Somalis and Co-parenting

[halwa]

You are good people merc, but you need to give us somali men some praise at times as well.



I would never use that kind of racist languague to swedish people. Svenne balle is the n word for swedish for anyone who dont speak Swedish

Why am I even talking to you? Waataa I habaartay hadaaye. Ish!

 

[East side]

Why am I even talking to you? Waataa I habaartay hadaaye. Ish!

Lool when? Habaar ma aqaani. Duco le ban aqaana

 

[Gambar]

Some will remain married but run away and “retire” to Africa and leave their children behind to be raised by their barely wife. Retire from what lama yaqaan!

 

[Halimo-2018]

Both are to blame.

 

[Libaaxseendheer]

I always knew Somaliland boys were the truest gentlemens in Somalia.


Those men remind me of Arab men. They go together with their backward views. They see women as trophies. A married couple are supposed to help each other out. Try telling them that.

Take that back

 

[Libaaxseendheer]

Lol so I’m a troll because
I talk about the issues I’ve seen and noticed in our community?

Most Somali households are very similar the girls are expected to cook and clean while the boys are free to do as they please in the long run what this creates is the girl Will grow up to be independent and learn to be a responsible adult and people can depend on her

While the boy on the other hand will be self entitled,lazy and will complain about the state of the house without lifting a finger

And than we have fathers who sit in coffee shops for long hours neglecting their wife and kids

And than there’s the ones who go back home to marry a poor girl with the intention if divorcing then when they come back which is haram

The 9 truths and a fat lie. Warya men going home to marry and then divorcing the girl isnt an epidemic. Waliba most young guys who are married off develop a sense of responsibility and work hard when they return to the states. I bet you are a teenage kid seeking attention.

 

[Libaaxseendheer]

Some will remain married but run away and “retire” to Africa and leave their children behind to be raised by their barely wife. Retire from what lama yaqaan!

Dont mislead huuno. Only a few do that.

 

[Spin Doctor]

The state will co parent with the mother. This is what women prefer nowadays

 

[Mercury]

I'm sorry but if your household is like that, you live in a FOB household. In most house, everyone helps around, men or women.

No If that was the reality Somalis wouldn’t mock guys who do household chores

 

[Mercury]

The 9 truths and a fat lie. Warya men going home to marry and then divorcing the girl isnt an epidemic. Waliba most young guys who are married off develop a sense of responsibility and work hard when they return to the states. I bet you are a teenage kid seeking attention.

I’m not seeking attention or whatever you claiming

I know guys who go back home to take advantage of poor girls and when they come back from holiday they divorce her

They even made a documentary about it

 

[diaby]

This dude(?) definitely has daddy issues

 

[Libaaxseendheer]

This dude(?) definitely has daddy issues

You ever heard of an issa saalax tribe in kenya?

 

[Libaaxseendheer]

I’m not seeking attention or whatever you claiming

I know guys who go back home to take advantage of poor girls and when they come back from holiday they divorce her

They even made a documentary about it

Do you by any chance live in the uk? And what are the tribes of your perpetrator friends?

 

[Libaaxseendheer]

@Mercury ragga somali waa adigan daba dhigtey ee bal tan ii ga war celi. Name a single nation who commits less atrocities towards women than somali?

 

[Gambar]

Dont mislead huuno. Only a few do that.

A few too many. I’m still trying to figure out what exactly they are retiring from.

 

[halwa]

Take that back

Inyow

 

[Libaaxseendheer]

A few too many. I’m still trying to figure out what exactly they are retiring from.

They should retire with their families not from.

 

[Vanessa]

Where am from, the Somali fathers are present in their children's life. Theyre pretty much involved in their children's education, sports and at home.

I always see somali fathers do school shopping on sunday night at my local supermarket.

 

[East side]

Where am from, the Somali fathers are present in their children's life. Theyre pretty much involved in their children's education, sports and at home.

I always see somali fathers do school shopping on sunday night at my local supermarket.

Mercury dont like good news on somali men. He like to focus on the worst and argue they are the norm. We need to find out where his anger comes from and offer support to him

 

[Mercury]

Mercury dont like good news on somali men. He like to focus on the worst and argue they are the norm. We need to find out where his anger comes from and offer support to him

Where did I claim everyone are?

From what I noticed once a father get divorced he’s not around for his kids