Somalis and Co-parenting

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  1. Mercury

    Mercury Staff Member Moderator

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    How come the practice of co-parenting isn’t seen much in the Somali community?

    I mean usually fathers just abandon their kids altogether wash their hands of any responsibility while the mothers try their best to raise their kids
     
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  2. nine

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    Parenting is a two person job and Somali Fathers raise their kids along with Somali Mothers. Degenerate welfare munching UK gaajo folks do not represent Somali Fathers :drakekidding:
     
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  4. Mercury

    Mercury Staff Member Moderator

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    I don’t know about UK but in Sweden and back home I have seen this many times a couple get divorced and the mother has the kids and the father is not heard of or he got remarried
     
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    why r we on repeat. we know it and its been going on nd will still go on next Somali girls just need to marry up for the sake of god
     
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  6. kaluumayste

    kaluumayste Take the Poo to the loo

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    I keep hearing Somali fathers don't raise their children, i'm like where are they getting these nonsense.
    I have yet to see Somali father abandoning his kids.

    Are reer uk this bad :gucciwhat:
     
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  7. Kodeen

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    Mercury, leave the fucking horse alone. Khalaas ya akhi.
     
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  8. Muji

    Muji Staff Member Moderator

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    Another platinum thread

    I’m calling it now
     
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  9. Muji

    Muji Staff Member Moderator

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    He won’t stop until you and the rest of the faraxs are castrated so you don’t have kids
     
  10. Kodeen

    Kodeen

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    Nah man. I will have kids and nobody stopping me. Insha'Allah a healthy daughter and a son
     
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  11. Mercury

    Mercury Staff Member Moderator

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    What are you on about?
     
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    Oh yeah. It is true. It is really prevalent in our society and it happens more frequent than we hear about it.

    I guess they don’t see it as their responsibility, hence they don’t put it much effort or time into raising children. They see it as woman’s job and there their roles in the family hierarchy are as the providers of the house. Rarely will you see a father interacting with their children. It really isn’t a character Somali men are known for. The only attention they give their children is when they misbehave or their education/dugsi lessons are not going as well as they thought it would. It is left to the mother to interact, chase and raise the children.


    There could so many factors.
     
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  13. Muji

    Muji Staff Member Moderator

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    And then abandon and give @Mercury more fuel lol
     
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    The vast majority of diaspora Somalis are raised by both parents. Remarrying is not a problem. Leaving kids can happen anywhere due to degenerates but for you to try put us on a level of kudhufo kadhaqaq and we don't raise our kids. :susp: Little princess you might have Daddy issues don't put us in your basket.
    Go simp somewhere else you AA wannabe.:camby:

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    Don't say that :gucciwhat:
     
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    Will you teach your daughter to be a feminist and your son to be an incel
     
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    Mercury Staff Member Moderator

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    What’s the point of having a kid than
     
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    @Knowles Naa heedhe I know you're a Gazelle you dhoocil :gaasdrink:
     
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    Ramen God bless the gays!

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