Muji
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Now we’re just going around in circles. Somali women are the only group in the U.K that accepts an apple for their mehr, you’re ducking it by basically saying “why don’t you fix up yourself”. That still doesn’t explain why this problem is only unique to the Somali community. You know that when Ajanabi converts feel entitled to a Somali woman, that something is wrong. Deflecting by saying that we have extremism, criminality and unemployment implies that we, and only we, have this problem. Do you even hear yourself? Kulaha unemployment, you do realise that even university graduates are having a hard time finding a job in this volatile market? This is a false analogy and doesn’t explain this trend.
This is my last post to you.
Somalis are unemployed at a higher rate than anyone else. Somali men are underachieving in education more than anyone else. I’m not saying this is their fault! I’m saying if you really are concerned about the Somali community then you would be discussing this instead.
If Islam says all Muslims are equal, then don’t be upset when a Somali girl marries one. Do you take issue with your religion. In Islam it says the sins of reverts are swiped clean, and they are brought in to the Muslim community, do you take issue with this?
Why are you so concerned with the meher price of a woman you don’t know. Out of all the issues in the Somali community, this is what you continuously spout.
When i say there are bigger issues in the Somali community which you should be concerned about. This is not me changing the subject, this is me pointing out your hypocrisy and faux concern.
At the end of the day, life is short I’m not gonna be sweating about a stranger marrying a ginger convert, nor will I be bargaining for her to receive a higher meher. And if i was concerned my solution would not be making 1k slanderous threads, insulting all Somali women, what is that going to change?
There is a lot of domestic violence in the Somali community and frequent rape which occurs in Somalia. It’s quite obvious, Somali women need more empowerment and less shaming. Somali women are autonomous and we do not need you controlling who we marry or have sex with. Worry about your own.