Modern Nomads: How Much Mehr money is too much

[AliUK]

Maybe it’s me, but I will never understand this. Anyways you lost your damn mind too to be dealing with someone who is asking for 20k+

Wallaahi I don’t get it. Are you guys not asking yourself why a girl would ask for so much money? Is it only about “self worth” or does she want to secure herself if she gets divorced?

No it's the fact my uncle and his wife got big mouths so they told everyone about how much money I made from cryptocurrencies and the fact I bought my mum a house.

So they offered me their daughters but I said no as they are cousins but they told me about a family friend with a good looking daughter. I didn't believe them but damn man is going to wife her next summer.

She is from the middle east which is where I want to live, educated, just opened her first business and most importantly out my league just the way i like them. She is just trying it on tbh, I will have down to 10k which is a very reasonable number in my opinion.

 

[RICH]

No it's the fact my uncle and his wife got big mouths so they told everyone about how much money I made from cryptocurrencies and the fact I bought my mum a house.

So they offered me their daughters but I said no as they are cousins but they told me about a family friend with a good looking daughter. I didn't believe them but damn man is going to wife her next summer.

She is from the middle east which is where I want to live, educated, just opened her first business and most importantly out my league just the way i like them. She is just trying it on tbh, I will have down to 10k which is a very reasonable number in my opinion.

Haa alright. Illaahay ghair haa ka dhigo! In shaa Allah she will come to her senses cause she sounds like a good one.

 

[catwoman]

Lol

The whole conversation made me cringe tbh

“My mum taught me I’m priceless but my price is 20k”

Cognitive dissonance at its finest

These girls don’t get that the more money they take from a farax the more the man will demand during the mariage. I remember an Indian guy burnt his wife whilst she was asleep because she couldn’t have kids and wouldn’t return his dowry.

Also, if you’re going to cook, clean and sleep with someone for the rest of your life for 20k, then they are getting a good deal, where can I make this purchase?

Somali girls stop being so basic, learn from cadan woman, the pay day comes after the mariage when the judge awards you half!

Umm how about both? Mehr before marriage (islamically) then register your marriage and if you divorce your getting half #staywoke

 

[Leila]

I will ask my fiancée 1000 insha allah. Smaller meher and wedding is more blessed.

 

[Muji]

Umm how about both? Mehr before marriage (islamically) then register your marriage and if you divorce your getting half #staywoke

Girl we are gonna eat

 

[AliUK]

I will ask my fiancée 1000 insha allah. Smaller meher and wedding is more blessed.

That's true plus you could also spend money he has saved on an expensive Mehr on going away on holiday which to be honest is better than the wedding.

 

[Mercury]

Whenever Meher is mentioned on Somalispot

 

[Crow]

Before I came to this forum, I thought xalimos were pure creatures who were worth 30k mehr.

After numerous betrayals by ruthless xaarlimos and horrifying displays of depravity, I have reduced the amount to half a rotten apple because that is all a is worth.

 

[Abkaal]

Before I came to this forum, I thought xalimos were pure creatures who were worth 30k mehr.

After numerous betrayals by ruthless xaarlimos and horrifying displays of depravity, I have reduced the amount to half a rotten apple because that is all a is worth.

You have seen the light Rageedi