Somali Stepmom abuses stepchild

[Hybrid]

Somali women are the most jealous creatures no wonder they sixir the man to not fall in love with another woman.....the only reason she hates her is wallahi I'm serious is bcoz she can't get of her head that her husband slept and got the previous wife pregnant...and whenever she sees this child it reminds her of the situation in bed...he married a qumayo

Lol so you're aware about the sixir xalimo do to their husbands. Do you know that good number of Somali men are affected by the sixir ?

 

[Adan]

Lol so you're aware about the sixir xalimo do to their husbands. Do you know how many Somali men are affected by the sixir ?

I have seen them but the guy will be different than he was...he will not go out of the house....he becomes lazy and illness!! This qumayos are evil man

 

[Guts]

I have seen them but the guy will be different than he was...he will not go out of the house....he becomes lazy and illness!! This qumayos are evil man

I have even heard stories where xalimos with aids hides that from their husband and give them the dissease just for fun

 

[Hybrid]

I have seen them but the guy will be different than he was...he will not go out of the house....he becomes lazy and illness!! This qumayos are evil man

They also get ill. some of them are hospitalized for months. The guy will also start hating his family and will kick all his siblings/relatives out of the house.

 

[Adan]

They also get ill. some of them are hospitalized for months. The guy will also start hating his family and will kick all his siblings/relatives out of the house.

They are evil man how they gonna do a man like that....dude goes from I'm an aplha nigga.... to a basement dweller with sickness.....fucking xalimos man!

 

[AliUK]

But don't most Somalis go through abused, even when raised by their biological mothers? Not physically, but mentally

Some Somalis mum's technique for everything situation is to criticise and be narcissistic. Alhamdullilah it has never happened but some of my friends go through a lot of mental abuse for no reason.

 

[AussieHustler]

Hitting your children creates a lasting physical and mental trauma on the children and they themselves might become abusers of children as adults. Even when they grow up and are in a volatile situation, they lack skills in conflict resolution and anger management and resort to violence. When a mother has a large family along with the continuous back-breaking and never ending house chores, she has very little or no time teaching or intervening once the rivalry of the children becomes a fight. Yelling at them or hitting them is the only solution available to her. Fear with the threats of physical punishment becomes a means of resolution to conflicts by the child. Corporal punishment is widely practiced among the Somalis whether back home or in the diaspora.

 

[Guts]

Hitting your children creates a lasting physical and mental trauma on the children and they themselves might become abusers of children as adults. Even when they grow up and are in a volatile situation, they lack skills in conflict resolution and anger management and resort to violence. When a mother has a large family along with the continuous back-breaking and never ending house chores, she has very little or no time teaching or intervening once the rivalry of the children becomes a fight. Yelling at them or hitting them is the only solution available to her. Fear with the threats of physical punishment becomes a means of resolution to conflicts by the child. Corporal punishment is widely practiced among the Somalis whether back home or in the diaspora.

This is why need some kind of childs rights back home and make people follow them.

 

[White]

This is a old video

 

[Guts]

This is a old video

Even if it’s a old video should be ignoring the problem that many children are getting abused not only by their parents but teachers? Wallahi we need to make changes in our country inshallah

 

[White]

Even if it’s a old video should be ignoring the problem that many children are getting abused not only by their parents but teachers? Wallahi we need to make changes in our country inshallah

Well that's what they get for going to dugsi instead of school. They are lucky that the government is actually creating educational books in SOMALI.

Somalia is making changes, only slowly.

 

[Guts]

Well that's what they get for going to dugsi instead of school. They are lucky that the government is actually creating educational books in SOMALI.

Somalia is making changes, only slowly.

As for now the best thing for our society is to move slowly cause most of them are conservative. I hope i can go back home some day and help them chance the education system and laws.

 

[White]

As for now the best thing for our society is to move slowly cause most of them are conservative. I hope i can go back home some day and help them chance the education system and laws.

Do you have living family in Somalia?

 

[Guts]

Do you have living family in Somalia?

I have alot of relatives there and uncles/aunts i dont know about. The clostest family i have lives in norway and some other uncles and aunts i dont know about in america and new zeeland

 

[Crow]

100%. The dad in my opinion gives up his responsibility for the child if he doesn't do something about it.

I personally couldn't continue that marriage with the stepmum.

The fathers never seem to care. It's just bad culture all around.

Somali kids who aren't raised by their mother often go through childhood abuse. It's not only step mothers that do this. The Somali kids who are raised by their edo or habaryar also get abused but not as bad as being raised by a step mother.

This is true as well. They make sure that the kid knows they aren't actually part of the family. They basically live like Cinderella.

 

[Hybrid]

spanking is an effective form of discipline for kids growing up in Africa but no child should go thru physical/emotional abuse.

 

[Hybrid]

Well that's what they get for going to dugsi instead of school. They are lucky that the government is actually creating educational books in SOMALI.

Somalia is making changes, only slowly.

I got my ass whopped many times in elementary school.

 

[White]

I got my ass whopped many times in elementary school.

You're from Djibouti.

 

[Hybrid]

You're from Djibouti.

yeah

 

[Adan]

yeah

Bro ass whooping was good for me I turned out right especially in school... I was the biggest moryaan in Islamic school!.. Alx turned out fine!