Parentified Children in Large Somali families

[Idil-Beydaan]

haweenka soomaliyed they complain about the foul language of their kids but they themselves can’t stop the Habaar
Aasma kale Abaar ha kuu dhace wayse
Xamdi kale Xaarka haa ku dhagiwaaye
Etc..
Good example they are lol

 

[Midas Touch]

I don’t understand pls explain
Ah yes Somali parents never apologise even when they’re kids grow up and mature

Yes exactly they can be in the wrong for what ever reason and blaming the child for what ever, and they find out they are in the wrong but the words i'm sorry is never uttered, they stand there indhoo adeeg with their shaaf sagaaro like

 

[Midas Touch]

haweenka soomaliyed they complain about the foul language of their kids but they themselves can’t stop the Habaar
Aasma kale Abaar ha kuu dhace wayse
Xamdi kale Xaarka haa ku dhagiwaaye
Etc..
Good example they are lol

Somali parents kill me

 

[Idil-Beydaan]

Yes exactly they can be in the wrong for what ever reason and blaming the child for what ever, and they find out they are in the wrong but the words i'm sorry is never uttered, they stand there indhoo adeeg with their shaaf sagaaro like

Personally just my opinion I think It gives a bad example to the child and the indho adheg mentality they have at school when they argue with the teachers and the way u can easily distingush the somali herd at schools because of the rowdiness and the attitude they walk with.

 

[Midas Touch]

Personally just my opinion I think It gives a bad example to the child and the indho adheg mentality they have at school when they argue with the teachers and the way u can easily distingush the somali herd at schools because of the rowdiness and the attitude they walk with.

i agree 100% with you

 

[Idil-Beydaan]

Ilmaha ‘sorry iyo thank you’ ma la barrin ba
And I also think that’s where the victim complex and Blm love comes from. But on another note ther are taught to be grateful in religious terms. But not like direct you should respect ur teacher otherwise all those hoodrats faraxs AND Xalimos wouldn’t be content in constantly being sent to prison. They would be ashamed more that they’re commiting a crime in the country that gave them their sharci. But the parents have an indo adheeg attituted that they deserve to be in these countries and are also ok with commiting benefits and tax frauds and I think that catches on with our kids.

 

[Kingjames]

Damn are Somali parents really that bad?

 

[Idil-Beydaan]

Damn are Somali parents really that bad?

Istaaqfurulla not all
Shoutout to all good parents
I’m just sayin stereotypes exist for a reason sxb
Wait you’re mixed race aren't you

 

[Kingjames]

Istaaqfurulla not all
Shoutout to all good parents
I’m just sayin stereotypes exist for a reason sxb
Wait you’re mixed race aren't you

Yeah, I’m what they call caano iyo shaax.

I know not all parents are bad but i always wondered why all the Somali families were 8+. I asked someone when I was younger and was told to shut up and say alhamdulilah.

 

[Ainan]

Traditional and emotionally void parenting is the best. This has been proven to work. These new parents want to be friends with their children, it's not a surprise when that friendship is no longer tenable, and the child goes berserk on them.

 

[Idil-Beydaan]

Traditional and emotionally void parenting is the best. This has been proven to work. These new parents want to be friends with their children, it's not a surprise when that friendship is no longer tenable, and the child goes berserk on them.

I agree with you that one
But there’s a difference between traditional and neglect
We like to ignore the many stories of somali kids snatched by social services
That’s actually another story
Lemme tell you
I am from a large family and this is common in very and I emphasise very traditional families
The daughter has to beg to get into higher education
From age 10 she’s reminded with every mistake ‘ markaa nin aroostid will you do this so and so’
My family is another story
But I’ve seen girls including myself that since myGCSEs wallahi iyo billahi iyo tallahi I had to beg for revision times
Xishood xata ma jiro
While Xalimos at my sixth form used complain about their very involved parent wallahi I wished my parent cared and valued education
I used run back as soon as sixth form finishes to qadda karis and ilma korin because my parents are tired from work and the toddler kids. While the other oxbridge applicant stay and revise at school. The wierdest thing is they don’t support your education yet certain parents like to have a say if you’re going uni or not
Every mistake gets a super harsh criticism and not only from your own parents but if it gets out the whole neighbourhood
The mother even though she has 9 kids still wants her social life and leaves the oldest underage with the rest.
And there’s always one of the kids sometimes the middle one who acts up and seeks attention and the mother complains endlessly to the oldest totake care of that child as she’s tired form nursing the newborn.
Those kids raised in this farm rebel and runaway sxb
I’m actually someone for traditional parenting not 9 kids popping while on benefits and unemployed dad whilst the older kids do every single damn thing
Don’t start me on western barents who befriend their kids ufff
Sorry for this jumbled mess I wrote
I’m sleeply lol

 

[Ainan]

I agree with you that one
But there’s a difference between traditional and neglect
We like to ignore the many stories of somali kids snatched by social services
That’s actually another story
Lemme tell you
I am from a large family and this is common in very and I emphasise very traditional families
The daughter has to beg to get into higher education
From age 10 she’s reminded with every mistake ‘ markaa nin aroostid will you do this so and so’
My family is another story
But I’ve seen girls including myself that since myGCSEs wallahi iyo billahi iyo tallahi I had to beg for revision times
Xishood xata ma jiro
While Xalimos at my sixth form used complain about their very involved parent wallahi I wished my parent cared and valued education
I used run back as soon as sixth form finishes to qadda karis and ilma korin because my parents are tired from work and the toddler kids. While the other oxbridge applicant stay and revise at school. The wierdest thing is they don’t support your education yet certain parents like to have a say if you’re going uni or not
Every mistake gets a super harsh criticism and not only from your own parents but if it gets out the whole neighbourhood
The mother even though she has 9 kids still wants her social life and leaves the oldest underage with the rest.
And there’s always one of the kids sometimes the middle one who acts up and seeks attention and the mother complains endlessly to the oldest totake care of that child as she’s tired form nursing the newborn.
Those kids raised in this farm rebel and runaway sxb
I’m actually someone for traditional parenting not 9 kids popping while on benefits and unemployed dad whilst the older kids do every single damn thing
Don’t start me on western barents who befriend their kids ufff
Sorry for this jumbled mess I wrote
I’m sleeply lol

You are probably Hawiye.