Nostalgia
DEACTIVATED!
Just look at some of the qumayos in this thread. Imagine expecting your husband to cook, clean, provide, be attractive and protect you at the same time. What do you want then, an alpha simp?
Everybody got their preferences no need to be salty. Just learn to cook before you get married if you can't already. There's nothing more romantic than a guy that wakes you up with breakfast in the morning.