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The leverage is tipped against you bc women act less on feelings of desire and can thus reign it in much, much better than men can, who often suffer from a fundamental lack of discipline due to being encouraged to act impulsively on desire in popular culture, and so when the man is in a relationship, one of the perks of that being sexual stability he can now be happy to 'expect', but at the same time if for whatever reason it isn't there, he's made effectively weak by it.I meant the disparity levels when it came to the sexes. Since men desire sex more, women tend to use sex as leverage. "No sex for you until you do as I say". The poor bastard has to follow through to get to the sugar walls. I actually had a friend who complained to me about this. I recommended his loyal 2nd girlfriend (left hand)/
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I think witholding sex is appropriate in certain situations, and can even help the relationship sexually, but if it's something that happens a lot, or over extended periods of time, it's unhealthy to the relationship (not to mention unfair to the spouse)