"yeah bro trust me somali females are more successful than somali males, just look at all the (kaffir) somali females in politics bro!!!!"
Why are Somali Boys less likely to succeed as compared to the Girls in the Diaspora?
- Thread starter Somali Saayid
- Start date
Military would do well for the roadman types. BBBcels like me would just get shouted at into submission and become even LESS confident and assertive. You need to have some initial potential and competence for it to work
Odious Delirium
VIP
Nope its were guys like you can become men
Not really. It sounds nice but in reality they’ll just get pushed around. Nobody has the patience to fix useless people
Last edited:
Odious Delirium
VIP
I have seen incel types change the most after military. Road man types struggle because at the end of the day its about following orders and learning good habits and remaining disaplined it's easier for someone who's not sure of themselves to grow as a person then one who isn't willing to learn and thinks he's already ontop
Good point.
Low socio-economic status, that simple.
Arabs and Indians have similar freedom Somali guys have in comparison to girls; however while the former have present fathers with high-income salaries capable of setting them up to good jobs most Somalis grow up in dysfunctional environments where they need to fend for themselves.
Arabs and Indians have similar freedom Somali guys have in comparison to girls; however while the former have present fathers with high-income salaries capable of setting them up to good jobs most Somalis grow up in dysfunctional environments where they need to fend for themselves.
In what way were these guys ‘incel types’?
Odious Delirium
VIP
They literally had waa dhamatay mentality out of shape always moaning timid weak minded cowards. Always talking about the next man instead of focusing on themselves and saying no girl likes them etc after military/bootcamp they were in shape looked better had confidence started actually taking care of themselves and were no longer pushover or harping about the next guy and girls and they where no longer aimless and had goals. For the most part incel are aimless and goaless.
A specific subset of incels (lost young men) yeah kind of but it’s more complicated. Did they manage to get a girl in the end?
And did they have a base before going to military? Could they do push ups, pull ups, played sports in the past etc?
Last edited:
Odious Delirium
VIP
Yeah these guys were gaalos that joined the English army and white washed brown incels. I don't know any somali incels most are extremely confident infact some are to over confident and rude whilst not working on themselves at all. That's the only problem I see somali guys suffer from is not working on there appearance wether its gym/skin care/hair etc and being rude for no reason to women although that has changed a lot in the last couple of years with our younger gen. Mentality is what matters the most although that may sound cliche it's still true.
If you see yourself as lowly it's going to translate to those around you through your energy. Simply changing your Mentality does wonders.
A lot of women also tend to overlook looks more so then men because they tend to fall for what they hear as opposed to what they see physically. All you have to do is be confident and a bit charming and get rid of the doomer energy.
Look at somalitok interview vids for example those guys work on confidence and charm alone and it works no matter how they look the energy they give off the women like
In fact my last talking stage shot her shot at me despite the fact I was anonymous (on another social media site I'm not gonna say which) simply because I came across as charming, polite and respectful in a convo with some random other person. If that's not proof enough I don't know what is.
I know your probably a troll larping as an incel but when you take on a persona it end up affecting who you are so be careful.
Plus your intention and what type of girl your trying to pursue also matters. Me I only talk to women in the context of approaching them and getting to know them for the purposes of marriage and i make my intentions clear to them from the start i havent had an issue with that approach and I'm very straightforward about it. It works for me. However if you have other intention I can't really help because the type of women I approach and how I approach them ain't gonna work for every type of girl they all have different things they want.
Just don't be a "nice guy" I guess the energy really comes across and repulses all women and don't neg them or put them on a pedestal or they will treat you like a fan basically bellow them.
Last edited:
Looks can’t be underestimated. You’re a lightskin average looking guy who hits the gym. Of course other things come into play but looks matter a lot. Some awkward ugly guy with no girls around him isn’t going to get anything by giving off ‘good energy’ lolYeah these guys were gaalos that joined the English army and white washed brown incels. I don't know any somali incels most are extremely confident infact some are to over confident and rude whilst not working on themselves at all. That's the only problem I see somali guys suffer from is not working on there appearance wether its gym/skin care/hair etc and being rude for no reason to women although that has changed a lot in the last couple of years with our younger gen. Mentality is what matters the most although that may sound cliche it's still true.
If you see yourself as lowly it's going to translate to those around you through your energy. Simply changing your Mentality does wonders.
A lot of women also tend to overlook looks more so then men because they tend to fall for what they hear as opposed to what they see physically. All you have to do is be confident and a bit charming and get rid of the doomer energy.
Look at somalitok interview vids for example those guys work on confidence and charm alone and it works no matter how they look the energy they give off the women like
View attachment 259205
In fact my last talking stage shot her shot at me despite the fact I was anonymous (on another social media site I'm not gonna say which) simply because I came across as charming, polite and respectful in a convo with some random other person. If that's not proof enough I don't know what is.
I know your probably a troll larping as an incel but when you take on a persona it end up affecting who you are so be careful.
Plus your intention and what type of girl your trying to pursue also matters. Me I only talk to women in the context of approaching them and getting to know them for the purposes of marriage and i make my intentions clear to them from the start i havent had an issue with that approach and I'm very straightforward about it. It works for me. However if you have other intention I can't really help because the type of women I approach and how I approach them ain't gonna work for every type of girl they all have different things they want.
Just don't be a nice guy I guess the energy really comes across and repulses all women.
Odious Delirium
VIP
How would you know if I looked average or not?
I haven't shown my face on here I could look hideous. it's not like you know what I look like and that would go against your point because if im hideous then you have no excuses as a fellow hideous guy because if i can do it as a potentially hideous guy then so can you.
I'm asumming that your not hideous and at the bare minimum probably average. if your asumming that I'm average then clearly looks isn't much of an issue your point would only work if you assume that I'm above average in terms of looks or at least a lot better looking then you by quite a margin
Last edited:
It's a myth Somali women do better than Somali men. They're about the same. Somali men who do well or above average (and there are lots of them) don't associate with the community.
Do you think an equal amount of them attain higher education or is that moreso dependent on the generation
When I was 18-22, there was about 60-40 split (more women) in university and 60-40 split (more men) in college (which stayed that way even with the 1st and 2nd year drop outs). For university, that roughly aligns with the men/women split in general society (at least when I went to university). I was born in the early 90s so I can only speak of my generation. Not sure what it's like now though. But I am sure the men/women split for Somalis in university today would look similiar to the general population.
The Somalis on forums and online who are in their Somali echo chamber are clueless about the large chunk of Somalis in the west. They are only looking at Somalis in their own orbit.
There's a class divide in the Somali diaspora and the cultured Somalis (lower socioeconomic status) don't see it.
Mate guarding is what you are referring to (hope someone get's the reference)my father?
my mother only married him for the passport which is why she didn't vet. In her defense, She actually tried to make the marriage work tho. He up and left while she was in postpartum with her 4th child, and had 3 little children running around. Bisinka! wallahi, I don't wish that kind of man on any woman.
Which is why she teaches us to have my Cinderella dream~~~~~~
Luckily, my mother uses her sisters as an example for dealing with men. She brought them to america so they actually had the chance to thoroughly vet their husbands instead of marrying for a passport to flee. All my Aunts' husbands pay all the bills. They focus on the house/ kids and only work 1-2 days a week and pill all their money in to their own accounts. They are all the only wife too.
My aunts always taught me to drain a man's pockets to he can't get remarried
