash his clothes because she wants to keep her son the house for even a second longer. Besides, who said you have to be the same as your caasi brother, why can't you be the baari one? As the great careys ciise once said "Hooyada was Lama huraan." You may not agree with hooyos, but at least respect the love they and dedication they have. I blame all of this on the lack of religious knowledge and the fathers lack of presence.

One thing Somali men of sspot need to do, is to empathize with women. Women go through so much struggle( not saying men dont) In life, labour, menstruation and constant mood swings. My message to men is your posts may be for jokes but us women never forget, so please stop indulging in bullying women. Another thing is a lot of Somali men complain and are way too emotional, saying heblaayo said this about let's generalize this to all Somali men. Know that, the you found on the dustiest corner of social media, isn't me or any other SOMALI woman. NO Woman can call herself true Somali without loving her other half- Somali man. Rag iska dhiga, sida dumarka yaa loo murmin. Occasional banter between the sexes is ok.


You men have been placed with great responsibility. look(men and women) at this verse and reflect.
(4:34) Men are the protec-tors and maintainers of women56 because Allah has made one of them excel over the other,57 and because they spend out of their possessions (to support them). Thus righteous women are obedient and guard the rights of men in their absence under Allah's protection.58 As for women of whom you fear rebellion, admonish them, and remain apart from them in beds, and beat them.59 Then if they obey you, do not seek ways to harm them. Allah is Exalted, Great.

I ain't no xaliimo or Faarax basher, I karbaash them both. :cool:Waryaa, qoordheer you better appreciate this, It took me a long time to write this. For some odd reason Knowles seems like a sweet xaliimo who is living out her fantasies.
a quality post, you’re well appreciated.
 

NotMyL

"You are your best thing"
VIP
Lol Inquisitive is truly one of a kind, although I find his whole earth is flat and deodorants cause cancer schtick to be funny, I do think a xalimo once broke his little heart and you can’t help but feel bad for the guy. There is also another poster who admitted to being rejected by somali girls and he has been going on rants about them ever since, May they both find love and acceptance again, uu soo duceeya baal.
 

Muji

VIP
Lol Inquisitive is truly one of a kind, although I find his whole earth is flat and deodorants cause cancer schtick to be funny, I do think a xalimo once broke his little heart and you can’t help but feel bad for the guy. There is also another poster who admitted to being rejected by somali girls and he has been going on rants about them ever since, May they both find love and acceptance again, uu soo duceeya baal.

I know we joke around but he did once say he was about to get married once he almost made it to the alter but the brides mother stepped in. I’m guessing he is from the wrong tribe
 

NotMyL

"You are your best thing"
VIP
I know we joke around but he did once say he was about to get married once he almost made it to the alter but the brides mother stepped in. I’m guessing he is from the wrong tribe
Heartbreak is no fun, maybe we should let him rant. I’m sure he would change his tune when he meets another Somali girl and falls in love again.
 

Gambar

VIP
Lol Inquisitive is truly one of a kind, although I find his whole earth is flat and deodorants cause cancer schtick to be funny, I do think a xalimo once broke his little heart and you can’t help but feel bad for the guy. There is also another poster who admitted to being rejected by somali girls and he has been going on rants about them ever since, May they both find love and acceptance again, uu soo duceeya baal.
That was in 1991 he needs to get over it. Similar to love in the time of the cholera, for him it was love in the time of diarrhea.
 

Muji

VIP
I had to ensure my thread gets passed 1st page. Responding to you was in my to do list.


I feel like you have a crush on me wallahi but unlike the other farax simps who worship the ground I walk on- you haven’t DMed me. Are you trying to wear me down. Hoping by the time I’m 40 I might hit rock bottom and give you a chance?
 

Muji

VIP
Heartbreak is no fun, maybe we should let him rant. I’m sure he would change his tune when he meets another Somali girl and falls in love again.


We actually had a poster from Australia (who left now) who used to post incel “women are stupid” stuff then after his girlfriend takes him back, he would make a “Somali women appreciation” thread. Maskeenka. Some men go after women they cannot handle.
 

Abdalla

Medical specialist in diagnosing Majeerteentitis
Prof.Dr.Eng.
VIP
I feel like you have a crush on me wallahi but unlike the other farax simps who worship the ground I walk on- you haven’t DMed me. Are you trying to wear me down. Hoping by the time I’m 40 I might hit rock bottom and give you a chance?

Knowles has capitulated and is now begging for dms.
 
I feel like you have a crush on me wallahi but unlike the other farax simps who worship the ground I walk on- you haven’t DMed me. Are you trying to wear me down. Hoping by the time I’m 40 I might hit rock bottom and give you a chance?

So I noticed both you and @Reiko are gunning for @Abdalla so maha.. Is that why you both get along so well because you're planning to become sister wife's :ulyin:


Waryaa @Abdalla what did you read on these birds? Do you give afternoon classes on how to catch birds? :kodaksmiley:
 

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