@Periodicbrilliance You seem like a good person, but I'm amazed that you expected to find civil discussion in this forum out of all places.
True. I think OP is a good girl however she can't just bash us and not expect backlash.
I wish the best for her. She's in a tough spot.
chill out goddamn. Its kaftan. Good luck on your search.As I’ve said already I went to undergrad then graduate school and straight into the workforce.
I know you are troll and have been outed on multiple occasions for using multiple handles i.e. pretending to be a woman, homosexual male, a Ethiopian and now whatever you are styling yourself as...
Trolling is one thing but engaging in a major sin is another.
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The one who accuses a person of zina or vilifies him in such terms has slandered him and accused him of something abhorrent.
Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
“Verily, those who accuse chaste women, who never even think of anything touching their chastity and are good believers — are cursed in this life and in the Hereafter, and for them will be a great torment”
[al-Noor 24:23].
Al-Sa’di (may Allaah have mercy on him) said:
Allaah has issued a stern warning against making accusations against chaste women, as He says: “Verily, those who accuse chaste women”, i.e., those who refrain from immoral actions, “who never even think of anything touching their chastity”, and such things would never cross their minds, “and are good believers — are cursed in this life and in the Hereafter”, and a curse applies only in the case of major sins.
The curse is confirmed because it is ongoing in this world and in the Hereafter. “and for them will be a great torment”. This is in addition to the curse, and shows that they are even further removed from divine mercy.”
Do NOT trade your akhira for a few laughs or likes on a Internet forum.
@Periodicbrilliance You seem like a good person, but I'm amazed that you expected to find civil discussion in this forum out of all places.
chill out goddamn. Its kaftan. Good luck on your search.
How mighty of God to care about a little amusement in such an insignificant site. I wonder if he has bandwidth up there. Maybe i'll send him a gif.I am very chill. I expect “I was just trolling or it was just kaftan” will not be a valid excuse to give Allah SWT on the day of judgment.
I am very chill. I expect “I was just trolling or it was just kaftan” will not be a valid excuse to give Allah SWT on the day of judgment.
Hands down this is her situation, maybe she should look in the mirror and question why she is struggling to find a spouse rather then playing the blame game to justify her own insecurities.Im a desperate female in my thirties and i'm still not married........what might be the problem here?
Ofcourse, somali man, they are always to blame here.
And if you actually think somali guys look ugly in their thirties try looking at your fellow somali females. Lord have mercy. Its like a an elephant in a human shape.
I dress in bland garment as to not draw too much attention to my bidaar i also figured if I wear glasses along with the bidaar I can attract more gold diggers who will think I’m a professor. I like to wear leather jacket a lot cause it disguises my big boy super size pizza calool.
Periodicbrilliance said:Trolling is one thing but engaging in a major sin is another.
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The one who accuses a person of zina or vilifies him in such terms has slandered him and accused him of something abhorrent.
As I’ve said already I went to undergrad then graduate school and straight into the workforce.
I know you are troll and have been outed on multiple occasions for using multiple handles i.e. pretending to be a woman, homosexual male, a Ethiopian and now whatever you are styling yourself as...
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It’s fine abayo. I don’t care. I’m barely on here anyway.
@Periodicbrilliance 27yrs old is actually not old. Dont be too hard on yourself sxb
Sxb its good age. She has focused on self development in terms of education and working in her field. How many people do you know that went uni and work dead jobs and not what they studied. This girl has accomplished lot and is set for the future at the tender age of 27. The next stage is marriage.
Sound like you tryna console Reer Duq
Someone asked me how old I was a while back and I reflexively answered 21 without thinking
Interesting thread indeed with strong view points from both sides. The most interesting tidbit though was when @Periodicbrilliance insisted on a man whose deen is on point, yet refuses to wear hijab until after she is married, citing reasons relating to personal safety. In my many years I've heard a lot of excuses for young women freely choosing not to wear hijab, but personal safety is a new and bold one.