Wll. In the real world women prioritize their husband and their kids and not their husbands other family. Alx Allah made it easy for me. 2 wifes manshallah no problem. If you can afford a place to rest and something to eat and are physically able to get married and are just. The prophet pbuh to get married when you are poor make them 2 3 4 because allah will provide iirzaq. Wll dont follow the western society and your desires. Learn the deen as to this regards because most people especially
@Reiko @Knowles @Jake from State Farm sound so unintelligent and they keep arguing only to be proven wrong if they in fact accept islam. You seem a little more knowledgeable . As for what is good manners unless you are married or a second wife you wouldnt know much. Something we somalis call maseyrtir
Islamically, a woman can put in her marriage contract that she doesn't want to be in a polygamous marriage.
In the real world women care. Its in the nature of a woman to be jealous and we are given the right to care and she can put it in her marriage contract that she will not accept such a union.
Its a form of insanity for you to think a woman wouldn't care that a man she is married to not only married again but did it without informing her. Such a thing will shock and hurt a woman beyond repair.
Also, any human being will feel decieved if their partner hides something from them. What makes you think its respectful to hide such a big thing? Its bad manners to lie and decieve.
You have to be able to provide for each wife. It is haraam to marry again if you cannot afford it. Its not easy. Pay their rent, food, clothing, pay for kids needs ect.
A responsible man knows this. Any man that thinks its 'easy' isn't ready for 1 wife let alone 2.