Tbh those in somalia have too many kids. They get married and have so much. Isn't somalia the one of the most fastest growing population in the world? I have seen something about it.
So many unmarried somali women pushing over 30s its a big tabo but we should really talk about it
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Actually I think its more because we're at this weird crossroad thing where there is kind of pressure on you not to get married. Parents aren't really involved anymore and expect you to bring someone but a lot of women are too shy to get involved with a man and bring him to their parents or they are scared of what their parents would think or simply they haven't found someone who they are both attracted too, and meets their parents standards. I'm mean my sister would've gotten marries at 24 but my parents didnt like the guy so now she is 27 and single lolz
I cant speak for other cultures but the only people I really see around here who marry early <22 are arabs, and they have crazy early divorces, like after one year, or even less than a year. And then they are single mothers for like the next 5 years until the meet a new guy to marry them. At least this how it was with some of the people I saw, so getting married early in a divorce haven like the west isnt always a good idea
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Stop using your red pill bullshit, there’s no such thing as hitting the wall when you are thirty in the Somali community
Somali men are everywhere and they are always keen
Every Somali I know who got married <25 are now divorced
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Right its crazy. But cant be surprised. Its what happens when people marry for halal sex. Especially the guys because they get bored with that woman after a year
and start a new search
Its qadr, if its not written for her it isnt written for her. Get off their backs. It happens when it happens.
Ik a somali woman who didnt marry till she was 32. Shes now a doctor and is married. Her lifes going great alx. Mind you this was back home. People just have their own timelines.
Ik a somali woman who didnt marry till she was 32. Shes now a doctor and is married. Her lifes going great alx. Mind you this was back home. People just have their own timelines.
Nobody really teaches Somali women how to navigate through marriage/dating market. Many of them are throw in to it with little to no experience with men and expect to search for one. They are afraid of getting rejected or making an mistake that they've give up before they have entered. Forget searching, they don't even know to how make themselves look available.
I'm not saying all of them are like this but there are many that fall in to this category. The funniest ones, are the one's that believe men are looking for same qualities that women look for in men. Absolutely clueless.
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This is why marriage is overrated, imagine spending thousands and end up having a divorce over little things . I could of used that money in investments.
why are you talking about affording to get married later. It is not about money, it is about being in the biological timeframe to have children. So many cadaan women f*ck around and don't get married. When it is time to get serious, they lost their chance and become cat ladies or somebody's f*ck buddy.
Spot on bro! Why do u think caadan women struggle to get kids? That's because they wait way toooo long to get married and have children.
To all the Sspot Xalimos, the biological clock is real and those are @Factz
it means pseudoscience. He called it suugo(soup) science.
nothing wrong for a woman to marry like late 20s or early 30s but no garantees marriage will happen so at late 20s
yes 27 is not old but why would a guy of say from 30 to 35 settle for a 27 when he get younger?
27 she still has chances but it is lowered by a lot
those cases a rare
at least they got married
Somali women when they age are not wanted sure there are cases where they may find someone
Somali men are really judgemental when it comes to age even more so I cant believe you don't know this
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Sweety stop lying to yourselves
WallahiI Somali men are one of the thirstiest men in the world. I’ve never met a Somali chick who didn’t have options.
I’d rather be single with a career than single with a kid and living as a single mom.
You are trying to propagate false panic so women can drop their standards. Will never happen.
Trust me what is the chance of every 25 year old having their shit together. It is highly unlikely. If the guy isnt there but is working to ge there then they should give him a chance. However if he is lazy and not trying to achieve then that is where the problem is and when they should say no and move onto the next.
Why opt for a dusty used most likely not virgin old 26 year old Western woman when you can marry the cream of the crop young virgin teen girl with good deen from back home
My wife was 17 when I married her, I am the happiest marriage now
beer iyo anjero with shah bigays, can these women make you that or its KFC takeout
My wife was 17 when I married her, I am the happiest marriage now
beer iyo anjero with shah bigays, can these women make you that or its KFC takeout
Yeah, it's easy to blame women, but Somali parents --- fathers in particular actually carry just as much blame. They want a husband with deen and dhaqan to materialise out of nowhere. Hooyoo and abo are (rightfully) against dating and boyfriend culture, but aren't doing anything to help their daughters find a suitor. They're expected to venture out and do it all by themselves, but yet it's absolutely outrageous when she crosses a line or two.
Low key rate Somali women that made it into their 30s with their integrity intact
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