Sis this is the reason why in Adkar that we have to read daily we have to supplicate from the oppression of men:We're not the underdogs sis, these men are supposed to protect and provide for us, and we don't have to lift a finger, and when we do, we get good deeds for it. But they have found a lot of ways, to subvert the rights of women, and lash out in bitterness and jealousy.
Walahi sis, I see some of these men, as devils in human flesh, they get pleasure out of trying to make islam difficult for us. Now they're even trying to tell us what we can ask our creator IF we reach heaven.
They are quite simply, heinous bullies, you can tell a lot about a person's character when they think they have power over you.
“O Allah, I seek refuge in You from anxiety, sorrow, disability, laziness, cowardice, miserliness, the burdens of debt, and the oppression of men.”