Looool thats ur fucked up thought process. Those nigas own mother dress and talk like that. Ur just talking to talk.She's built like a linebacker and sounds like a chain smoker. No man is going in to defend a woman like that, I'm being honest
Looool thats ur fucked up thought process. Those nigas own mother dress and talk like that. Ur just talking to talk.She's built like a linebacker and sounds like a chain smoker. No man is going in to defend a woman like that, I'm being honest
She's built like a linebacker and sounds like a chain smoker. No man is going in to defend a woman like that, I'm being honest
I'm saying she looks like a ratchet, testosterone filled monstrosity. No man is going to white knight for that. Many men in their head think of one day intervening and saving someone, but in their fantasies it's a pretty innocent woman. Not whatever that thing in the video was.So r u saying she is NOT a woman because she is built like a linebacker?
I'm saying she looks like a ratchet, testosterone filled monstrosity. No man is going to white knight for that. Many men in their head think of one day intervening and saving someone, but in their fantasies it's a pretty innocent woman. Not whatever that thing in the video was.
Who does this? Who shames pious women? It doesn’t happen.I don’t see how you can look at it in a positive way when they’ll even insult a halal married Somali woman with a Muslim husband and shame her. What value is that outside of ownership? Is it humanizing to be called ****. Absurd point I have to say.
Who said having access to them is what makes them valuable? What I said is women are valuable due to simply existing and being the provider of life, in other words being the temple of the body that houses children, and when they mess with that temple they suffer the consequences of losing that value they were born with, whether you like it or not, women are born with this value and yes it can be lost overtime but they’re valued more than men from a young age to adulthood because of it.So a woman is valued as long as Somali men have access to her? Is that what you call value? Or is real value based on accepting someone’s choices and seeing that they are human and thus may go for another option that isn’t them AND still wanting to protect them. Whose value is everlasting and who isn’t?
You don’t even realize that you contradicted yourself. You are literally proving that men are born with value. You’re able to change, have a second chance which is what it is to be human. Being human means you’ll make mistakes and people that recognize your humanity will understand that. You are humanized and you’ve just admitted it without realizing! Humanized to such an extent they’re taken back despite being degenerates and are married. They not only get a mother who still cares but a wife to
How often do men lie about women though? There’s great punishment for men who lie about women and men wouldn’t dare due such a thing but at the same time this doesn’t really mean anything when it comes to gender dynamics cause men can also lose worth when women lie about them and the vile things they can do, so yes this value women hold isn’t “inherent” that’s the wrong word and if I used it before then I was wrong but at the same time women are born with a certain value that makes them more worth than protecting than the average man, that doesn’t mean it isn’t weak to attacks like you pointed out but the worth/value men build for themselves overtime can just be ruined in the same manner, your not really making strong points to counter mine.Yet women’s values plummet not for their own mistakes but also that of men who force themselves on to them. Even a man lying/slandering a woman can make her lose value. How are we valued when even the mistakes of men can ruin us?!
Lol and you call that inherant ‘worth’. Women are of such little value intrinsically that a lies of a woman uttered in seconds can demolish it. It’s that fragile.
Whether men have it way more easy than women or somewhat more easy than women, I’m not sure but I still think women tend to have it worse on avarage, however to say men turning over a new leaf = valuable is wrong. Men are only able to turn over a new leaf due to having not as much value as women on avarage.I don’t think men have it easy. But it’s whole lot more easy than women. No man truly becomes ‘valueless’ as you can always turn a new leaf. Your humanity and the fact that humans do make mistakes is respected. We live in a man’s world and men’s ideals and what benefits them is law.
And what issues that are completely separate from women do men deal with?
I don’t know if you can come with a separate list. Correct my ignorance.
Yes things are more equalised in this society but women’s inherent value isn’t from working, cause if they stop working no one will look down on them and and see them as useless, look at all the post about Xalimos on this site who very much care most about how men are able to protect and provide, on the other hand I’ve yet to see men benefit from the advantages of women, that they get to have some level of value where people still love them and care for them, think about how unattractive the idea of a “househusband” is. This is due to men not having that same value women have.In the past men would be plagued with full provision: now women work, they’d be plagued with wars and protecting their families: now we live in a police state!
The difficulties that the men of your community went through has now been mostly reduced through the advent of tech and modernity. So what can we say do men suffer from that women don’t also?
Okay. Maybe I’m blind but I haven’t really had a man explain properly what issues men face that women don’t?
She’s a stranger, no reason why any man should risk his life for someone he doesn’t know.U say the most ignorant things. If a man looks at a woman and thinks she can fight a man and win he isnt a man. He is a coward and most of them were that.
Its not being a stranger these madow guys are 1 cowards and 2 have a culture where they have never protected their women. A man can slap their own mom and theyll ask their mom what she did to provoke him lmaooo. Idk why she looked at them and asked why they didnt protect. Lol they arent known for that. From yesterday to today madow women are talking about how they go protest for them and they dont get any protection from them lol sad caseShe’s a stranger, no reason why any man should risk his life for someone he doesn’t know.
Only your family.
Caprice Dagga sounds like a mean Jamaican gangster. One that would pop up in Shottas.Roda Bashe aka DHQ (dance hall queen) Caprice Dagga is a Somali forum legend, I'm surprised more people don't remember her
She used to have a youtube channel with her west african partner, I don't see what this has to do with Somali men at all and why we're getting dragged into this
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who are they getting married to? Women from back home, in other words they provide value for those women. While you’re right that women are expected to cook and clean etc, this isn’t their strongest value and men will overlook women who don’t do these things cause women are most valued for their ability to give birth and make men less lonely, housework is a nice +They get married again and again. Some have been married to decades whilst their wives got benefits. Do you honestly think those men would have stayed with their wives if didn’t continue cooking, cleaning and sleeping with them?! Are they not also seeking usefulness as well? Those women are with women for their labour just as much as women like men to be useful for their outside labour.
Here’s the difference most men are ignored while most women are valued if they don’t do certain things, most women aren’t ostracized and slandered whereas most men will be ignored if they don’t fix up, men have to gain, women will lose overtime and it’s obviously harder to gain something than it is to lose it.Also, is being forgotten about the same as being slandered and ostracized? What’s better, being forgotten about so you can go about your ways or being seen as untouchable and in which your life changes for ever? Those forgetten men are still living their lives and go back home and marry again and again. There are no consequences. No consequence.
Don’t believe this at all, warlords who’ve committed atrocities, only get away with it cause they have power, as soon as they lose that power it’s over for them, there’s no turning a new lead as the newest warlord ends the last guys lifeSaxib forget Western gangbangers, Moryaan war lords who’ve killed villagers are able to turns new leaf back home and they offer nothing but ruin and destruction. It’s simply because culturally we don’t hold men accountable. That why our nation is a shit- hole.
This is just dishonest, how likely are women gonna be interested in poor desperate men from back home, almost zero women from the west. The ones who do marry men from back home grew up there anyway and don’t relate to western abdi’s, they also marry the rich ones or ones who have something going for them back homeYour point doesn’t stand. Women get used for passports all the time. Look at TikTok of Somali women crying as their newly arrived fob husbands leave them. It on the rise. Women too provide value as well and your argument only works if we forget that. You’re also forgetting that most men wouldn’t be with a useless woman who does nothing. Men use women’s labor and in traditional Somali culture women back home are treated like maids. They wake up at the crack of dawn to start with the house chores that are hard and ardous. Some are even married to addict khat heads.
They have passports that’s makes them very useful to the women that try to be with them, it gives them a chance of a better lifeHe isn’t useful. Most of the time it’s his mother that sends him money. It’s the same for autistic sons and mentally ill sons who get married back home.
shouldn’t use the term inherent value, when it comes to people valuing each other. Again passportIt’s inherent value as his mother who doesn’t benefit from him will marry him off and even pay for him. He’s broke and doesn’t contribute anything, yet such a thing wouldn’t happen with a daughter.
This has everything to do with gender, women aren’t interested in Faraxs back home for them most part and you know itAlso, men marry old women as well back home with passport. That has nothing to do with gender. But most wouldn’t marry a girl known to be loose as men are forgiven no matter how useless but women aren’t
We’re just circling the drain at this point, you’re failing to recognise the benefits of being female while ignoring the disadvantages of being male, while I recognise there advantages and disadvantages to both being male and female and that it’s still generally better to be male on average.It is tied to their worth but that in itself makes them worthless. All it takes is for r-word or even a man slandering her and she’s finished. As a man you can be gang-banger you’d be welcomed back. Why? Because you’re not an objectonly valued for one thing.
Btw, did you know that women are actually left more when they get cancer and other diseases rather than the other way around? So how can you tell me in the same breath that we are more valued for being when husbands leave them when they can no longer do the domestic chores?!
Women leave men more than men leave women in divorce, most of the time it’s Irreconcilable differences, which usually translates to personality problem or didn’t provide enough value to meMost women stay with their husbands when he is ill, more so than men.
This is literally a lie, men that aren’t useful aren’t even considered, let alone be left by someone, and on top of that women leave men than men leave women.
Your whole argument falls apart once you realize that women that aren’t useful are left more than men that aren’t useful.
I never said women are useless, what I said was they have a certain value men don’t have and there are obviously other values they can provide on top of thatUseless women get left as in the case of a sick one. Women are 6 times more likely to be left. You’re also forgetting that in Somali culture women are rarely ever useless. They’re literally the ones who do everything the house.
Women don’t need to provide as much as men not due to capitalism lol. Women are the ones who make men fight for them and provide for them, not capitalism, it’s simple female preference, whereas males prefer women who are chaste, not already taken and preferably attractive.The only reason why you think a woman can be useless is because you value capitalist metrics of work. In which you think only usefulness is based on money.
Yes, women how can’t give birth and don’t provide any other value aren’t seen as valuable by society, that’s fair but this is a minority of women and you can’t use a minority to explain the majority cause I could just point to disabled men who can’t do anything in the same way but that’s dishonest cause a reasonable amount of men will become valuable enough for at least a decent portion of people to care about them.Most men aren’t staying with a woman who can’t give birth, can’t look after them and work around the house. That ‘work’ is just as useful as the job I do I outside of the house. It’s no useless that many men will replace their sick wives for one that can be useful. Women’s labour keeps a lot of men.
No they wouldn’t lol they would shoot any guy that slaps their mother. This is just a random ghetto h0 who ran her mouth off and done something to provoke violence against her.It’s not being a stranger these madow guys are 1 cowards and 2 have a culture where they have never protected their women. A man can slap their own mom and theyll ask their mom what she did to provoke him lmaooo. Idk why she looked at them and asked why they didnt protect. Lol they arent known for that. From yesterday to today madow women are talking about how they go protest for them and they dont get any protection from them lol sad case
I don’t know why people are assuming they know the actual situation, there might be a very good reason as to why the men didn’t do anything. Does the perpetrator have a gun? Does the ratchet women have a gun? Did they witness the women physically abuse the guy beforehand? We know she’s already capable of it, through video evidence. Did she start shouting racial slurs toward all the guys there, do these people already have a history between each other? So many questions and not enough answers.omg why
No they wouldn’t lol they would shoot any guy that slaps their mother. This is just a random ghetto h0 who ran her mouth off and done something to provoke violence against her.
Ur a lost cause go to hellomg why
No they wouldn’t lol they would shoot any guy that slaps their mother. This is just a random ghetto h0 who ran her mouth off and done something to provoke violence against her.
There is literally a video posted here of her slapping a random man and then twerkingI don’t know why people are assuming they know the actual situation, there might be a very good reason as to why the men didn’t do anything. Does the perpetrator have a gun? Does the ratchet women have a gun? Did they witness the women physically abuse the guy beforehand? We know she’s already capable of it, through video evidence. Did she start shouting racial slurs toward all the guys there, do these people already have a history between each other? So many questions and not enough answers.
People acting like the men there should just protect her is mad, Just low IQ thinking.
Your going way too far bro. If you really think that's true, then I dare you to go find a madow man walking with his mother and try slapping his mother. See what happens to you.Its not being a stranger these madow guys are 1 cowards and 2 have a culture where they have never protected their women. A man can slap their own mom and theyll ask their mom what she did to provoke him lmaooo. Idk why she looked at them and asked why they didnt protect. Lol they arent known for that. From yesterday to today madow women are talking about how they go protest for them and they dont get any protection from them lol sad case
Ur a lost cause go to hell