Older men

[Moh]

Ladies I wonder if they are really worth the hassle? I kind of fear them a bit. They know far too much about women and have been in the game for a very long time. Enough to accumulate or cause some battle scars from relationships gone sour. And they appear to be very incisive. I'm speaking for the intelligent ones. And if there's anything I despise it's an imbalance in power. The last thing I want is to be a trophy wife to an odey.

Anyway, I know of this man who is pushing 40 from beesha and to my dismay he doesn't look like he's falling apart from poor self-care and accelerated aging. This is what I expected:

But this one looks more like a younger Rick Fox but of the noble cushitic stalk:

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My question to the ladies is what is your age cut off point? And how old is too old?

You're 30+? No wonder you're attracted to older men. They're around the same age as you.

 

[Vanessa]

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[Abdisamad]

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[Sophisticate]

I can only love you like an inabti @The Good.

If you never take risk in life you'll never achieve anything sis..

I have achieved no finelines, no bodies and better physique dimensions than my 20s. Congrats are in order.

 

[Sophisticate]

nin ku dhali karo baa ku dhaqi karo. Nothing better than marrying a man 20 years older than you huuno.

That you can't relate with. I will take a pass.

 

[abdallah]

This is what I expected:

War Madaxweyne kuxigeenka daa

 

[Sophisticate]

The constant attention that is thrown your way when you just wanna walk to your classroom and teach your class. Can hardly use to printers in peace. As a matter of fact I recently started walking around with headphones to indirectly tell these crusty cadaans I ain't trying to talk to you



I don't blame them, they see a young handsome professional like me, full of charisma and virility, they want to bask into my intoxicating aura.
The kids can't leave me alone and are always talking about me, even the ones that I don't teach can't stop yelling my name in the hallways, whenever they do the nearest classroom almost always has some 40 year old looking cadaan chick that zooms out and tries to come my way to intiate conversation about something that doesn't concern me in the least.

You're being postively ageist. Lavish some courteous attention on the cadaan Islaamo. I never look a complimenting gift horse in the mouth or disapprove of the source. Rather I appreciate those who appreciate me but within reason.

 

[Guardafui]

They’re control freaks and boring just go few dates and sit down with them you’ll see. Having your own money is the best thing a woman can do believe me financial freedom is a blessing.

 

[Hodan from HR]

Personally, all I care about is; he is stable and we have intellectual and spiritual compatibility. Any man of any age who mets these standards is fair game

@sophisticate Sis, I say this as someone who is not a huge fan of casual dating. Age can be limiting. Having more options means you can shukansi and quit without feeling like, when will you run into a guy as good as the last one you just cancelled.

 

[Sophisticate]

Lmaooo this is so true, it‘s scary. I would naturally avoid a guy like the 2nd one and would run like corona virus is after me. View attachment 98853

You have every right to. The head of an irresponsible husband
has a flat underside. Just in case, scan his brain to ensure he's monogamous (to strengthen your conclusions). Sometimes a normal cranium can show misleadingly high levels of good husband potential. But waa false positive.

 

[Al Muslim]

Here is a 103 year old man from Jordan who got married.

 

[Sophisticate]

You're 30+? No wonder you're attracted to older men. They're around the same age as you.

I think you are speaking about yourself. I am young to me and those older than me. Perhaps you're the one in need of a reality check. Women my age can still play roles for much younger parts. This is the new 30:

As for a late 30s/40 year old men they have accumulated a lot of life experience which I'm afraid is not my cup of tea. I only recently discovered some of them take care of themselves as well. .

 

[Sophisticate]

War Madaxweyne kuxigeenka daa

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They’re control freaks and boring just go few dates and sit down with them you’ll see. Having your own money is the best thing a woman can do believe me financial freedom is a blessing.

Agreed. It's best to come to the table from a position of strength.

Personally, all I care about is; he is stable and we have intellectual and spiritual compatibility. Any man of any age who mets these standards is fair game

@sophisticate Sis, I say this as someone who is not a huge fan of casual dating. Age can be limiting. Having more options means you can shukansi and quit without feeling like, when will you run into a guy as good as the last one you just cancelled.

I really like your open mind and wish I had the courage to change my age criteria. However, my decision is informed by data.

I must quote this article I read:

A one-year discrepancy in a couple’s ages, the study found, makes them 3 percent more likely to divorce (when compared to their same-aged counterparts); a 5-year difference, however, makes them 18 percent more likely to split up. And a 10-year difference makes them 39 percent more likely.

Once you enter large-gap territory–the 20-year difference, the 30-year difference–the odds of divorce are … almost never in your favor. (95% higher for 20 years, 172% higher for 30 years).

“Statistics aren’t destiny.” There are examples of big age gaps in successful marriages. But there are many more examples of divorce. And since it’s my job to steer you to more successful outcomes, you may want to stick with dating people in your own generation. That means you, creepy old guys!

 

[Talo wadaag]

Ladies I wonder if they are really worth the hassle? I kind of fear them a bit. They know far too much about women and have been in the game for a very long time. Enough to accumulate or cause some battle scars from relationships gone sour. And they appear to be very incisive. I'm speaking for the intelligent ones. And if there's anything I despise it's an imbalance in power. The last thing I want is to be a trophy wife to an odey.

Anyway, I know of this man who is pushing 40 from beesha and to my dismay he doesn't look like he's falling apart from poor self-care and accelerated aging. This is what I expected:

But this one looks more like a younger Rick Fox but of the noble cushitic stalk:

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My question to the ladies is what is your age cut off point? And how old is too old?

my sister do you like to get any children? it is okay if you are more than 30 years old there are still many many many somalis like that who no still married. Niyadaada khayr u sheeg waad helaysaa qofkii aad raadinaysay inshallah

 

[abdallah]

@sophisticate are u Samaroon?

 

[Sophisticate]

my sister do you like to get any children? it is okay if you are more than 30 years old there are still many many many somalis like that who no still married. Niyadaada khayr u sheeg waad helaysaa qofkii aad raadinaysay inshallah

Shukraan huuno. I appreciate your warm words.

@sophisticate are u Samaroon?

Has my thread in the tc section left any room for doubt?

 

[Afrique]

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Agreed. It's best to come to the table from a position of strength.



I really like your open mind and wish I had the courage to change my age criteria. However, my decision is informed by data.

I must quote this article I read:

sis you can find the same stats about marrying someone with different hair colour, certain job types or possibly even the number of divorces lol.

If a 24 year old man who was ready for commitment approached you and you were both compatible and mature, would you say no?

 

[Helios]

I can only love you like an inabti @The Good.


I have achieved no finelines, no bodies and better physique dimensions than my 20s. Congrats are in order.

What is is an inabiti? Nephew or little cousin??

 

[Ghengis Kaarhis]

You have every right to. The head of an irresponsible husband
has a flat underside. Just in case, scan his brain to ensure he's monogamous (to strengthen your conclusions). Sometimes a normal cranium can show misleadingly high levels of good husband potential. But waa false positive.

Where can i get such notes about female features?

I believe there are some universal traits such as the hooked nose, and hooked fingers like claws, where the nails are eating up the front of the finger.

 

[Helios]

Where can i get such notes about female features?

I believe there are some universal traits such as the hooked nose, and hooked fingers like claws, where the nails are eating up the front of the finger.

If she has those nasty features?

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