Exactly. This is embarrassing and if I were her I wouldn’t even share this story.I have seen couples splitting rent but dinner bill? Now that’s another low, I wouldn’t be able to look at my husband the same way if he asked to split 30 dollar bill, what kind of struggle shit is that
I know sis that’s why I said thank god for being Somali, although lately I have been seeing women going half on rent with their husband, ceeb calaayk. Why not just get a card together and combine your finances at least, when she said I have to send him 26 dollars
Most guys are more than happy to pay, it makes them feel like a provider. Who am I to stop them?I was on a date with a Xalimo and she felt noticably uncomfortable with me paying for the meal. Even paid for the next activity.
If you're married probably can't be doing that.
the guy won't feel bad but the girl might especially if she's working and he's paying for everything won't ever even get a chance to spend that and may feel unaccomplished which is why I think 70/30 would be a good split, let her chip in a little when married
We’re not spilling shit, what are we? Roommates? “Wifey, I need your half of the rent” please kill me already. If we’re both working we’re both contributing but this counting and diving finances stuff is some next level gajowhat if the split was like 60/40 or 70/30? if you aint a stay at home I can't see why thats unreasonable
did you read what I said? not half 30 percent, throw a lil sum thing not a big amountWe’re not spilling shit, what are we? Roommates? “Wifey, I need your half of the rent” please kill me already. If we’re both working we’re both contributing but this counting and diving finances stuff is some next level gajo
Did you not read what I said? If we’re both working we’re both contributing of course. It’s just weird to count everything up. Rather just have shared accounts were both paychecks go every month. So uncomfortable mandid you read what I said? not half 30 percent, throw a lil sum thing not a big amount
Truss me my outfit gone cost more than yo wardrobe lol, you don’t wanna go down that route@Inquisitive_ my contribution has already been made when I show up
Make up- 120
In total £700
Outfit- old shirt and jeans you already owned: free
So asking me out and then expecting me to pay half for the shrimp is a cheeky request. As if the woman isn’t already paying more for this date. But saying that id rather go half than go 70/30 like @Tukraq suggests, now your inconveniencing me by turning this into a maths exam.