I am a man. And it is shown time and time again around the western somali diaspora that somali men want virgins and their wives should be virgins but THEY can be sexually active? Utter trashI always find women suspicious when they complain about men wanting virgins. You can clearly see they’re nervous about it.
If you’re pure and kept your siil intact then there’s nothing to worry about OP.

It's a frightening notion really. From the streets they cometh and unto the streets they return, is easier said than done when you are a woman who married a man that's been around (without your knowledge). Imagine you find out after the marriage is consummated. If you request a divorce from him you'll feel sullied, possibly be pregnant and likely have shrinking options. I guess all you can hope for is that this man is more honourable than his wild beginnings (given this unfortunate series of events that have befallen you).





